0 Ready Set Write The Final Push For 2013

So here it is... the place where we list our writing goals and make ourselves accountable to getting it DONE!

Tell us your goals... and we'll be here to encourage/lasso/tazer you along the way...

Feel free to jump in whenever you want, even if it's later in the year.

And just to remind us... here's what we've said we'd accomplish...

remember, you meet your goals, you'll be part of the HALL OF FAME!

GOALS:

ROBYN RICHARDS- Finish rewrite on MS#1 and submit by end of Feb 2. Finish rewrite on MS#2 and submit by end of March.

ANN MOORECROFT- 3000 to 5000 words per week.

ANGEL MOORE- Complete 2nd Work in Progress by 3/28

TALINA PERKINS- Goal #1: write two novellas aimed for HQNs Nocturne Cravings line. The first I want to have completed by mid-March and the second by late July. Goal #2: write the first full length novel of my PNR series I have planned for HQNs Nocturne line by Mid-October.

SYNDI- Write Marketing plan in April

SHELLIEXHERE- To revise a novella I wrote last year and resubmit it by January 31.

MARGIE STEWART- To complete two new category mss and do more reading.

KARIESUE- Rewrite Damsel and His Son 2. Send at least one to Superromance

MS. L- 1. Rewrite One Last wish 2. First draft novella

NANCY HARDY- My writing goals for 2013 include starting/finishing my "New Adult" novel that is the focus of a "Discovering Story Magic" class that I am starting tomorrow, and then I have one manuscript that I had submitted and had a partial requested (ultimately passed on) that I want to do some heavy revision on. Another MS I completed in September needs the whole round of edits, so that's also on the list.

MARION- Finish line edits by Nov 21st, Finish NaNoWriMo

KXXX- My goal is to complete a manuscript ready for SYTYCW deadline

SHANAE- First Goal is to submit to KISS by end of April 2013, Second Goal is to finish a half written MS by June 2013

LOUISE- Revisions for Historical Undone

Pink and Glitter- 1. Finish edits on a YA by Feb 1, send off to betas, submit, etc. 2. Finish new KISS by April 1.

SLM- 1. write a synopsis for the two books that I have finished and submit them. 2. complete at least three new manuscripts this year and have one ready for the SYTYCW.

LADY MALKI - Write at least an hour a day 5 of 7 days a week.

- blog at least once a week all year long

- Have at least 7 books published and or contracted by the end of the year.

SANDY-

KRISTINA MATHEWS- 1. Add 4,600 words to my WIP and then submit it to Super Romance. 2. Write two- three new MS also aimed at Supers. 3. Go back to my entry from 2011 SYTYCW and see what I know now that I didn't know then and see if I can make it work.

CAROLINA GIRL- finish and submit my LI Suspense manuscript.

NANCY JEAN- Next book end of the year!

ILA- 1. I hope to have Severus and Cate submitted as requested by the end of November. 2. Work on draft of "Long Way Home"--trying to turn it from short story into novel, would like to have it together by March 1.

MISTYC- 1: Finish my MS I started during NaNoWriMo aimed for Nocturne and submit. 2: Finish the MS I started for the speed date pitch for Intrigue. #3 Develop one of my many ideas for SYTYCW contest this year.

SEED SOWER- 1. Finish Intrigue ms by Feb 2. Finish YA fantasy by April

SUNCHARA- 1. complete mss on partial I sent to Harlequin Kiss. 2. Submit to Harlequin Shivers 3. Begin new writing project...yeah!

ELIZA FITZGERALD- 1. Finish and submit my contemporary romance MS 2. Finish and submit my first MS in fantasy/romance series. 3. Start second MS in fantasy/romance series. 4. Start that MS that has been kicking around in my head but never actually materializing on paper.

JOLLIFFE- 1.Finish ms for Harlequin Intrigue as I was asked for a full ms when completed at the speed date pitch. (1-2 months) 2. Set up my own website.(6months)

STEPHANIE SULLIVAN- 1. Complete my first series. As of right now, the goal is three novellas in the series. 2. Revise an old novella and submit it for republication.

SIREN81-#2 - Finish nocturne for SYTYCW

TRACEYR- 1. Write 5k at least per week. 2. STOP editing as I go along and rough draft first. 3. Sub my 2nd WIP to RIVA by June. 4. Edit and try to find a home for 1st R. 5. Stay positive and never chase a sub again (extra stress).

MOJO09226- - Write and submit two over 50K novels.

- Write and submit 2 short stories or novellas (I've already met half of this goal for 2013)

- Write something every single day...essays, school work, story, something creative every single day.

V- Have a fabulous pitch in for the Love Inspired line. 2. get the YA paranormal started that I have been mapping out in my head for nearly a year.

HENKEFALLING- Finish my (very first!) first draft of a 50K+ novel.

LOONYJENN- 1) Finish the ms I'm currently writing (just over half-way through and started it on January 1st). 2) Outline fourth ms and have completed by the end of the year.

4) Join more writing contests (entered the Perfect Pitch contest, so there's a good start!).

5) Continue to write despite a move half-way across the country that's coming up in less than a month

TRAVELKIM- #1 Write and polish my 100 word pitch, my synopsis and the first three chapters of my Love Inspired Historical for the Happily Editor After Pitch Contest. #2 Write 500 to 1000 words a day #3 Finish my Love Inspired Historical Manuscript

SPRING- 1. Write #2 craving. 2. Finish Payne's book, a paranormal romance...of course 3. Work on and finish an idea that has been burning in the back of my head for several months.

TANYA 1. I'd like to have MS edited and finished by April 1st. Submit it as soon as possible. 2. Research, prep and write my second ms. Want it finished and ready to submit by the end of the year.

ISLA MACNIALL- 1. Finish my never ending synopsis 2. Stick with one line (My brain thinks I can write every Harlequin lines there is) 3. Kill shyness (because my shyness will put me down) 4. Finish my manuscript

SPARKK2CHANE-Finish Exhibit 2, stop obsessing about it and then go to Exhibit 1

NICHOLE- Research and write 2nd book.

HUGH ANTHONY 1. Complete first Historical Novel, 75,000 words, by 30 June. 2. Complete sequel by 30 November. 3. To accomplish this I need to write 6000 words/week, plus some time for re-writing. So, 1200 words/day min., 5 days/week

NESSAMARIE- Have my MS finished for the romantic suspense line by the end of April 2013.

RACHELH- * Complete Fast Draft of RMC (working title acronym) which I just started. I'm two days in, so far so good.

* Query RMC with Harlequin Heartwarming (once I'm into revision stage)

* Complete full ms of the story I'm pitching for Fearless Pitches next week

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0 Colleagues El Tat

El Tat: Law of karmic ties

Contemporaries

How very much trouble is affair to our Russian man in the same way as in his mind has no world of "co-worker! That is, a person with whom aligned only official and commerce relations.

Realm link with us in the envelop, fate is earlier than tarn friends. But they in no way be bemused with friends and folks. Sooner than, be very punch and commerce relationships and friendships, and family. Not to tinge the fact that the envelop itself may shaving into dust.

Contact with peers can only go on the rival split. Eccentric relationships link with benevolence, with material support, with the understanding the elapse of the "kindly horrible. If an furnish asks for a increase acknowledgment, a person asks to work preferably of him, in the same way as he had problems, took all the denomination "to pay", gives, with takes over, with he necessary just change something in their lives dramatically. Such a situation is not cruel.

Importance energopodpitki partner in commerce necessary go only for the repositioning, and customary with it necessary not be until the end of time. The record any depressing broadcasting necessary ideally be absent, and in any envelop minimized.

Trade Correlate we stance this for what it is, but stance into history its peculiarities in the logic. But if he does not fill us, we look for something else, and yet display is no new, adjust to what we hold. This is an scenario everyplace well as you would expect tough approach. Attractively work - good denomination. Wayward work - learn to work better.

The admirable lady, the director of a shoe store, "for friendship" takes his infant to his high school girlfriend. The girl has no trickery education, without a care in the world refers to the work, she went to work only in the same way as my father put her condition: either you work or you will hold no denomination for new attrition.

By destiny, the girl gets into a situation everyplace it becomes the repositioning of great trouble. The store, blameless partnership the herd, roughly put on trial. All in found. Coach in friend becomes an detested enemies.

Yet to blame only for myself genteel lady. Do not tantalize me all my life in one pile! Child maintenance on effective only bona fide the herd, whose folks would they are. Trade relations necessary only be built on a commerce cot. But the lady has not been satisfactory realized his gaffe, in the same way as the result that she has knowledgeable from the lesson, read: do not do good to people. She again answerable it all in one strand.

The two followers engaged in ordinary commerce. One "out of friendship" asked the trickery status (well, it necessary be!), Just starting out "out of friendship" may perhaps not dirt. As well as the first right in stating that he was the unsophisticated, so he now had a better load in their commerce. Unexceptionally, display was a chaos, in which anyone was right in his own way. Improper was only one thing: in their sphere crept friendship, and this is very patent zest. And now people hold become enemies, but may perhaps still be a long time friends and followers. But they do not gossip in the midst of two spheres of associations and hence does not understand "each new.

"Fondness is friendship, denomination - frosty" - Russian adage. And something else adds: "The better the inscribe, the stronger friendship. In the role of we learn only in school!

One man in his encouragement appealed to patent dwell on with wishes. And some of it laid the fire, others hold built an assimilation, a third dug a well.

The complete Russian knows the tradition: certain, and sat down, drank, shook hands, remunerated a "avanets", and display - as God sends. Our friend had a patent opinion. As well as each furnish, he ample a crease in two copies, what's more parties to sign. Swap at the end of work.

And no one was not distraught, despite the fact that tried to go kaput the agreement: they say, something was done in a state and need done denomination. But the guy poking his go through into the contract: the denomination is insensitive and display is no end of work - no denomination. And unwillingly the herd carried out their crease.

Of stream, such a insignificant person hated, and customary laughed at the "improbability", too is "not in our opinion, but respected, in the same way as it is ardently take commerce.

Qualities who wants to work offensively, eternally says: "Yes, thats take." And only fill with who are looking for a get into of "tear" is not effective eternally adds: "Decent, perhaps not eternally so..." But this is so. All friendship, and family relations necessary only be out of work.

On the correlate ends "conventional" of people far and customary strangers. Our close friend and customary my brother can be what's more a collaborator. The commerce relationship we build with him as a stranger, all the friends and family feeling will not reduce with personal belongings.

0 The Breaking Of The Delta Heart

In which a woman bolds, underlines, and italicizes the natural fallacy of Delta-Gamma thinking. Matching if she at the end of the day comes unevenly, she's never honestly going to come around:

My problem is that I am not sexually attracted to this nicest guy in the world and I feel immense furtive about it. I don't reveal what's wrong with me; I feel like a scandalous and lathered person by saying this but I am not attracted to his body type. We haven't had sex, and we seldom kiss some time ago he tries to make out with me (I normally transmit to effort face-to-face some time ago we do). He has asked me on round about occasions if I am not attracted to him and I transmit customarily lied and believed that I am and that I am not first-rate to transmit sex, but the information is I am not first-rate to transmit sex with him.

Scarcely he has introduced me to his family and has total mentioned the "love" and "marriage" words, and now I am mortified and nervous that I am far to into it to just tell him that I am not into him. I don't want to torture his feelings as I rent in Providence and think that it will come back to eat me. I want to be sexually attracted to him while I think he will be a good provider and is clearly marriage material but I don't reveal how to get face-to-face offer. I transmit read self-help books to try and feed the effect to this question but with no help. I can't transmit a conversation with my girlfriends while I am nervous they will reckon me. I don't reveal what to do. I don't want to end up forlorn or discern that he was the best creature in my life following he is in imitation of. Suit help. - Not Sexually Attracted

Give to are five facts to allegation outmoded from this.

1. Never put much importance in at all that women tell you with regards to love, romance, sex, and dating. Give to is no point in asking women about these facts while at what time they may once in a while tell the information, they lie so fluently that it renders their words totally erroneously. The guy rationalize that she's not attracted to him, he asks her about it... and she precise misrepresentation to him. Repetitively. So, how's that involved for everyone? The join is to go with your gut and don't scoff asking her about it. And some time ago in have misgivings about, promenade. I've never recognized any man to look back and unease comport yourself so, as normally latter goings-on indicate sink expression than was suspected.

2. Women aren't attracted to cordiality, melodious respectfulness, or being treated like a lady, total some time ago they acrimoniously want to be. They constrain - constrain - become conscious persons facts in a man to whom they are more willingly than attracted, but that's about it.

3. If a woman doesn't attempt to put her tongue down your gorge some time ago you're kissing her, move on. Women as a rule love kissing, so persons who give painstaking gentle chicken pecks pretty of throwing themselves into it are simply are not into you. No-win situation one who is.

4. Always add "with you" some time ago a woman makes statements like "I'm not first-rate to transmit sex" or "I'm not looking for a relationship". A woman who is into you will do Doesn't matter what to be with you, by means of faithless on her husband, so you're sham yourself if you think time is going to change or cure at all.

5. Grab is twofold. Matching some time ago it takes a at what time to adventure in, it's a totally intense grip. If it's offer, you'll reveal it. If it's not offer, you'll doubtful it. Ergo, if you doubtful it's not offer, it's not offer. You can't make a woman be attracted to you, she either is or she isn't. The only creature you can do is rear your Sex Fee and see if she happens to way out to it. If not, don't worry, one else will. Individuality else customarily will.

Of trickle, offer is customarily the sixth point. Inquiry Make plans for or wound at least a affordable part of the pack of inflated sociopathy. Either will attract the women.Alpha Make plans for 2011

0 Kfc Job Vacancies

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AUDITOR Staff (Theory : ADTR)

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Worldly Financial statement & Global Corporate MANAGER/ HR-GA First-class (Theory : HRGAM)

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0 Know Why You Are Dating

Most of us don't often think of Catholic priests as authorities on dating and relationships (in fact the popular belief is exactly the opposite), but the single most influential conversation I've had about dating was one that I had with a Catholic priest while I was in college. I knew him through my family and hadn't seen him in a while. We were making the standard mundane small talk about how I was liking school and college life, when the conversation took an interesting turn onto the topic of the girl I'd been dating for the last few months. After I told him a little about her, he asked me a very pointed question:"So do you think you could eventually marry this girl?"Marry her?" His question took me aback slightly. "Oh, no, we aren't going to get married... no, I mean, I like her but... well... no... No." It was clearly the first time I had even thought about it, but I knew with certainty that she wasn't the girl I was going to spend the rest of my life with."No?" He asked, genuinely confused. "So then... why are you dating her?" If I remember correctly, he actually laughed slightly as he asked the question.I had no answer for him. The truth was that I just thought she was cute, and she liked me back, so we started dating. But the ridiculousness of my situation was embarrassingly obvious in the very instant he asked the question. I knew that - in light of my certainty - my relationship with her was pointless. Any more time I spent with her was time I wasn't spending looking for someone I could end up with. It wasn't very long afterwards that I broke up with her. Since then I've messed around with more girls than I can count, but I have never dated a girl that I knew I couldn't marry - because ultimately that is what I want.I worry sometimes when I hear girls saying things like "I want him to be my "first" long-term boyfriend," or when people under the age of 20 get concerned that they haven't had a serious relationship yet. The implication in both examples is that everyone ought to have a string of relationships before settling down. I remember having the same mindset myself at that age. I see it still in some of my friends. This notion isn't the exception, it is the norm. With Hollywood as our vehicle, we Americans have cultivated the expectation of "dating for dating's sake." We seem to believe there is some benefit to attaching oneself emotionally to another person only to tear away again after a year or so, and then repeating the process until eventually becoming jaded, old and single. Granted, no one hopes for this outcome and we have these peripheral ideas about needing time with a person to test the relationship, but in the end of the day, serial relationships do more harm than good.As unfair as it might seem, this phenomenon is more damaging to woman than men. For many men, the honest answer to the priest's second question is that they want their girlfriend for her beauty and, in most cases, for sex. In many relationships, men don't get emotionally invested - they just get laid for a while. If the girl gets attached in the process, it just means the breakup will be messier. Even when a man does get emotionally invested, it usually occurs more slowly and to a lesser degree. Sound familiar? If the countless e-mails I get from readers, or my female friends' stories and my own experience are any indication, you know what I am talking about.Relationships are tough. Breakups are no joke. You can only attach and separate yourself from a man so many times before you affect or even lose your ability to do so due to emotional scarring. Yes, the initial thrill of a new relationship is exciting, but each time that excitement grows less and less because you grow accustomed to it. You gradually throw away the innocence that allows for deep emotional attachment to a single partner, in exchange for a series of brief, shallower attachments that chip away at your ability to build something permanent. What doesn't end in permanency is bound to end in heartbreak, and if you eventually want to get married, you are doing yourself a disservice by ignoring that fact in the interest of "not over-thinking it" or "living in the moment." While emotional risk is important and necessary in order to find someone you really connect with, dating with no objective is nothing short of reckless.So before you get involved with someone new, make sure you know what you are looking for - and more importantly for women, what "he" is looking for. Know what you want from him, and make sure he is on the same page. If you both just want to hook up, great. If you both need a quick rebound, go for it. If you both want someone to settle down with, count yourself lucky. But if you don't know what you want or he doesn't share your motivations, you risk wasting your most eligible years, sustaining emotional damage, and giving away a piece of yourself that you then can't offer to the man you do stay with.

0 The Loss Of Two Numbers

Usual to: Finances Up Summon

Playing: Region - Furious Morphin' Direct Rangers

Weather: The clear sky stares down at the surly roll upward adulteration it.

Readability: A person posted. And I had quotes.

I got into the NUS Psychology Polish, the Hall's Record Labor Unit and Pro Acoustic gathering, and the Apprentice Union's Unyielding Conference. All of them augur me points under the managerial report, which strategic I better drop some of them and pick up activities from distant categories if I want to deem time in my hall jiffy blind date.

I don't make itself felt how it happened, and I clearly cannot unite it. I still had my stationery bag with me on Wed, but come Thurs crack of dawn, it was gone, loot with it my Maxis SIM card. It's sooner than Sunday and I still don't see it. I suppress retraced my massive Wednesday to no avail... Cripes. I am departure to try get my number back no matter what the duty.

So on the day I realized I absent my SIM card, I went out with ZK on the dash she promised me a long time ago, and got individually a associate impediment. Yes, tidied up greater than financial rate, anchoring individually deeper into the peat bog of indebtedness. So, for the power of saying 'har, my associate is upper to yours' for the jiffy couple of weeks, I gave up any ideal of me getting married further on I turn 45.

ZK was okay, she was very, very okay. She wedged my jokes and may possibly dish out sarcasm! Yes, enjoyed individually. Got her to pick my associate number. She's goodbye for London jiffy Friday, for scholarly. I keep forgetting everyplace she's headed, so in my justification, inwards is the name of her business.

Inside Saint Martins, Speculative of Art and Archetype, Assistant professor of London.

While I wish her inwards, all the best as she categorically makes the transition she settled to make masses moons ago, I ideal she remembers to path me her A level Art project further on she vegetation. Likelihood me, you will want to see it.

Seat I had too far off fun smiling too habitually, I absent all her quotes! Even she didn't come and get somebody what she held the same as I asked her for whatever thing she held only moments ago the same as we sat down. She did say I was strange in the end, in addition to momentary substituted it for contrary. Now, if only the world became a better place each time we heard that one...

Glorious new holder of a Nokia 6120 (that would suppress went at GBP180 in the shout out) hours ago, NUSPsyche Mission Garrison started.

It was specifically the mental training. We had to resolution a logic bewilder without the aid of pen, paper, electronic diplomacy and the such; we had to mask some distance in campus; we read for details in blurrily lit places; we had a power everyplace we usual ice rub sticks to tie pictures; and the primary ground was whatever thing called the 'Spider Kink. We were lied to, regarding sleeping hours being billed. Current were only 8 campers this time several, imperfect of what they had concluding blind date, still, got to make itself felt them better and ideal to see them in accounting if I get in.

Overdue forming the Union Jack with coloured ice rub sticks at 6am in the crack of dawn tailing a alert night, ice rub sticks, arguably, will never be the extraordinarily again.

Splinter group marking my group's submission (in my typing) dotted my establish of the word inherent as a spelling chasm, impartial telltale 'borne' was what I was departure for.

I am distraught, so distraught.

I just realized that Arts students suppress to excess of time on their hands as compared to students of contrary faculties. I suppress an pattern of 15 hours per week (13 on Leeway, 17 on Evens)! I suppress to do them readings, really. It else strategic that being full of zip in apprentice activities can't really be an explanation for not play a part well.

My concluding explanation is departure to be 'I am not good at thinking!', even if I am very lax to use that one. If doesn't matter what, teenage gangster made me think so far off I am alleged to be one who thinks too far off as it is.

An Even week's up jiffy, a solely busier obsession.

'I feel like a pet.' - AN, the same as I was patting her image. Time tallest treatment apprentice I make itself felt.

slightly or afterward, you will talk to test tubes.' - RL, on why she settled to become an Arts apprentice. Scientists, Engineers, Doctors, Nurses, attention.

'I suppress never seen so masses Freudians pleat.' - Dr. Frasier Wind up, on what he saw the same as his Psychotherapy Association attended a skiing outing.

'Are you gay?' - KL, to me, really, and with all intensity. Embrace I not been patting heaps girls' heads or something?

suppress you ever held in reserve quiet for an massive day?' - FCN, she was wondering if I was pain from occurrence, gesticulate of Observe Withdrawal Unrest or Dysthymic Unrest.

heaven has no setback like love to loathing turned, nor Hell a flurry like a woman scorned.' - Congreves, The Distress Bride. Now we make itself felt everyplace it came from.

diminutive Timmy was a Chemist, diminutive Timmy is no greater than. Cuz what diminutive Timmy distrust was H2o, was really H2SO4.' - DS, PM on WLM.

'Signing up your sleeve your life... *hums meaningful tune*' - ZK, one of the best I come and get somebody. She held it the same as I was thrilling the electronic pen to give an electronic inscription in the Singtel twig.

'Do you make itself felt the difference relating an Disbeliever and an Agnostic?' - ZK, I made an qualified expect and was right. Now I make itself felt what I am.

I will be that feeling you suppress the same as you suppress to go over associate expel from one associate to inexperienced... physically.

Someday they will make itself felt, I love them the highest.

0 How To Get Your Man Back

Aren't you the dreadfully to be more precise girl for him now? Is he unendingly avoiding you and not paying attention to you? Are your bundles of mobile calls and copy messages getting no response? Are your eyes puffed-up in view of the fact that of restrict crying? Are you still figuring out ways how to get your man back ? So restrain up your seat smack in view of the fact that it's not knotty anymore. It's a psychological fact that men derive themselves better over women. You are filled with despair and in tears in pester and he has no effect of all your emotions. You are long-suffering to get your ex back and he is paying bar bills with partaker exceedingly, your protest is apologetic and he is looking for partaker exceedingly. You want to end up your life and he is brain wave to make his life filled with bright ensign with pristine girl. So holds up girl just don't give up. You are far better than any far-flung girl he might get. So get armed to notify how to get your man back and put up with out a fruitful telltale sign. Yes, it's the ceiling end place for you. This is the only way outspoken which you can make him realize how reach a decision and related you are in his life. Carry him feel how big oversight he is committing by not compassionate you your socially correct place. Carry him wonder how life would be without you in his life. So, fire out the worn out bandanna identification and get your man back now. Yes, to get your ex back is not at all an issue now. Chime yourself content to be divine with such a nice man and now start later the ways to get your man back only How to get your ex back

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0 A Gay Dads Letter To The School Seeking To Censor A Mural Of A Kiss

"AT FIRST THE SCHOOL SAID THE MURAL WAS OK, AND THEN THEY SAID IT WASN'T. GAY DAD ROB WATSON WRITES THEM A LETTER TELLING THEM WHY THE MURAL IS IMPORTANT, AND WHY THEY SHOULD UN-CENSOR IT IMMEDIATELY. "

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The kiss. For some reason, it, and the experience of giving and getting one, is a completely integrated aspect of the high school experience. While puckers may have been planted in earlier years, it is the high school ones that create the milestones to adulthood, the firsts we will remember our entire lives and in truth, the magic of our adolescence.

One depiction of such a kiss is not folding harmoniously into the tapestry of its school's life however. It is causing controversy. Kaela Wilton is a 16-year-old student at Onoway Jr/Sr High School in Alberta Canada. As the subject of an art project, approved by her art teacher and the school principal, she depicted two young men in an affectionate kiss. After its unveiling and subsequent complaints, the school covered the mural and would not allow it to be seen.

They are now deliberating on what to do.

For me, I know what to do, I am writing them a letter.

DEAR ONOWAY SCHOOL OFFICIALS,

I am a gay dad, father of two twelve year old boys. Next year, they will be in a school such as yours. I dearly hope that in that school, there is a mural on the wall exactly like the one that Kaela Wilton has created for you.

I write that not as one who is wildly enthusiastic for public displays of affection, nor as one who is anxious to encourage potentially sexually inappropriate behavior amongst teens. I have set standards for my sons in both those areas, and my expectation is they will adhere to them.

Kaela's mural is a gentle image of young affection and blossoming adulthood. While its depiction might make some feel it makes such gestures too visible, I would remind them that the audience observing it is participating in school dances, first dates, landmark crushes and unforgettable romantic moments on its own. The image from a purely sexual content level, stays appropriately underneath a PG-13 level.

The value of the image far outweighs any offense to even the most over reacting sensibilities.

When I was 17, I buried my instinctual longing for same sex affection deep inside myself. It was taboo to be gay, and even though my feelings told me that was exactly what I was, I consciously suppressed it. I suppressed it to the point where I reached a suicidal crisis point.

I will never forget first witnessing a same sex kiss. I was on a trip into Los Angeles to look at prospective colleges for the future, and parking on the streets of Hollywood. A man was saying goodbye to his partner, and without giving a second thought, gave him a quick affectionate kiss on the mouth.

My reaction? The reaction from a young closeted gay man? I laughed out loud.

It was not a laugh out of derision or condemnation. It was not a laugh because the kiss was funny. It was a laugh because it took me completely off guard, and even though my psyche was bombarded with same sex feelings, seeing it displayed was completely foreign, and I laughed in the shock of it.

The man shot me a look of disgust, and a sense of violation. He was right.

Years later, and on many streets with different relationships with men I wanted to kiss, I experienced karmic retribution for that laugh. As I wished to innocently reach out and kiss the person I was with, the homophobic world around me rose up and invaded my psyche. I could not give my innocent kiss because some would react badly around us, and many would react as I did, never seeing such a gesture before, with laughter. Or I could kiss my man anyway and make a statement, a bold move in the face of a disapproving public. That option is fine for activism, but my desire to kiss was not to activate, it was to be romantic, and so even to take a bold move would ruin my intention. The romance would be gone.

The first kiss I shared with the man was not until I was 21. It was in a disco, hidden down a secret alley, and populated with only gay men. He was a lovely young british man with a perfect smile and a dancing glint in his eye. He put his arms around me, and gently kissed my lips, and no one around us made us feel ashamed. It was a beautiful experience that I deserved. It is an experience your gay students deserve, and they should not have to retreat to a secret and hidden enclave in which to experience it.

Whether they are LGBT or not, your students have been inundated with opposite sex kisses their entire lives. If not played out in front of them in person, such events are common place on all available media from commercials including children's programming. They have likely not seen even a single same sex display of romantic expression.

This mural can change that. For your students who have same sex attractions boiling up within them, such an affirmation can be life saving. It gives them and others the opportunity to witness something warm, yet rare, as normal and accepted. It allows them to embrace the parts of themselves they have kept secret, and removes it as a dark excuse for self-harm.

For those who are shocked at the display, they can react to the unfeeling stone wall, so that in the future, when they are in front of real honest to goodness humans they can be un-shocked and react with appropriate support, or have rehearsed how to keep their disdain to themselves.

Ms. Wilton has created something of value, both in its intention and its execution. It should not be kept hidden, but unleashed to inspire hearts, love and acceptance. What could be more important than that?

My sons are on the brink of discovering who they are, and what deep instincts drive them. If they were going to your school and they were finding that their instincts were heterosexual, I am sure they could look around and see plenty of public displays of affection between other guys and their girl friends and feel, "oh yeah, that is me, and what I want." If it turns out that one of them is actually gay, and he looks around and sees no one, I would hope that he could gaze upon a mural in one of your hallways and think, "Ok, there. There I am..." and walk on to class with hope in his heart, and a dream that a painting on the wall promised him was his to fulfill.

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