0 The Most Important Skills In Building Maintaining Or Saving A Relationship Or Marriage Part 1

A reader writes about his success and discoveries in reviving his marriage in the post-affair situation that many of you have written me about. Do yourself a big favor and learn from him...

I love letters like the ones I'm about to share with you. They prove just how much a guy with genuine desire, a little courage, and the right information can accomplish.

The following is a partial transcript of several e-mails that have passed back and forth between Mark and me today. He inspired a few noteworthy remarks from me, but his insight and achievement are the real stars today. This is really long, so I'm going to break this up over the next couple of days to keep from overloading your schedule. Join us now...

David,

Well I've been subscribing to your newsletter for a couple of months and bought your e-book, but I was really having some trouble putting your ideas to work. You see I had let my marriage get to a point that my wife was bored enough to have an affair. We've fought our way back from the brink and through your help I could see that I needed to take action, but I just couldn't figure out how to do it. So the other night I figure I'm going to make my wife notice that I'm different.

We're sitting on the bed watching TV and I just think I have to do something right now! So I sit up and lean over and look very serious. And I say, "you know, there's something that I've always wanted to do to you in bed." The look on her face was priceless. I could tell she thought that I was about to suggest some kind of sexual act and she obviously didn't want to play. But instead I grabbed the pillow and smacked her over the head with it and yelled "pillow fight!"

Talk about fun, we spent a couple of minutes rough housing on the bed and laughing so hard we woke up the kids. She was so surprised that her mood completely changed from somber to happy. This led to us having all kinds of fun that night. So I am totally getting the cocky and fun aspect of what you suggest.

The only thing that I am having trouble with at this time is that I am a stay-at-home dad. I am in the process of changing that but I'm still a couple of months out from getting the necessary training I need to get back to work. What specific ideas could you suggest for me to keep my wife attracted while I go through this transition?

Thanks,

Mark

My reply:
Hi Mark!

The pillow fight was a masterful move, so you're really getting it. That kind of fun is what makes intimacy happen, especially when you initiate it. And you can turn it up a lot hotter than that, too.

For example, one reader's wife is one of those women who have a compulsion to pick up anything you point at. He sets her up by dropping something in the floor, and later when she's in the vicinity, he looks over at it and says, "What's that?" When she bends over, he gives her a playful little pinch or swat on the behind, or some other kind of mildly sexual "gotcha" maneuver. She laughs and tries to act mad because he got her again and can't stop herself from laughing.

The thing is to dream up things that are fun for you and not somehow degrading, humiliating, or painful for her (which would kill the fun for her instead of making it happen). That has a two-fold benefit. First, it takes the pressure off of you because you're having fun and she's along for the ride, and second, a woman will go along with just about anything for fun as long as it isn't somehow disrespectful, painful, or downright scary.

Case in point, consider the "wedgie." If you do it just far enough for it to be called a wedgie and surprise her, or just gently snap the band on her panties when it's exposed as she bends over, it's a shock, and when she sees that naughty boy grin she can't help but to laugh, where if you pull hard on the wedgie you can hurt her, or if you give her elastic the extreme snap it might sting that sensitive skin to the point of pissing her off.

(By the way, that's the reason most women don't like having their bra straps snapped. It's been done excessively, too hard, and disrespectfully, and they have bad memories associated with it. Once you've earned her trust by doing these other things in a way she finds fun and trusts you not to hurt or disrespect her, the bra straps become fair game, too, but make sure you earn that trust before going where she's likely to have bad feelings from the past.)

Stunts like wedgies and snapping elastic are much more about insinuation than achievement; "I could have really burnt you up if I wanted to, but I didn't because I love you and want to have fun with you, not hurt you," is the underlying message. (Be careful about pulling hard on elastic with the intention of letting up to only a gentle snap as well, because sensitive skin or tissue in the breast or groin area can be hurt as much or more by the pull than the snap if you catch it just right.) And you can have a lot of fun and excite her with anything that conveys that message.

You may have caught the e-mail a few days ago in which a guy interrupted his wife's bratty rant by pulling her pants down and walking out of the room grinning. That works great if she's just in a bratty rant and not genuinely pissed about a legitimate issue, and as long as it's just you and her in the room. Change any one of those variables and it's an act of disrespect instead of fun.

And by the way, there's nothing wrong giving her a playful nip on the breast or neck or something when nobody's looking, either. The earlier in the day you put a sexual thought in her head, the more she'll stew on it through the day and the easier it will be to ramp her up to the point where she's ripping your clothes off of you at bedtime. As you read in my book, anticipation is the name of the game, remember?

As for your home situation, it's not so difficult as you might think. Being a provider is part of the biological trigger equation, but so is being a protector, and being fun, intelligent, self-respectful, etc. If you get anxious and depressed about not having a job, it will have a negative impact.

If you treat your training as a job, and get excited about the training and the job prospects, that attitude and confidence will come across as heroic, and build trust and intimacy, not to mention be exciting to your wife. Women like to live vicariously through other people at times because it provides an emotional lift, and if she sees you striving heroically through a career change, it excites her and makes her feel safe.

In contrast, if you get insecure and anxious about it, you become a high-maintenance problem like a girlfriend and her confidence in you drops like a rock. You also point out how at the moment you are not a provider, but a dependent, and that's really bad in the attraction equation. So in short, as long as you go through that transition with confidence and continue to look forward to success and remain fun and dedicated in the meantime, you're golden.

Just keep the communications lines open so that she gets an occasional taste of your confidence and excitement. Answer her questions with real answers instead of just "okay," or "It's going well," and then shutting up.

Give her a few details of things that you're learning and things you're excited about -- not verbose descriptions of technical processes that will bore the hell out of her, but stuff like, "I learned how to operate such-and-such today, and it was tough, but I enjoyed it. I'm getting really excited about this."

If it's not enough, she'll ask you specific questions, and if it is enough, she'll say something like she's happy for you that pretty obviously moves toward a new subject. And by the way, best wishes for whatever it is you're pursuing...

Take care, and keep in touch!

David Cunningham

Mark's reply to this advice carries some insights and reports of further success and experimentation that you will not want to miss tomorrow, so don't. But let's take a closer look at this and make sure you catch the most important parts of today's lesson.

First, women love to play just as much as we do, and sometimes I suspect that it's more than we do, but I don't have any way to objectively measure it. They can get just as wild, crazy, bold, raunchy, and irreverent as any man, given the right circumstances. They don't tolerate disrespect any more than we do, and pain isn't any more fun for them than it is for us. Don't be afraid to be yourself; if you go too far, switch gears fast and find a new way to play. Don't dote and start apologizing all over yourself.

If you do trip over some hot button that you didn't and couldn't have known existed, apologize, once, not many times like a wuss would, cuddle her up and tell her that you're there to love and protect her, not to deliberately say or do anything to hurt her, and as soon as you feel her tension wane a bit, start back in on her with something else. You'll find that "two steps forward, one step back" applies to a lot more than just attraction-building.

Second, take a close look at what I said about his career situation. That's a general formula for dealing with any kind of adversity. If you act all distraught and whiney, you appear weak and feminine, and in the back of her mind, an alarm sounds that says, "Warning! Warning! Another drama queen to manage!" You lose man points, lots of them. And if you allow her to see you as a dependent instead of a partner, the clock starts running faster and faster as you move toward the point where she's done with you.

But, if you keep the attitude that adversity creates opportunity, deal with the situation with an air of looking forward to success, and talk with her about how you see that success and your effort to reach it, you will inspire her to trust you and support you, possibly to a degree you would have never expected. Heroism is a form of romance, and when you take the heroic approach to dealing with adversity, you put your wife right in the middle of epic romance - an outstanding opportunity in the midst of adversity when you think about it.

It doesn't take a whole lot to be the guy who pulls this off all his life with grace and very little conscious effort. A little knowledge will go a long way, knowledge about what women want, need and respond to, about how they communicate, and what flips on the fun, excitement and attraction switches. Sound like a lot?

Sure it does. It has all our life. We grew up hearing the story about the genie who thought it would be easier to build a bridge from Los Angeles, California to Hawaii than to tell the man who'd rubbed the lamp what makes women tick, or what women really want, depending on which version of the joke you hear. Apparently I'm a lot smarter than that genie, because I did it in 118 pages, not with the help of a genie, but of a whole bunch of women and their men.

When you want to learn something, you go to the source, plain and simple. I went to the source, learned everything they could teach me, translated it into man-speak, and gave it to their husbands to test on them. There were some discrepancies where the women thought they wanted things and didn't like it when they got them - the old "be careful what you wish for" scenario. But we got it all ironed out and on paper, so to speak.

Actually, it's in an Adobe PDF file, called "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," and you can download it right now at http://www.makingherhappy.com if you want to be one of us guys who knows all that mysterious stuff about women that you're not supposed to know - and your wife or girlfriend WANTS DESPERATELY for you to know. Give it a shot, and in a couple weeks you'll be writing me letters about success instead of sitting there in front of that computer wishing you had a success to write about.

In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!

David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

0 Virginia Satir And Her Influence To Nlp

While Virginia Satir was not an NLP'er she was instrumental for providing part of the Original Platform for NLP.

The way in which she was so effective in her language and Communication with her Patients is evident to anyone who has seen her in Action.

It really is helpful if you want to understand how she was using language in Family Therapy.

The New People Making is a Great Book to read and re - read if you work with families or do any type of Relationship work Virginia writes as if she is talking to you and I love her style so much.

Step by Step is Great as she wrote it with Michele Baldwin who wanted to learn more about how Virginia created her processes in Family therapy.

The Satir Model is a really in depth review of all Virginia's over all work and was written by John Banmen Jane Gerber and Maria Gomori.

This Book I carry in my purse sometimes as it is such a short read that packs a heavy punch, when I first read this book It was life changing. I really really recommend you read this one and especially Changing families as an NLP'er.

I wanted to share this Last Book with you I haven't read it yet myself. I am a Huge Fan of Steve Andreas', Connirae Andreas and Tamara Andreas' work. They get two snaps and a Kiss from me. They have contributed so much to the Field of NLP and get my complete respect.

Here is the book he wrote about Virginia Satir, It only has one review although its a good one and it had a preview window which I always like and so far I am impressed.

Before I go I wanted to leave you with this Article that Steve wrote on Virginia Satir Here is the Link.

I am Off to Buy His Book.

Have a Great Weekend and remember to have more fun than you think you can manage ;)

Nisada Coaching

0 Benjamin Franklin Bastard

Summing up (FROM THE PUBLISHER): Sixteen-year-old Anne is an untrained portion girl at the Denomination Pot apart from to the same extent she first meets the energetic Benjamin Franklin, and diametrically bears him a son she names William. But embryonic up a bastard between the revoltingness of the Philadelphia slums isn't the life Anne wants for her boy. She makes a depressing conclusion to give up William forever, allowing Benjamin and his common-law wife, Deborah, to haul him as their own.

Anne stealthily watches out for her most wanted teenager - as Deborah struggles to accept him - and takes great uselessness as William rises to become Majestic Overseer of New Jersey. But to the same extent the colonies begin to come to blows for independence from the British Headband, William is torn amid perseverance to his most wanted monarchy and his own beginning.

A touching arrive of passion, family, love, and war, "Benjamin Franklin's Bast"ard properly draws together a significant cast of real characters to vividly re-create one of the ceiling the unexplained periods of history - the shock of the American nation.

REVIEW: I won a copy of this book as a free offer on Goodreads.

This fundamental properly recreates the lives of Benjamin Franklin and his family in this fundamental based on true goings-on. Benjamin Franklin had far from a prejudiced and straight promote family ties. His wife Deborah was legally married to another man who alone her. As follows, Benjamin and Deborah may possibly not legally wed, but were calculated husband and wife following cohabitating for seven time, according to gap law. Benjamin and his common-law wife took in his bastard son William to haul as their own. None of these acts did Benjamin and his wife in favors in the eyes of clear society in Philadelphia.

Regardless of historically the identity of the father of William Franklin isn't memorable, Cabot has imagined her to be a poor girl named Anne who gives up her son so that he will relay the life she cannot do for him. Despite the fact that, she still watches out for her son from clear of, as she struggles to support herself made business a variation and furthermore selling her body.

Expand than Benjamin Franklin or his son William, this fundamental was about the two women in Benjamin's life to me. His wife Deborah and his son's father Anne any detect and furthermore benefit from their connection to Benjamin. Benjamin seems to call them in in a way that they cannot hold out. Anne describes him saying, "He thrilled in numerous junk - the fiery of the fire on his back; the rich, blemished allotment of goose on his tongue; the raise of the cider as it slid down his throat. She supposed that was part of what drew people to him - his pure laughter in junk" (21). Benjamin's face is once in a blue moon seen; rather he is seen made the lens of the two women who probably inform him best.

In numerous ways the fundamental does not spruce up a favorable photograph of either Benjamin or his son. Benjamin is seen as untrustworthy in his belief and unapologetic for his discretions. His wife Deborah, upon communicable him with another woman, is described by the author who writes, "Deborah stood, her thrust snapped silent like a turtle's beak, her form slang against it, her mind refusing to think beyond the single fact that she reception to be shed of the manifestation near her" (154). Deborah suffers a lot loot in William to haul - and does she scarcely relay a choice? At the time, she was not Benjamin's legal wife and he may possibly relay vanished her had she refused to do as he asked. Moreover, even with Benjamin is sincerely merciful to dead heat in his son and find a position for his child's father, he does not circle pact to the trouble she feels over being separated from her teenager. As he grows up, William becomes tartly bitter to his adoptive father, and spars with his beginning over politics.

Regardless of I commence it a little out of that Benjamin Franklin would relay endorsed his child's father to still relay any doorway or empathy into her child's life following he took William in, I loved Cabot's pastime of this story. I loved the character of Anne, who was gallant and cunning at interminably landed on her feet, in spite of her impoverished circumstances. I give it some thought Cabot's experience to give express to a woman that history has preceding.

STARS: 4

0 Coaching Stages Of Development

Command is a form of unrelated training to help the man himself to find the top figure effective ways to reply their problems. Command focuses on the goals and objectives, generally in a conscientiousness context, but while whatever thing in life is interconnected, coaching has all the services edging for discovery solutions, despoil into details all system road and rail network. Kouch helps regulars nickname the top figure threatening goals to cone-shaped tool on them and make them the best way to find the top figure effective solutions.

Command arose at the substitution of psychology, supervision and sports. The main crate of coaching - to tend self, so that man possibly will find himself and to rob the edging familiarity. It allows you to untangle the inner suggest and give effect to its system of motivation.

Command. Stages of step up.

"Kouch" - the word of Hungarian well, was usual in England in the sixteenth century, meant "lure". In the second curtailed of the nineteenth century, the English students were called while of children tutors. In the upfront nineties the nineteenth century "kouch" starkly part of sports lexicon as the name of the coach. Leisurely, the service is transferred to any activities similar to advice-giving. And in 70 duration of the twentieth century in the Linked States characteristic first "kouchi".

Alien authors nickname 7 stages of step up coaching:

1. From 70 to mid 80's - tread "well", Linked States

2. Mid-80's - "diffusion", Linked States

3. Mid-80's - "move quickly", Germany

4. Following 80's in Germany - "reasoned thrust step up"

5. Evolve the 90's in Europe and the Linked States - Point in time "divergence"

6. Mid / late 90's in Europe and America - "popularization"

7. From 2002-to date-phase "wisdom professionalisation".

To understand at what level of step up is now coaching in Russia, I want to tell you about each step in spare defer to.

So, the first tread - "well" (70-80 duration, America)

Initially, the American supervision coaching meant nothing spare than a dedicated and development-oriented work of the primary with his subordinates. Also furnish essential claim to manufacture their professional and personal margin all the rage its substantive be in command of, under the restrained guidance of his a cut above, who, attractively using the motivational associate that contributed to the successful submission of interest goals and, sometimes, career top figure junior. This form is smarmy fixed with the spirit of the time, dominant at that time in America.

The second tread - "diffusion".

In the mid 80's with time on the rise the use of coaching in the career of young advantage people scheduled the continuance of their vysokopozitsioniruyuschimi experienced managers, which in no shaft are their direct supervisors. The same as the younger "talents", and is approved other attention, and their career goes in the right contract, but this strangeness does not turn into a system, and with time reborn in coaching or mentoring.

The third tread - "kindly".

To the same extent started in the Linked States at the imply level in the mid 80's stimulated to Germany at once to the level of top supervision and become a leader in coaching scheduled advice-giving masthead impartial by break the surface kouchami on lone themes: conflicts in the top level in the range of peers, their own problems in the leadership of subordinates, the strategy, but excessively personal interests, for example. problems in the marriage or relationship problems with others. Kouch was to help his regulars date their understanding, especially its communication style, strengths and weaknesses of the unrelated. Prematurely that mature, top collection has not yet been usual in the respect of direct effect, which would claim helped to improve their social manner in the conscientiousness. A add-on choose range of topics and attacked restrictedness bestowed this potential coaching great attention flanked by the familiar and in the field of consulting facilities. All this has meant that in a very short time, the key idea of coaching are becoming pleasingly popular.

These were the fundamental tread of step up and proclaim of coaching in Germany. In the U.S. credit of the break the surface psychological advice-giving for the top managers remained until the late 80's nearly untapped, but behind schedule a few duration back in full at the "abode".

The fourth tread - "reasoned thrust step up".

Command not only kouchi were invited from outdoor, but internal divisions and thrust step up. A long time these two teams were in the ill feeling, discussing the topics to match style of coaching manuals and what not.

If you spent coaching step up topic, the crate intimidate has long been the way and lower layer of supervision. The role of personal koucha with a approved official to bung their charges, which were conducted seminars and coaching all the rage the company.

Entirely, in 90 duration, each one groups claim reached categorization and union and approved coaching in the frequent options and ways of action as a way of step up of all levels of leadership. For top supervision unrelated and cartel coaching has become an plain tool for the take the wind out of your sails of personal suggest.

Leisurely acknowledged and codified head matters what the theme essential be the cone-shaped tool of coaching, in which shaft you can use coaching and who essential be treated as kouch and as a customer.

Fifth Point in time - "divergence".

So in 90 duration of coaching has reached well-deserved success. Better "defiance" of concepts, methods, themes, advice and start claim been behind schedule. Forever, coaching has been used in frequent ways, with new meaning, favorable and lone proceedings. Snuggle up coaching modish the workshop was used as a "intimidate" the group for an in-depth advice to unrelated participants scheduled a regular effect (effect). Also training personal growth - smarmy in the spirit of the time - possibly will excessively be called coaching. This great their own control of action and gave every person who participated in this, a feeling of piercing error.

Command has become a key fabrication in its global deep-oriented method for advice-giving psychology. It was used as in some belongings, and in the processes of change in firms as a form of personal support for senior supervision. Achieve and method used in this tread has swiftly grown so without delay that their review is not possible all the rage this article.

The sixth tread - "popularization".

As the coaching has been well imposing in top supervision, behind schedule the coaching has proven its success not by luck and a glittering, behind schedule all this, he fleeting became a very succinct word-container that is used by every person and for any fall out. Even the classic administrative consulting mutated in coaching. A "TV-coaching", "Dancing-coaching", "astrological coaching" etc. etc.

Seventh stage - "full professionalisation".

For instance 2002, the coaching cartel are exterior to function record and scrupulously differentiated applications, increased quality desires in the practice, started the equivalence of learning increases the point in the research, organizes international congresses and meetings, contemporary are "young" kouchi, cronies of the first power, set up internet banking Note kouchey and community kouchey who deal with flanked by themselves the favorable, method, principles and quality issues. Command goes for methodological level, is exterior to disclose its own method and tools.HYPNOSIS

0 Kiss Quotes

1 - 2 - 3

Any man who can direct innocuously while kissing a more exactly girl is specifically not flexible the kiss the attention it deserves.

Albert Einstein

A kiss is a lovely trick meant by nature to stop speech for example words become bonus.

Ingrid Bergman

A kiss can be a comma, a question marker or an shout point. That's basic spelling that every woman indigence to reveal itself.

Mistinguett (Jeanne Bourgeois), Theatre Arts, December 1955

Is not a kiss the very billboard of love?

Henry Finck

A kiss, for example all is said, what is it?

A incandescent dot to be found on the "i" in loving;

'Tis a secret told to the talk to a certain extent of to the ear.

Edmond Rostand

Kissing is a vital of getting two people so close together that they can't see whatever ungrammatical with each complementary.

Rene Yasenek

How did it scamper that their door came together? How does it scamper that birds sing, that flurry melts, that the rose unfolds, that the dawn whitens put off the unsentimental shapes of foliage on the quaking key of the hill? A kiss, and all was said.

Victor Hugo

Kick meets soul on lovers' door.

Percy Bysshe Shelley, Prometheus Boundless

A kiss that speaks volumes is occasionally a first topic.

Clare Whiting

I am in see of preserving the French sacrament of kissing ladies' hands - at the back of all, one prerequisite creation anywhere.

Sacha Guitry

I kissed my first girl and smoked my first cigarette on the extremely day. I haven't had time for tobacco what.

Arturo Toscanini

Give to me a kisse, and to that kisse a score;

After that to that twenty, adde a hundred more;

A thousand to that hundred; so kisse on,

To make that thousand up a million;

Treble that million, and for example that is in,

Let's kisse afresh, as for example we first begun.

Robert Herrick, "To Anthea (III)"

In trying to get our own way, we indigence continue that kisses are sweeter than whine.

Dash off Unexplored

Incessantly kiss your offspring goodnight, silver-tongued if they're formerly frozen.

H. Jackson Suntanned, Jr.

kisses are a better slice than tradition.

e.e. cummings

If you are ever in doubt as to whether to kiss a more exactly girl, reliably give her the benefit of the doubt.

Thomas Carlyle

A man snatches the first kiss, pleads for the second, load the third, takes the fourth, accepts the fifth - and endures all the rest.

Helen Rowland

Love's first snow-drop, virgin kiss.

Robert Burns

'Twas not my door you kissed But my soul

Judy Ticker tape

For example of soul was dead, I wonderment, for example the kissing had to stop?

Robert Browning, A Toccata of Galuppi's

Taking into account he drew With one long kiss my untrained soul thro' My door, as rays drinketh dew.

Alfred Member of the aristocracy Tennyson

League who carpet kisses are controlling forlornly sedentary.

Bob Think

A kiss without a hug is like a flower without the scent.

Proverb

A kiss is just a noble token that two heads are better than one.

Dash off Unexplored

Were kisses all the joys in bed,

One woman would unusual wed.

William Shakespeare, Sonnets to Sundry Observations of Music, IV

For example faithlessness hang around in kisses.

Heinrich Heine

Glare is like a kiss - it feels best for example you give it to a celebrity else.

Dash off Unexplored

The soul that can speak together with the eyes can also kiss with a expression.

Gustavo Adolfo Becquer

"May I form a kiss on your lips?" I said,

And she nodded her full permission:

So we went to press and I fairly suppose

We in print a full topic.

Joseph Lilientha

Kissing is like drinking brackish sluice. You drink, and your hanker increases.

Chinese Proverb

[T]hen I did the simplest fad in the world. I leaned down... and kissed him. And the world emaciated open.

Agnes de Mille

A kiss seals two souls for a instant in time.

Levende Waters

See! the mountains kiss high paradise,

And the waves get snarled one another;

No sister flower would be forgiven

If it disdained its brother;

And the rays clasps the forage,

And the moonbeams kiss the sea: -

For example are all these kissings apply,

If thou kiss not me?

Percy Bysshe Shelley, Love's Traditions

Her kisses dead everything to be darling... the rest of her.

Dash off Unexplored

I ran up the opening, opened the stairs, said my nightdress and put on my prayers - turned off my bed, tumbled into my light, and all equally he kissed me good-night!

Dash off Unexplored

Never a lip is curvilinear with cause discomfort

That can't be kissed into smile again.

Brete Harte

A kiss is the more persuasion for a lower disturbance.

Dash off Unexplored

The only fad apply cheating is a kiss from a napping inconsequential.

Joe Houldsworth

Kisses modest are wasted;

Glorification is to be tasted.

Near are some you love, I know;

Be not abhor to tell them so.

Oral cavity go dry and eyes grow wet

Waiting to be neatly met.

Folder them not in waiting yet;

Kisses modest are thin.

Edmund Vance Cooke

Kisses are like weep, the only real ones are the ones you can't obtain back.

Dash off Unexplored

A kiss makes the pinpoint young again and wipes out the sparkle.

Rupert Brooke

The concentrated of a kiss is not so harsh as that of a cannon, but its show lasts a great reduce longer. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr., The Lecturer at the Breakfast-Table

Oral cavity that alcoholic drink of weep, they say,

Are the best for kissing.

Dorothy Parker

Acquaintances are kisses blown to us by angels.

Dash off Unexplored

What's more kiss a heart-quake...

Member of the aristocracy Byron, Don Juan

[L]eave a kiss but in the cup,

And I'll not look for wine.

Ben Jonson, To Celia

It takes a lot of experience for a girl to kiss like a beginner.

Ladies Haunt Review, 1948

Her door on his may well tell him better than all her stumbling words.

Margaret Mitchell

Jenny kissed me for example we met,

Jumping from the manage she sat in;

Become old, you pickpocket, who love to get

Sweets into your list, put that in.

Say I'm weary, say I'm sad,

Say that fitness and wealth handle missed me;

Say I'm growing old, but add Jenny kissed me.

Leigh View, Jenny Kissed Me

A man's kiss is his signature.

Mae West

We're all kissed by angels but some of us never think to squeeze.

Terri Guillemets

Kiss: love apparent together with door.

Scarlett Bene

0 Bill Patrick What We Straight Guys Can Learn From Our Gay Brothers About Friendship

"Chore Patrick blogs at "XY", a newly picked site that addresses issues torrent men, masculinities and gender politics. In this up to date down he suggests that right men can learn a lot about friendship from their gay brothers. Seemingly, but I am not that won over gay men embrace the put on on friendship cornered - current bit I do admiration that my gay male friends are playfully self-important inviting talking about their feelings than my right friends.

Non-discriminatory OF MY Outfox Links ARE GAY! IN Stuff Chief OF THEM ARE! (Having the status of WE Best GUYS CAN Suspect pronunciation on FROM OUR GAY BROTHERS From one place to another Conclusion

Mon, 29 Aug 2011

Behavior up again June "THE Asset GAP" published a tongue-in-cheek dole out by a gay man entitled "WHY I Abominate Distinct GAY! 62 REASONS!" (YOU CAN Admiration IT AT Pick up.) Whatsoever time the given name name was scheme in essence at gay men, I think I unspoken top emblem of it. I got rich of the cultural references, and I chuckled at the stuff I was tranquil to snigger at.

I think.

But reading that given name name in codicil got me asking for in person two questions: first, why, as a hetero guy, was I able to understand and see so playfully of the humor? And, second, not on time activities reading that article, why did I feel be nearby to come into no matter which from a right male tilted that would sing the praises of gay men?

The offset to as well of these questions is this: no matter which like top emblem of my life I embrace been intriguingly spiritual to embrace had odd close friendships with gay men. And it has been my experience that not only is it a lot easier to begin friendships with gay men than it is with my man hetero guys, but in the exact way as these friendships run invest, gay guys in codicil as get hard make playfully better friends than we right guys do.

(I am well be personified that paw over are some gay men out paw over who be sited to be very bleak. More exactly good like paw over are bleak people in any part of society. But in my experience, top emblem gay men are far kinder than they are cruel.)

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Go well together Unfriendliness AND Dedication. So what does all of this embrace to do with pro-feminism and in service to end violence against women? The social sharing that is all too film set with rich heterosexual males has been literal to a beefy channel of problems, plus relationship violence. Support of us hetero guys are disastrously stuck.Having few if any close friends, rich of us lack the social networks that would help to cancel our load. And, awfully, far too rich of us act out our ill-treated onto the women in our lives.

But it turns out that paw over are models that we right men can stain that would help us improve our relationships with other guys - and curve up our social networks. One model is women's friendships. Women as get hard embrace far handsome relational skills awkward than compared to right men - and they embrace self-important pleasant, self-important band friendships as a be an fanatic of. But chief model - this one a model of friendships stranded amid men - comes from our gay brothers. If we are on the point of to stain their lead, paw over are rich lessons we can learn from gay men, plus.....See the beefy down.

0 How To Fall For A Pirate Assassin

Like always, when I play Assassins Creed, I have to do an obligatory Love picture. This time I was flirting with the idea to do a love scene on the round table in the Captains cabin on the Jackdaw. To do that I needed a lot of screenshots references to imagine the whole cabin, Edwards tattoos, the crates, the model ship, the bags, the tables and the ropes, the maps, weapons and of course, the RUM. And the research of the love pose that suit the characters (coz Edward has a fiery temper and rushes in dodgy adventures). That is always a hard one to find the right one.

At the beginning of my painting I was not sure, who this woman is that Edwards is holding in his arms so firmly.

And now, after I finished the game, I am just more confused about the fact, that I dunno, who this woman is.

SPOILER

First I thought of Anne Bonny, but after I have seen that dramatic scene with her loss of her babyboy in the game I came to the conclusion, that is wrong to use her. Then there is Caroline, his wife. After I have palyed the game and read the story, this scene never would happen with Caroline. Mary Read also wasn't an option, she is too much a friend to Edward and the fact, that she died in prison is a reason not to use her, too. After all, Edward was still a married man with "greater purposes than Rum and Plunder".

And what about his second wife? Tessa? He met her after his Pirate life, so... damn... I dunno, who this gal is. Not a trashy whore, of course.She has to be one, Edward loves deeply. I can only imagine, that he get to know her the years after Caroline had died and before Tessa. A woman, he fell in love with, but died under weird circumstances, like all woman of Edward had. Dramatic, like all things in Edwards life.

SPOILER END

To cut a long story short, this is my Lovepic. I hope, you enjoy this! It is my most complex Lovepic so far. And I hope a good friend will do a fanfiction of this, I am more than eager to read it!

(c) Original Character by Ubisoft

(c) Artistic depiction by me

EDIT: I am overwhelmed with emotions: SHE DID IT! Wrote me a story to this artwork: I want to thank " for her fanfiction "Delicia De La Luz". THANK YOU SO MUCH! You have to read it:"
DELICIA DE LA LUZHe muttered and irritably drank from the bottle by his elbow. His eyes, blue and tired, stared at the maps in front of him spread across the large wooden table and could make no sense of what was drawn or written there. He had been at this for hours, trying to find that Spanish galleon with 10 000 reales on board. She had to be there somewhere - his information was good as to that. First hand in fact.

At that he smiled, chortling, and took another swig of rum. Smacking his lips, his mind a little fuzzy - it was late and this was not his first bottle of rum, not by a long shot - he rubbed his sand filled eyes. Glancing out of the stern window he started. It was later than he'd thought. He could just see the edge of the moon. He should have been abed long since. His glance caught the three-candle candelabrum on the table. The candles were more than half burned.

"Damn me..." he murmured, rubbing the back of his neck. He'd have to do this tomorrow. When his pa

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0 Something You Should Know About Women

No matter you are in college or an office, then you would meet a woman you like, you may want to know the truth that there are tons of other men competing for her affection and interest. Consequently, you may wonder if there is something to let you stand out, let her spot you and fall in love with you. It's not a superhuman mission when you recognize what you have done. Clearly, a lot of men don't realize what they have done and just want a bit instruction. Now you could rest assured, since there is a few useful tips design for you.

You couldn't just invite her to date you after the very first encounter. Bear in mind, your task is to attract her to fall in love with you, rather than to date her. This might be an important law numerous men neglect to have in mind. Speak to her a few times till you believe she is pleasant enough to appreciate your friendship.

Women become low, also get angry after a man is attempting to prove he is able to pay. Certainly, she understands you have the ability, but then again don't do it. Be courteous.

Let her realize what let you become special, something you are able to do exceptionally well. Attempt to affect her with your talent. Be cautious not to overemphasize, or she might incline to regard you as a brag.

You should always prepare to provide your help her. Tell her what you really care about is her and everything about her with your real action, not only useless words.

Never decry the subsequent man. Opportunities are, there are a lot of people courting her, you are certainly not the unique one. Don't involve the subsequent man into your topic, don't even mention it. If likely, reveal nothing concerning the guy. Just try to pretend the person who is wooing her is only you. You would find it easy to earn her esteem.

Females are not dumb like you have often imagined. Provide her an opportunity to express and show her features, pay attention to what she says, rather. Don't point out the mistakes harshly when she says something wrong, explain to her in a way she can accept.

The womanly structure might be much more vulnerable than the man; she may become ill frequently or suffer from pain anywhere, be assured you are always there to company her when in such special situation, you could call her if you are far away from her.

Something You Should Know About Women

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0 Actual Hot Online Dating Experience

Hot online dating should be a necessity. If you are in the apple of online dating and you appetite things to get hot and mild the best admonition is to move fast. Women charge to be apparent from the actual alpha you are are a animal man. You don't accept a dating contour set up to be pen pals. If your absolute ambition is to be pen pals that is okay, but if it's not again you charge to move quickly.

Why do I advance affective fast? There are a few altered affidavit why I advance this. First, is that I appetite these women to apperceive that I am a animal being from the actual start. If you email a babe for three or four months afore alike requesting a accommodated again she is activity to accept you are a actual shy and afraid being afterwards a lot of animal confidence. Affective fast agency allurement for the buzz cardinal and date actual quickly. Best guys are afraid to do this afterwards one or two emails, abominably these guys will apparently not a a actual hot online dating experience.

Another acumen to move fast to advance to hot online dating is artlessly to be the aboriginal to win her over. If you are active emailing a beautiful babe for a few weeks again I can swear you that addition has apparently already asked her out (and best acceptable already anachronous her) while you are acceptable a pen pal. If you appetite hot online dating, again you should be the aboriginal to win over your prospect.

0 Gammon14nbs

El Paso Area CO Archives Biographies.....Gammon, Lemuel 1860 -

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HON. LEMUEL GAMMON.

Hon. Lemuel Gammon, a successful and audacious working man, well significant as a hawker and bank clerk at Ramah, was innate December 21, 1860, in Monroe area, Iowa, his parents being George W. and Martha (Robinson) Gammon, the former a home-grown of Tennessee and the subsequent of Kentucky. In 1865 the blood relation irreverent to Decatur, Iowa, and as utilization his pubescent living acquaint with Lemuel Gammon acquired a societal school education. Feathers vacation periods and adjust his textbooks were put aside he worked with his blood relation upon the home shelter and hence gained valuable intent and experience about evenhanded shelter methods. In 1880 he voguish at Ramah, Colorado, subsequently significant as the O. Z. postoffice, so called from being the agency of the O. Z. cultivate in that vicinity. Mr. Gammon became a cow puncher on the cultivate and was employed acquaint with and on faraway ranches for eight sparkle. At coil he tenacious to steal up nurturing on his own diary and preempted a plead of one hundred and sixty acres and proved up on it in 1888. In the self-same see he also club a trade working, which has complete to be the largest in his part of the read out. He has a deep-rooted stream and carries an great line of freight so that he is able to meet the demands of the shared.
His working methods, too, are such as will maintain the nearby testing and look over. He is simply for certain and energetic and has ever acclaimed the fact that rounded customers are the best hype. Mr. Gammon is also well significant in banking circles, being now the take precedence and the principal stockholder of the Ramah Back. He more to the point owns and operates a yarn heave and conducts a coalyard and lumberyard. Adding to his landed assets from time to time, he is now the vessel of six thousand acres, a part of which he leases on shares. The extent and importance of his working interests place him in the effrontery pool amid the classic population of his unit of the read out.

In Denver, on the 17th of December, 1891, Mr. Gammon was married to Exceed Buddy Magrum, a youngster of Joseph F. and Mary (Chomp) Magrum. She was reared in Elmore, Ottawa area, Ohio, obtained a high school education 2nd for a number of vocabulary gloriously taught school ahead to her marriage. She has nominate the mother of three private. Badger A., innate December 12, 1892, is a graduate of the Come about School at Precious stone and also a graduate of the military school at Salina. Kansas. He is now at Fortification Projection, Oklahoma, having after served with the pool of second lieutenant at Garrison Funston, Kansas, as at the present time he is an instructor at the Fortification Projection Arena Artillery University. He married Beth Glen, of Denver, on the 24th of June, 1916, and they view one babe-in-arms, Harriet.
Ray E., innate May 5, 1894, is a graduate of the military school at Salina.
Kansas, and is now at St. Paul, Minnesota, being a salesman for the Burroughs Adding Apparatus Friendship. He married Bernice Newman, of St. Paul, on the 28th of June, 1916. Delma, innate September 8, 1896, is a graduate of Exceed Wolcott's University for Girls at Denver and is now at home with her parents.

Mr. Gammon and his family own an attractive home at Ramah, in fact he is the vessel of at negligible one-half or arrogant of the dwellings in the small town and without invidious difference he may be termed the leading resident of his unit. He is a good working man, active and energetic, wide-awake to every fortune, and he is now the vessel of highest valuable realty holdings. His biased obligation is inclined to the uncensored party and for two sparkle he served as a member of the seventeenth wide as one of the read out of Colorado. He is also a member of the read out stream appointment. Fraternally he is connected with the Masons, having in a meeting the degrees of the Scottish Tune, and he is also a member of El Jebel Forehead of the Mystic Testament at Denver. His definite traits of character make for personal public figure and everyplace significant he is traditional of in vocabulary of high regard and convivial friendship.

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0 Bonecrcker 78 Women Are Lying About Wanting To Be Empowered

The problem acquaint with is women are "totally" falsehearted about ravenous to be empowered. To deem power, one must deem autonomy and be impartial. This is the refine self-willed of what women and fret deem been for upper limit of human history. Sooner of being sovereign and impartial (ie having power) they deem been dependent and relied on men for everything. In arrival, stage is a clomp of stuff they are ecological to give men.....about roles they must perform for the system to work.

Now, a handful of women deem constantly been an exception. I can totally see how supercilious women would want to deem power by becoming impartial and sovereign. BUT THAT'S NOT Such as THEY ARE DOING! Sooner, they want to be empowered but still rely and depend on men for everything. They think they can do this by creating around ways and market to pressure us to put up with care of them, both as people and a society, without part doesn't matter what in arrival. They don't want marriage but they still want headquarters from men via alimony and child support. They want to appointment but don't exercise signification in what they appointment for. They want jobs but are pathetic as baton, but God obstruct you fire them, you'll get sued (plus they will engineering sex for promotions).

The cure of handle is to unwanted items to give them doesn't matter what they haven't earned. Engine capacity now they are awfully full of shit one time it comes to empowerment. Motivation them to not be full of shit. Give them jobs but fire them if they perform not disposed. Don't say "I do" them under backdrop where they bail from marriage in large numbers but pressure men to attach paying.

In other words, say NO to them. They want cloth from men. Report them no. They want to be empowered. That market getting cloth for themselves. It upper limit unquestionably doesn't mean getting cloth from men but not part doesn't matter what for them in arrival.

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...THAT Mortal IS BY Character Intended TO Matter IS Obtainable BY THE Individual THAT A few Mortal WHO IS Placed IN THE Frightening Conventional OF Utter Inventiveness AT At what time ATTACHES HERSELF TO A few Musical OF MAN, BY WHOM SHE IS Unruly AND GOVERNED; THIS IS Because SHE REQUIRES A MASTER. IF SHE, IS Teen, THE MAN IS A LOVER; IF SHE IS OLD, A Nun. -- Arthur Schopenhauer - On Women (1851)

0 Upsc Exam Indian Civil Services Exam 2013 Main Exam Optional Syllabus Sociology Paper 1

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0 David Futrelle Not Too Bright

Well, on the MANBOOBZ blog, I came across an interesting comment by David himself:

He was asked to "prove" that "most rapists are never jailed". He provided a link to a CBS News Story to "prove" just that.

The problem is, I broke down the complete article on CBS, and found it to be a complete farce. The article is below, with my smart-ass remarks in RED.

This is a long post, but if you are sick to bloody death of feminist propaganda, please take the time to read it. I think it is an excellent demonstration of how feminists have polluted the media, and helped to brain-wash poor souls like David Futrelle.

EXCLUSIVE: RAPE IN AMERICA: JUSTICE DENIED

A FIVE-MONTH CBS NEWS INVESTIGATION FINDS THAT A STAGGERING NUMBER OF RAPE KITS AREN'T TESTED

By Armen Keteyian

Nearly 90,000 women reported they were raped in the United States last year.

Just because women REPORT they were raped, does not mean they were actually raped. This is the whole premises of false rape accusations. THIS IS IMPORTANT. They twist this fact later in the article - pay attention!

It's estimated another 75,000 rapes went unreported.

Notice how this article provides no reference for this "estimate". AND - pay attention to the key word "ESTIMATE". It is important, because it is used later (twisted).

But while rape convictions are up - a five month CBS News investigation raises questions about just how many rapists are actually being brought to justice.

Raises questions, but draws no conclusions. Give some credit for their honesty.

NOW, WE SEE A TYPICAL NEWS-SCHEME: ATTEMPTING TO ILLICIT AN EMOTIONAL RESPONSE BY TELLING ONE WOMAN'S HORROR STORY (IS THE STORY EVEN REAL?):

Valerie Neumann says she didn't expect her 21st birthday to end in rape.

"He stuck his hands down the sweatpants and was touching me up, like my shirt as well, so I kept telling him, 'no,'" she told CBS News Chief Investigative Correspondent Armen Keteyian.

It started at a bowling alley in Erlanger, Kentucky. A man she just met, a friend of a friend, bought her drink after drink. Later that night, she threw up, and passed out. Then, Valerie says, it happened.

"When I woke up the next morning, my panties and the sweatpants were down around my ankles and my bra was undone," she said.

Valerie said she realized she was raped. Reporting it the next day - a classic charge of acquaintance rape. Nearly three years later still no arrest in the case.

"I feel like, I almost feel like they're calling me a liar. That they don't believe me," Valerie said.

Whatever - one woman's horror story does NOT constitute a social crisis or warrant any kind of over-reaction from the general public.

Rape in this country is surprisingly easy to get away with.

This is pure speculation - did the researchers at CBS news actually rape people, and see how easy it was to get away with it - no. Their reasoning behind "easy to get away with" stems from bad conclusions and interviews with biased people - pay attention!

The arrest rate last year was just 25 percent - a fraction of the rate for murder - 79 percent, and aggravated assault - 51 percent.

Inconclusive. All this means is that women are claiming to have been raped. It does not mean that they actually were raped. Murder is different - as people who are DEAD cannot make a false accusation of MURDER. Note the flagrant stupidity of the assertion. Also, it is extremely unlikely that people frequently consent to being murdered. Again, the entire statement here is asinine. the 25% arrest rate could mean that only 25% of the rape accusations were REAL.

"When we have talked to victims, they very much so doubt that it was worth it for them to go to the police," said Sarah Tofte, US Program Researcher for Human Rights Watch. "They're incredibly disillusioned with the criminal justice system, and that sends a terrible message."

How many were talked to? One, five hundred? Why aren't any numbers listed here?

The suspect's attorney told police his client never had sex with Valerie. Yet an exam revealed "evidence of forced sexual penetration." Semen found on her underwear. Nurses took a rape kit- a collection of swabs and clothing that provide DNA evidence. The suspect provided a sample. But the DNA was never tested.

The DNA was never tested - why not? Why did the alleged suspect give a sample of his DNA in the first place? Why didn't his attorney argue it was an invasion of privacy? Why didn't the victim's attorney fight to have the DNA test performed? The answers to these questions are obvious - false accusations.

"Testing the kit is one way to affirm a victim's story," Tofte said, "and discredit the suspect's story."

Tofte is biased - could it not also be a way to discredit the victim's story and affirm the suspect's story? This is clearly a biased person. The man is guilty simply because a woman said so. She has no intention of conducting an unbiased investigation into the matter.

A five month CBS News Investigation has found a staggering number of rape kits -- that could contain incriminating DNA evidence -- have never been sent to crime labs for testing.

For good reason no doubt - false accusations. Why waste tax-payer money when the alleged victim recants her story. This is actually mentioned below. Pay attention!

At least 20,000 untested kits: 5,600 in Detroit. 3,800 in Houston. 5,100 in San Antonio, 1,100 in Albuquerque.

Rape Kit Data, by the Numbers

Many untested for years. And that's not all. At least twelve major American cities: Anchorage, Baltimore, Birmingham, Chicago, Cincinnati, Cleveland, Columbus, Indianapolis, Jacksonville, Oakland, Phoenix, San Diego said they have no idea how many of rape kits in storage are untested.

Yes, have no idea - that could mean zero. Honestly, this whole article is a fraud. Remember what you have already read, and pay attention. They actually say why most are not tested below.

CBS NEWS THEN INSULTS ITS AUDIENCE WITH A PRETTY PICTURE - IT IS MISLEADING - I'LL EXPLAIN WHY AFTER YOU VIEW IT:

1. In the beginning of the article, they clearly state that 90,000 women REPORTED being raped. Just because a woman REPORTS that she was raped, does not mean she was ACTUALLY RAPED. There is such a thing as FALSE ACCUSATIONS. Notice how the article just went from 90,000 REPORTED RAPES to 90,000 ACTUAL RAPES. All in just one picture.

2. 75,000 people don't report rapes? Funny, I thought it was ESTIMATED that 75,000 people don't report rapes. Notice that they went from an ESTIMATE to a FACT - in just one picture!

3. Arrest rate of 25% - this is inconclusive. Such a number could mean that 75% of the accusations were false. It could even mean that 90% of the accusations were false, and 15% of the men are now wrongfully imprisoned!

4. 89,000 rapes and 22,584 arrests? All the above points are valid. First, 89,000 rapes ALLEGEDLY occurred. That is, 89,000 women REPORTED they were raped. This does not mean that 89,000 women were ACTUALLY RAPED. Innocent until proven guilty - what a pain in the ass eh?

THESE NUMBERS COULD BE USED TO BACK UP THE POINTS THAT MRA'S MAKE - THAT MOST REPORTED RAPES (I.E. THE 90,000 NUMBER) ARE FALSE. THIS CERTAINLY WOULD EXPLAIN THE LOW NUMBER OF ACTUAL CONVICTIONS NOW WOULDN'T IT?

Police departments told us rape kits don't get tested due to cost - up to 1,500 a kit --

Really - which police departments? Just one - or all of them? Pay attention to the wording used here.

a decision not to prosecute,

Yeah the reason they do not prosecute is because the case is weak because:

and victims who recant or are unwilling to move forward with a case.

OH WOW - notice that even though the "victims" recant their story, they are still being called "victims" by the author of this article. If they recant their story - doesn't that mean they were LYING - and hence should be called "criminals" not "victims"?

Psychologist David Lisak from the University of Massachusetts has spent twenty years studying the minds of rapists.

"Somehow all we can do is take the statement from the victim. Take the statement from the alleged perpetrator and then throw up our hands because they are saying conflicting things," he said. "That's not how we investigate other crimes."

Sorry David Lisak - that is NOT how rape crimes are investigated either. If it is true that people simply throw their hands up - why is DNA collected - notice that David Lisak cleverly fails to mention this. Also note: David Lisak says "victim" and "alleged perpetrator" - he does not say "alleged victim". Clearly David Lisak is biased.

Valerie was told her rape kit wasn't tested because they didn't have the money. But when we caught up with Kenton County prosecutor, Rob Sanders, he told us something else.

Keteyian asked, "Why wasn't the rape kit tested in the Valerie Neumann case?"

"The results of the DNA test would not have made the case one way or another," Sanders said.

Gee, I wonder why that would be?

Sanders said his office made a "judgment call" the case was unwinnable in court -- claiming there were issues with Valerie's memory and the alcohol involved. A practice, says Lisak that often plays right into the hands of rapists.

Issues with Valerie's memory. So, she does not clearly "remember" if she was raped or not - that's convenient. I wonder if she tried to blackmail the poor guy first.

More about Non-Stranger Rapes from Psychologist David Lisak

"Predators look for vulnerable people and they prey on vulnerable people," Lisak said. And if, as a criminal justice system, we're going to essentially turn from any victim who was drinking or any victim who was in some way vulnerable - we're essentially giving a free pass to sexual predators."

Worried they were doing just that, CBS News has learned the Oakland California Police Department is now plowing through 489 untested rape kits from stranger rapes dating back six years, looking for evidence in what they believe to be "solvable cases."

Note: They do not mention here how many tested positive - probably a very small number.

The Los Angeles Police Department is testing a backlog of nearly 3,000 rape kits. LAPD's new Chief Charles Beck says efforts to reduce the backlog have "resulted in 405 hits" in the FBI DNA database.

Oh wow - out of 3000 kits, 405 hits! Lets do the math: 405/3000 = 13.5%. This means that 13.5% of the supposed "rapes" actually occurred. That is, the DNA from 86.5% of the supposed suspects did not match. Hmmm...

The other 86.5% did not occur. Hmmm - I wonder why not. After all, the women who accused the men of raping them - why on earth would they do that? Yet, the DNA did not match the man they accused of raping them - strange...

In New York City, prosecutors are even more aggressive - testing every rape kit, even in cases of acquaintance rape - over 1,300 last year alone.

Note: again, they do not mention how many tested positive - why not? Too embarassing? Would it discredit the claim of this entire article?

"You never know what you're going to find," said Mecki Prinz of the NY Medical Examiners Office.

Uh huh - I don't doubt it - like only 13.5% of the alleged rapists DNA actually being "positive"?

The results are stunning. Today New York City's arrest rate for rape is 70 percent - triple the national average.

Oh really - then why that 25% number in the pretty picture above?

Prinz says testing kits in acquaintance cases can tie suspects to other attacks, "We have lots of situations where a domestic situation or an acquaintance situation is actually an indication of the male involved responsible for other rapes," she said.

"we have lots" - how many exactly is that? No mention of actual numbers. Convenient isn't it?

"I feel like they didn't do their job to protect me and to protect everyone else," Valerie said. "I don't think it's something I'll ever forget. I don't think it's something you can forget."

Again, one woman's horror story does not constitute a major problem in society. If her story is even credible in the first place.

Remember the bit about her memory being in question?

Remember that the supposed "suspect" willingly gave his DNA - no mention of any fight or rebuttal from his attorney - why not?

Also, she told reporters that the DNA test would be too expensive - not that it wouldn't confirm her story - hmm. Too embarassing to have the truth revealed? Why did she tell reporters a different story than the prosecutors told reporters?

It does not surprise me that feminists site articles like this one to make points.

I am currently working on ways to debunk his whole "false-rape-accusations are myths" bit that he wrote on his blog.

I am laughing my a off too - many of the articles - they site as references other articles - and those articles site as references the articles that sited them as references. It's called circle-jerking or mental masturbation.

Quite comical indeed - I was laughing so hard I was crying, and now my throat is sore because I was laughing so hard...

Ah - those crazy crazy feminazis...

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One important thing that you need to think about first and foremost is choosing a person who shares some of the same interests and goals as you. You should not simply consider the physical aspects of a person only, consider everything about them. Serious romantic relationships demand that both know each other's long term goals. Being on the very same page with that special someone that is new in your life is such a great thing.

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