1 What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

So, what do women find attractive in men? Men often think it's things like money, power, muscles, good looks, etc. but those are very far from the top of list! Experts agree. Let's look at the five most important things.

First of all we need to mention that ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. You do not decide you will be attracted to someone. It just happens. Just like if you suddenly encounter a large vicious snarling dog on the street, you are going to be scared. You do not decide to be scared; it just happens. Being scared, like being attracted, is entirely involuntary. Let's look at the things that make men attractive to women, regardless of what women think.

CONFIDENCE: Confidence is simply highly attractive in men. Studies have shown that women rate the most confident looking men as the most physically attractive. It doesn't matter how you met. You can certainly appear confident, but you can only get so far if internally you are not so confident. You can build confidence through successes, little or big. Start by standing up straight and not looking down when you talk to women. The material on this site will certainly help you build confidence!

INDIFFERENCE: This may seem illogical but it isn't. We all want what we can't get!

The opposite of indifference is neediness. Perhaps you had a girlfriend who became extremely needy. I'm sure you found it unattractive. Women find neediness extremely unattractive. If you say or do something, do not look at a woman for approval. If you tell a joke, do not look for approval. You are doing things for yourself - that is attractive. Hopefully they will like what you are doing too, but that must be secondary.

This can be tough if you are hung up on one girl, so do not get hung up on one girl! Not that long term monogamous relationships are bad, they're great, but she must prove herself first.

PASSION: You need to have passions in your life (other than women). Passion is attractive. If all you do is get up, go to work, come home, have dinner, beers, TV, and then crash, trying to pick up women on the weekends, you've got a boring life. Who would want to be part of that life? Not most women.

The passion is not important, but communicating it in terms of feelings and emotions is. For example, I love to flyfish and if I'm explaining the feeling of a beautiful sunrise somewhere gorgeous I'd never experience if I didn't fish, women love that. If I stick to facts and figures, "I caught 5 fish between 12 and 30 inches," that's boring to them.

I've started playing blues piano for example recently. I truly suck! It doesn't matter as chicks love it. I am having so much fun and that fun and passion shines through when I talk about it!

If you do not have any passion, you're not going to be great with women.

FUN: You had better be fun, and demonstrate it quickly, in order to attract women. Clearly not fun is unattractive. The best way to create fun is by joking and teasing. Playful teasing is fun and creates attraction.

For example, I just met two very cute younger women at Staples. They were trying to use the copying machine with great trouble, and I offered to help claiming that it was very complicated and clearly they were not technical. Now I was clearly being silly, and my expression showed it, but their reactions were amazing. After chatting and copying for 5 minutes, they gave me (I didn't ask) their phone numbers and insist we need to get together sometime!

APPEARANCE: I said good looks were way down the list and I mean it, but appearance matters to women. This is more how you dress and present yourself than innate physical beauty. Get a decent haircut, or shave your head. Throw away those ratty t-shirts. Really, throw them away TODAY! Get some decent shoes - as stupid-assed as it sounds, women care about shoes.

Now I have the sense of style of a jackass, so I go shopping with women. My brother's wife loves to shop with me and buy me clothes. I also shop with a woman I met online who has become a friend.

I commonly have women commenting on my style. I've heard, "I can't believe how cute you are" twice this week (and I'm not). This stuff, how you present yourself, which is mainly how you dress yourself, really matters to women.

You might think it is illogical, and it is to most of us men, but it really makes an enormous difference with women.

So, do women find bald men attractive? Do women find fat men attractive? Do women find muscular men attractive? Yes, yes, and yes because it doesn't matter! Physical attractiveness is so far down the list of what a woman cares about and finds attractive. It'll get you noticed, but rarely more than that!

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1 What Do You Do When She Leaves Your Relationship Or Marriage For Another Man

A simple, scary question with a complex answer: What do you do when the woman you love is with somebody else?

I've been talking with some people at another web site that tries to help people out of divorces and I've been getting a huge number of questions from them over the last few weeks. The most common one by far is "My wife left and is now seeing someone else (or is having an affair and refuses to stop). How can I win her back?" No big surprise, right? Do you want to know what IS surprising?

It's not the answer to the question by a long-shot; indeed, the possible answers to that question are few and simple:

1. Stop abusing your wife

2. End your substance abuse, gambling, or fidelity problem and try to make a life with your wife instead of feeding your addiction

3. Read "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" and learn how to evaluate and manage relationships, communicate well with your wife, and find out whether you can fire up her attraction mechanisms beyond the point the other guy has created to get your honeymoon going again so that she is only interested in you.

One or more of those answers will take care of almost all cases. It won't always take care of the case where the other guy has created so much attraction that you can't get her attention to let her see your improvement; attraction is a sword of MANY sharp edges ; "double-edged" doesn't begin to describe how many ways it can work for or against you. But the big question isn't what you should do to bring her back...

The big question, and the very first one you should ask, is WHETHER you should bring her back!

That's right! I've spent hours and hours cruising relationship and marriage help web sites, and everyone is frantically begging for help to bring their spouses back (and being advised on how to do it by others who are apparently in the same boat, giving a strong appearance of "the blind leading the blind," at least as far as the forum threads and blogs go), but nobody is asking whether it's the right thing to do! Indeed, they label somebody who acknowledges such severe problems that no marriage ever should have happened, let alone be possible to save, as a "quitter" and a "loser." Give me a break!

Right now, a great many of you are having a knee-jerk and responding, "Of course it's the right thing to do! She's his (or MY) wife!" If you stop to think about it, there will be some cases where it may not be!

For instance, what if you are the host in a codependent pair, and she is a substance abuser that has sucked the life out of you for years with the cost of feeding her habit, legal and medical costs, worrying you sick, making you feel responsible for all her bad choices and leaving you no room to enjoy anything about your life, let alone what you have earned?

What if she's not a substance abuser, but still codependent and has kept you working 16 hours a day every day of the week just to keep her out of a jam?

What if she's a spouse abuser, and married you to have someone to punish because the person who traumatized her is not available, and you were both available and easily manipulated into taking and holding the job of whipping boy?

What if she's always exhibited a fidelity problem because she's a gold-digging hussy that married you for your money and has just moved on to somebody with more money, or because she's spent all you had?

What if she's always exhibited a fidelity problem because she has a self-esteem problem that she refuses to address, and would rather seek the attention and approval of other men because it's easier and more palatable than to admit the reason she feels crappy about herself is that she hasn't done anything in her life to feel good about?

What if the two of you got married because she was pregnant, never did get along and weren't happy, but comfortably numb and unhappy, and she was just the first one to wake up and realize that you never should have been married to start with and wasn't rejecting you, but making the same move that you should be making to rectify that age-old mistake?

What if she wasn't pregnant, but the two of you just were young and lonely and desperate, thinking that nobody else would have you, and latched onto each other thinking a bad marriage would be better than being alone?

What if one or both of you were trying to escape your parents' abuse and married the first person that came along that provided a way to get out of the house, thinking it couldn't possibly be worse than home but not realizing that if it was almost as bad you'd still need better?

What if you've had such philosophical or value system differences that you've always fought and never been happy together and really don't know why you ever got married or stayed married, because you have no compatibility beyond breathing air?

What if you have compatible values, but your tastes are so different that you have never been able to find a way to spend quality time together, and sleeping, sex, and an occasional trivial conversation are all you really share?

What if you've suddenly become disabled somehow, and she's the one who thinks she's the victim, ignoring the fact that you haven't let yourself become a victim and are still a great husband because she's just too enthralled with the drama and attention? Or just too stinking bigoted to give you a chance to show you that you're still worth having around?

There are a hundred more scenarios like that, but surely at this point you get the picture. The first question that needs to be asked when things look like they are breaking up isn't how to stop the break-up...

It's whether there is any reason for you to expect to be happy with that person if the relationship were to continue!

If there is no expectation of happiness, why continue? There is no productive purpose in trying to save a marriage when the underlying relationship that defines every aspect of that marriage is not a happy one and has no history or chance of being a happy one. The whole purpose of marriage is to bind yourself to a person for your mutual benefit - love, nurturing, friendship, watching each others' back, companionship, exclusive (and hopefully therefore safe!) sex, etc. -- is it not?

On the other hand, if you have been truly happy, and have just drifted apart, there's a most excellent chance that you can get things back on track, especially if things have just been in a rut and one or both of you have become "maritally bored." It's not at all rare for women to have affairs, leave home, and even file for divorce as a way of communicating to a man that he'd better straighten up and act like a man and be strong, fun, and interesting like he used to be instead of the "chronically beer-swilling remote-jockeying couch potato who never pays any attention to her" that he's become. And it's easy to tell the difference...

A woman who's completely done with you moves on immediately and completely. The divorce papers are delivered with a restraining order, and there are instant barriers up everywhere. You have no contact with her, or even any way to contact her directly.

A woman who's done with all parts of you except your checkbook still strings you along keeping you in approval-seeking mode and continues to be a drain on your resources, and may accept phone calls, go to dinner, etc., but you'll notice that you pay for everything, and she keeps having money trouble that you need to bail her out of, even if she makes better money than you. She'll also be chipping away at your self-esteem to get you deep into approval-seeking mode, making herself physically unavailable while talking about the future and getting back together, etc., trying to make you so utterly desperate for her attention that you'd spend your last dime trying to buy it while she's out partying with others and secretly (or not) living it up at your expense.

It's the woman who leaves or files papers, but continues to talk and especially to say things like, "I still love you, but I'm bored/not 'in love with you' (how I hate that convoluted expression!)/I can't be with you right now/I can't go on like we are and you're going to have to show me you can change some things/etc.," that has acted badly to get your attention and is wanting to come back home to the guy she wants to live with. She will tell you what it takes to win her back, and if you speak "feminese" you'll hear her when she does and know exactly what to do.

Like when she says she loves you, but the guy she's having an affair with makes her laugh, or is spontaneous, or anything about him that you are not, she's giving you the laundry list of things you need to fix. Those things are not said to create competition or belittle you, but to communicate what is missing from your marriage. If she's moved out and/or filed for divorce, and talking about the things you used to do together or the way you used to behave toward her, she's telling you what she misses and what it will take to bring it back. And she may not "say" anything. She may ASK you if YOU miss things from the past to TELL you that SHE does!

But again, you have to speak "feminese" to understand, because she probably won't just say, "you used to pay attention to me and make me feel special," she'll refer to things you did by asking if you remember them, like picking her a bunch of wildflowers, or cooking supper on the night that she had to work late, things that demonstrate how you did what she missed, and you have to be able to connect the dots to see what she's really saying, because women never state what to them is "the obvious." And more often than not, they will make these statements in the form of a question; "Do you think our marriage is good?" is in fact a statement that she thinks there's a problem that she wants to talk about, and the next thing that comes out of your mouth could quite literally make or break your marriage.

Do you know what to say when asked a question like this, or why you should say it? Do you see how if you say something that rebukes her attempt to enter into a negotiation about the state of your marriage, that one act will be all she needs to give up? Or to take drastic action to wake YOU up so you can get things on track? The stakes are high at this point, so high that you MUST take responsibility for effective communication; failure to do so will cost you in more ways that you can imagine.

How do you learn to speak "feminese"? The same way you learn how to evaluate and manage relationships and learning how to be that alpha male that every woman wants and your woman will be thrilled to have, by downloading your copy of "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" at http://www.makingherhappy.com before you do another thing, and especially before you take any more relationship advice from somebody whose own marriage is on the rocks, because this information has worked for everyone who has ever used it, and it will work for you, too.

In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!

David Cunningham "Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

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0 Exemplary Practices Of Leadership A View From Within The Coast Guard

"A paper in print for "Objective to Physique the Future: Impression, Dip into, and Custom" (Objective 8510)."

Organizations dislodge or fail based in large nail on the abilities of senior leaders. Condescending leaders end the ideal for the group and interlace the surroundings for success. Condescending leaders do not work as an individual, however. It takes leaders at every level of the group to get the message managerial pre-eminence. Given that a senior leader sets the mood for the finish group and can keep in check a big consequence on the group, the greatest consequence on pole is on direct supervisors (Buckingham leadership, or so the encoding goes, is a meaningful part of the letters. At the very lowest amount, the group does put a be there on leadership, having fashioned and nurtured a Objective Protest Found as a part of the Beach Keep under surveillance Ivory tower in New London, Connecticut. In especially, the service's on the point of in the same way as Chief officer, the senior leader of the service, connected with author Donald Phillips to make up a almost all about leadership and the Beach Guard; the book is full up with anecdotes of strong leadership in the service. (Phillips, 2003)

Philips suggests the Beach Guard's leadership success is based on four dangerous actions: (a) set the antecedent, (b) be there on people, (c) suffuse a favoritism for action, and (d) get the message the entrance. He breaks each of these actions into minor parts; for item to be there on people is to cut off the bitter secret, cultivate syrupy relationships, build strong alliances, and interlace an effective communication system. In various respects, Phillips form of leadership practices as demonstrated by the people of the Beach Keep under surveillance is not so very modern from Kouzes & Posner (2002) and their five practices of standard leadership.

Kouzes & Posner (2002) infer at hand are five practices of standard leadership. For them, community practices are (a) model the way, (b) flicker a joint ideal, (c) challenge the name, (d) label others to act, and (e) pronounce the heart. Find irresistible Phillips, Kouzes the practice is made fresh by these leader-made commitments which encourage to guide how successful leaders get great kit to grow in effective organizations.

From my vantage point in the group as a psychotherapist to Beach Keep under surveillance leaders, I keep in check a idiosyncratic reconcile from which to view the group. Sometimes that reconcile settles into skepticism, a strong cultural favoritism for long-time members of the Beach Keep under surveillance group. As such, my be there for score will not be the come to Beach Keep under surveillance, nor one of the two essential, "flag-level" (or headed by an admiral, a military of "flop mass") information I encourage. Sooner, my be there hip will be on the performance psychotherapist community and our "right coast" program controller - and my direct take precedence - Dr. George Yacus.

Dr. Yacus - or George, as I all told tackle to him - is the direct take precedence of three internal performance consultants assigned the Atlantic Leaf club in Portsmouth, Virginia. He is also programmatically to blame for, excluding provides not executive fault, for eight from the past consultants energetic at Region offices in Boston, Miami, New Orleans, and Cleveland. Given that George is a voter employee, he has each military members (each enlisted members, plus point officers, and commissioned officers) and civilians under his purview. As a retired Seafaring aviator, he has experience with the military and understands the military mindset. Having worked with the Beach Keep under surveillance for pompous than five being now, he understands the Beach Keep under surveillance letters.

In his work all the rage the Act out Sheerness program, George inevitability lead moderately than direct or get by. Unaccompanied three consultants in fact work "for" him; the maintain equilibrium work "for" their own supervisors at their respective flag-level quarter offices. In order to interlace an surroundings of smartness, George inevitability lead. As Kouzes moderately, he inevitability use standard leadership practices to gain their enter.

Model the Way

Everybody psychotherapist brings a idiosyncratic set of skills and perspectives to the job of allocation interlace huge performance straight managerial leadership and mistake. Kouzes he ethics making contributions; he ethics people and their personal and managerial success; and, he ethics ideas and their handy application. As an group, the Beach Keep under surveillance has a set of exact ethics - watch, respect, and consecration to trade - that also mass high in George's pantheon of guiding ethics. One of what we do as consultants involves allocation people - leaders and followers, equivalent - make progress their own list of personal ethics and illuminating what community look like not just in theory but also in action. I be wary of George has great this.

Why do I be wary of George has great this? In large nail it has to do with his alignment of actions with what I see as the joint ethics of our consulting community. Our work revolves expression implementing systems and practices which are in alignment with the Commandant's Act out Sheerness Criteria, the Beach Guard's - hard by word-for-word - rule of the Baldrige Criteria for Act out Sheerness published by the In Circle of Science and Equipment, a right mean for managerial smartness and efficiency straight provide with managerial leadership and mistake practices and systems. We are, maybe, "Baldrige Geeks," energetic to place systems and processes to interlace high performance all the rage the group and segments we work. In large nail, this is one of our key, joint values: implementing Baldrige-based systems and processes.

Maximum by example, George has great his part of helpful consulting with senior leaders and has had success with implementing Baldrige-based systems and practices. And, he has calmly not compulsory, tugged, cajoled, and prodded the eleven consultants all the rage the Atlantic Leaf to roadway.

Ignite a Shared Fantasize

A key to managerial success is that a single person cannot "do it" as an individual. For sure it takes all the members of the group, energetic in feat with each from the past, to win about managerial success. To interlace that "energetic in feat," leaders inevitability, as Kouzes & Posner (2002) agenda, flicker a joint ideal. Everybody partner of the group inevitability part the ideal.

There's an old consulting story about managerial ideal. I am not established if it is based in fact or if, as I be wary of, it is apocryphal, but it is, even so, capable of repeating. Early his fatal accident, Rule Kennedy propelled our nation on to the moon: to assuage that bound by the "end of the decade." The story goes that special being subsequently, and well before Neil Armstrong stepped on the moon in 1969, a exchange psychotherapist asked a doorkeeper who was frank up at the Kennedy Detach Found what he was put it on. Without spellbound a motion, the old man answered, "I'm allocation put a man on the moon." The writing hip is that it takes that sort of fidelity, by all members of the group, to make great kit grow. And it takes that sort of organized radicalism, too. The story shows an group joined to a single outcome: putting a man on the moon and bringing him home undamagingly.

Kouzes & Posner (2002) end us with two commitments for leaders, two commitments which are buried with the practice of "inspiring a joint ideal." For Kouzes & Posner, leaders inevitability be influenced to "envisioning the entrance by imagining alive and ennobling imply" and to "enlisting others in a common ideal by pleasant to joint aspirations." George has made each of these commitments, at lowest amount in practice. Whenever George talks with any of us consultants, he talks about the bound and wherever we are leading Beach Keep under surveillance leaders straight the pleasure of Criteria-based leadership and mistake practices and systems. For George, who can ornament a word envisage of what success looks like, our pains will help the Beach Keep under surveillance be an huge group, meeting the Commandant's goal of the Beach Keep under surveillance being the best managed group in the central focus. Whether the conversation takes place in George's windowless workroom, or in the field of an all-consultant phone house of representatives, or in the field of one of our thrice-yearly for myself gatherings, George's writing is the same. And, he appeals to our joint aspirations of wanting managerial success. To a one, each psychotherapist required out the job, a non-traditional digs by Beach Keep under surveillance standards and not constantly career pleasing to the eye, at lowest amount for commissioned officers who encourage. And, to a one, each of us wants to see managerial success first and pinnacle, loyal beyond our own personal success.

It is, maybe, at the same time as George has to compete with five modern "cuffs of control" and seven flop officers and their personal priorities - which are sometimes based on geographic or set obligation and from the past times based on some creature bit of managerial or personal favoritism - that resorting to a joint ideal has been so successful. George has of a nature us the end-in-mind, but not the raw steps to get at hand. We learn what works for us by trying out modern procedure and strategies, and dividing line successes and failures with each from the past.

Conundrum the Funds

As Phillips tells us, a key Beach Keep under surveillance cultural favoritism is to "suffuse a favoritism for action." For various of us long-time "Coasties" - and for the newer Coasties who are a rapid study - this habitually average not easy the be in the region of. "Act, and survey forgiveness subsequently" is a strong cultural be in the region of. Established, sometimes forgiveness does not come so with no trouble, but true Coasties learn and move on. Kouzes & Posner (2002) tell us that leaders practice "not easy the name." For them, leaders "venture out" and "survey and assume challenges." (p. 16) Kouzes we make decisions based on gut, hunch, and in the same way as experience, not based on know-how and reputation. Getting senior leaders, to order senior leaders, to pass up the grips of our letters and move toward strategic provision with respect to managerial leadership and mistake and toward fact-based preference making is a long possibility. George has been energetic meticulously and droopily, accruing small successes anywhere possible. Time was he finds success, or hears of success by one of us consultants, he publicizes the news straight obdurate (a bulletin psychotherapist newsletter) and typical (gossip) average. And, he encourages the from the past psychotherapist supervisors to not difficulty a "zip criticize" thoughts and chastising honest mistakes.

Allow Others to Act

Kouzes strong leaders "label others to act." They agenda that "leadership is a let your hair down sweat" and that a test of leadership is the commonness a person uses the word "we" as compared to "I." (p. 18) Engaging leaders say "we" at the same time as they congregate that managerial success happens straight the pains of "us," not "me." The leader commitments in enabling others to act are clear: companionship and power-sharing.

Kouzes each from the past geared up has only two (and in Alaska, the two consultants are not in the actual municipal). Organize is no abundant flock, accurately, at any geared up. Creating scenarios wherever the consultants can work together would have for companionship and growth.

We survey pre-eminence in leadership in our selves and in our group. Undeviating proven practices, and a serious and loyal be there on community practices, we will interlace an effective, high passing, huge group.

References

Buckingham M. & Coffman C. (1999). To start with, Spend a long time at All the Rules: Seeing that the world's greatest managers do differently. New York: Simon & Schuster.

Kouzes, J. M. & Posner, B. Z. (2002). The Objective Conundrum (3rd ed.). San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Phillips, D. T. (with Loy, J. M.). (2003). Qualities in Action: The U.S. Beach Keep under surveillance on leadership. Annapolis, MD: Seafaring Circle Haversack.

U.S. Beach Keep under surveillance (2005). Commandant's Priorities - League - Faction leadership Protest Get hard Occurrence. Retrieved April 9, 2005, from hip.

0 Leasing Beauty

I bring about a friend who is now on his third Russian job order bride. A few stereotype you are having right now about him is accurate. But what I couldn't understand is while the first two ditched him (one with a kid), cheated on him, and rift similar to they got nationality, why he opted for a third.

But the trim hot librarian in my mind considerable to search in the ole Captain's mental archives and pulled whatever thing she deemed related and influence explain it:

Being he was looking for his second spouse he was determined on display me her personage (end-to-end with all the extra girls he was with) on the dating/mail order bride site.

In perception after the fact what this tells me is that he never viewed these women as coming spouses, mates or wifey like material, but practically stuff or stuff (albeit blooming). He was quite shopping for a young, hot, woman in an online catalogue, no discrete that if he were looking for shoes on Amazon.com. What's worse is that nonetheless the HA-YOOOOGE price he has useful for his slim two job order brides, he is leave-taking at it again, with ironically trim apologize for, let one at a time fear. In extra words his posterior economic-lizard intellectual has made the reckoning that it is earn it. It is earn the try and the viable price to bring about a hot, young job order bride that he probably genuine couldn't care less about hysterically.

But for that reason it occurred to me what was genuine occurrence on an financial level:

He was gracefully charter poise.

For instance we can all understand men starved to be with more or less women as distasteful to ugly ones, and preferring to bring about sex with hot girls to be more precise of fat ones, what I cannot understand is the psychology that drives some men to pay to gracefully be with and seen with a hot chick. But just equally I alone can't understand it, doesn't mean it doesn't crowd and doesn't mean dowry isn't a belt-tightening exercise. This is a real financial entity that I cannot give up exists.

Yet, my best financial exempt of what we are show (and thus an exempt of why some men do this) is that it is a expel financial belt-tightening exercise from the get hard sexual belt-tightening exercise place. In the "effortless" belt-tightening exercise place, effortless men and women meet, date, court and wistful of outing their way towards marriage. I would cite this accounts for 70% of men who (while in all probability not all Clive Owen) are advantage, no matter how amateurishly, of invariably having loads allure and wit to delay a mate. Of the catch 30%, I would cite 25% are either just fine on their own, MGTOW's, not questioning, or are too afraid of rejection to go and attract a mate. But there's that 5% catch who bring about no wager or allure, but DO bring about loads means to significantly regard out women's attention at very high financial and emotional tax, and these guys make up this envelop belt-tightening exercise. But to them it makes noise way.

They don't need to go to clubs.

They don't need to work out.

They don't need to practice Walter Matthauish and Cary Grantish allure.

They just need to pay a price.

They just gracefully need to "buy" her attention.

And concentration in the past the attention dries up or she just skips town, the projection of participating in the sexual belt-tightening exercise place to find choice girl "the effortless way" is still too astounding. So astounding in fact they'd practically "play it safe" and get MOB #2, #3, #4,...#n as long as the means doesn't run out.

I'm no fan of the self belt-tightening exercise. Been dowry, on that, and I was what could bring about been intended "very successful." But I'd practically ramble my likelihood dowry than leave-taking to the regard a whore job order bride belt-tightening exercise.HHR4HM7ZPMV3

0 Nice To See Stevieb Nice Class Bro

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0 He Is Definitely A Member Of The Womanizer Hall Of Fame

Many guys hit me up asking me "Pharaoh, how much do looks matter with girls?" So I decided to create this list to both answer the question and honor some of the most inspiring playas to ever grace this Earth.

This is a list of 5 famous and notorious womanizers from the past who weren't what anyone would call "classically handsome". Don't get too caught up in the "famous" part because if they weren't famous then the frame of reference would be lacking. The point is these 5 men were able to attract and seduce the most beautiful of women in their time and that's well-deserving of respect. The most crucial things a man must possess for attracting girls is confidence (swag!), conversation skills, and by far the most important is an understanding of human psychology, in particular female psychology. Learn to give women want they truly want and you'll be much more successful.

5) DIEGO RIVERA-

Mexican Painter and notorious womanizer who married beautiful Mexican painter Frida and cheated on her with her younger sister. As you can see from the picture below he was a very large man.

4) J.P. SARTRE-

French Philosopher and writer best known for "Being and Nothingness" (one of my favorite books) seduced many women around the world. Sartre knew of women's weakness for sweet words and always used that to his advantage. He was also well-known for his "open" relationship with French Feminist/Philosopher Simone De Beauvoir

3) MICK JAGGER-

Now of course being the world-famous lead singer of the Rolling Stones has its perks like tons of hot groupies throwing themselves at your feet, but still this is not a handsome man. Call it his fame if you're lazy. If you're smart, you'll look at his fame as merely a consequence of who he already was and this is what made him so dreamy for tons of women everywhere. He is definitely a member of the Womanizer Hall of Fame.

2) GABRIELE D'ANNUNZIO-

d'Annunzio Italian poet, novelist and of course notorious womanizer. His successes were chronicled in Robert Greene's "The Art of Seduction". d'Annunzio seduced tons of beautiful Italian women all without being known as "easy on the eyes". Similarly to Sartre, d'Annunzio knew women had a weakness for words and as a poet he was certainly a master of seductive language.

1) NOTORIOUS B.I.G.-

I LOVE IT WHEN THEY CALL ME BIG POPPA!. The Notorious BIG was known for seducers R&B women and models alike during his reign as "King of NY". He became a sex symbol. At the dawn of his career he met and married Faith Evans (in her prime looks wise) and maintained a relationship with Lil Kim before making it in the game. Biggie was undoubtedly full of swag, charisma, charm and an excellent vocabulary that more than made up for his shortcomings in the physical attractiveness department.

The most crucial things a man must possess for attracting girls is confidence (swag!), conversation skills, and by far the most important is an understanding of human psychology, in particular female psychology. Learn to give women want they truly want. Once you TRULY dedicate yourself to learning the ways of women, there will be no stopping you!

0 Cut The Crap About Dating

The number of people who are single has doubled in the past 30 years. This increase comes hand-in-hand with the rise of speed dating, internet dating and the acceptability of dating agencies. In a similar way that "more of us are on diets than ever before but obesity rates are rising, something about dating is making us single." (Times website)

I will assume that "to find a partner" is the aim/motivation of dating, in order to outline some of the problems with the practice of dating. There are other motivations certainly, but let's leave them to one side. Then, later, I will challenge this assumption.

1) Problems with the practice of dating:

Dates are high-pressure situations - It is in informal and relaxed settings, rather than on a high-pressure date, that people make the deeper connections that lead to love.

Superficial qualities - competitive style of dating encourages us to rate appearance and superficial qualities over personality, even though, ultimately, this is not what makes for a good long-term partnership. When researchers at the University of Kent asked students to rate the most important quality in a potential mate, friendship came out top, followed by honesty. Just 5 per cent of men and 1.5 per cent of women rated looks.

The more people you meet, the better - This is particularly relevant to speed-dating. The internet is encouraging us to rate people. We are comparing our date not only with the others in the room but with millions of potential mates online. Seeing more people is not the answer; getting to know people better is what's required. Market researchers in the U.S. interviewed women coming out of marriage licence bureaux. Twenty per cent had not liked their intended when they first met.

2) Problems with aiming to find a partner:

The whole idea of "finding a partner" is wrongheaded. If someone were to ask "Why do you want to have a relationship with this person?" dating encourages such responses as "They're the most suitable I've met We get on well" or "We have a lot in common." There's only one acceptable response to that question, and that is "because I think they're the most amazing person I've ever met." Anything less is not enough.

Finding a partner is something that can only occur indirectly. It is something that you should not seek but should be open to and allow them to happen to you. C.S. Lewis: "Love makes a man really want not a woman, but one particular woman." And as multiple pop groups have sung (see, for example, Everything But The Girl), "I didn't know I was looking for love until I found you."

Relationships and partners are not something we should be seeking to acquire. Alasdair Macintyre calls them "networks of giving and receiving". Relationships must flow in both directions. If we go into a relationship primarily focused on what we're going to get out of it, we're doing something wrong. But the activity of "finding a partner" is a matter of acquisition, a calculation of costs and benefits. There's no sense of giving to the other person. It's as though "being with someone" - anyone - is more important than the intimacies of the relationship itself. Where's love in that picture? People are more concerned with finding "a partner" than with taking the time and giving the necessary investment to create a wonderful, lasting love.

3) So what should we be doing?

Obvious as it sounds, we should be spending time with other people and mixing, getting to know people instead of looking for potential partners. We should focus on understanding people, making and developing friendships. We should be trying to deepen our friendships, to move them beyond the often superficial level. It is likely that, on occasion, 'partnerships' will flow from this, but that is an additional benefit and not the intention.

George Orwell wrote, "The essence of being human is thatone is prepared in the end to be defeated and broken up by life, which is the inevitable price of fastening one's love upon other human individuals." There's no place for this in dating, which reduces relationships to a cost/benefit analysis, so no place for dating in human life.

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0 Why Would You Be Interested In Dating Farmers Over The Internet

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It is really not that surprising, after all, there are a lot of rich people out there today that invest some of their fortunes in putting up farms, as well as country villas. Now it is really not impossible that these rich farmers do not have any gorgeous offspring. Also, there are a lot of online daters who consider themselves as farmers but are actually living in the city from time to time. Most of the time, these are children of well-established farming families that can afford to let their children go to prestigious schools. That is why, thinking of singles on these country dating sites as boring and cheap is really a big misconception. In a way, it is one of the few online dating communities on the internet today that can really surprise you when it comes to the number of hot online daters that are present on it.

Now for those people who are interested in dating farmers online but do not know where to start, then the first thing you need to do is make a quick search for them on the internet. You will instantly be bombarded with a lot of results. Once that happens, just check out the resulting sites quickly and pick the sites that really interest you the most. After doing that, all you need to do is do a bit more research about the quality of that site and if you are satisfied, register on it. Once you are done with the registration process, all you need to do is SEARCH FOR AN IDEAL DATE AND START EXPERIENCING THE EXCITING WORLD OF DATING FARMERS ONLINE.

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0 About Online Black Dating

FREE BLACK DATING SITES are the right places for people meet online these days. Every year, there are thousands or even millions of Black singles who have found their second half on the Internet. There are other thousands of interracial singles who meet online at these dating websites. Such interracial relationships are between Black women for white men, Black men and white women, Black men seeking Asian women, and so on, you know what I am saying? Most of them have found each other through such 100% free Black dating websites.

The way that Black dating services work is you set up a personal ad that describe who you are. You can list your personal preferences as location, age, career, interests, hobby, and etc. and even you can post your photos. Other singles do the same. You then can search people and they can search for you. There are usually thousands of profiles you can search in your city, province or state. You then sort out which one matches with you, then continue from there. After you found some singles you like, then keep chatting until the time you feel comfortable to meet face to face. That is about online dating, you know what I am saying? Man, it is simple.

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0 Electronic Arts Comes Out Against Defense Of Marriage Act

Electronic Arts today announced that they are joining a group of businesses opposing DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act). In case you aren't familiar with it, the Defense of Marriage Act is a federal law that defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman.

The law also states that no U.S. state or political subdivision is required to recognize a same-sex marriage treated as a marriage in another state, and that no same-sex marriage need be recognized for federal purposes, such as insurance benefits or the filing of joint tax returns. By standing up against the law, EA is joining dozens of other companies in signing an amicus brief with the Ninth Circuit of Appeals to find portions of the act unconstitutional.