1 What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

So, what do women find attractive in men? Men often think it's things like money, power, muscles, good looks, etc. but those are very far from the top of list! Experts agree. Let's look at the five most important things.

First of all we need to mention that ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. You do not decide you will be attracted to someone. It just happens. Just like if you suddenly encounter a large vicious snarling dog on the street, you are going to be scared. You do not decide to be scared; it just happens. Being scared, like being attracted, is entirely involuntary. Let's look at the things that make men attractive to women, regardless of what women think.

CONFIDENCE: Confidence is simply highly attractive in men. Studies have shown that women rate the most confident looking men as the most physically attractive. It doesn't matter how you met. You can certainly appear confident, but you can only get so far if internally you are not so confident. You can build confidence through successes, little or big. Start by standing up straight and not looking down when you talk to women. The material on this site will certainly help you build confidence!

INDIFFERENCE: This may seem illogical but it isn't. We all want what we can't get!

The opposite of indifference is neediness. Perhaps you had a girlfriend who became extremely needy. I'm sure you found it unattractive. Women find neediness extremely unattractive. If you say or do something, do not look at a woman for approval. If you tell a joke, do not look for approval. You are doing things for yourself - that is attractive. Hopefully they will like what you are doing too, but that must be secondary.

This can be tough if you are hung up on one girl, so do not get hung up on one girl! Not that long term monogamous relationships are bad, they're great, but she must prove herself first.

PASSION: You need to have passions in your life (other than women). Passion is attractive. If all you do is get up, go to work, come home, have dinner, beers, TV, and then crash, trying to pick up women on the weekends, you've got a boring life. Who would want to be part of that life? Not most women.

The passion is not important, but communicating it in terms of feelings and emotions is. For example, I love to flyfish and if I'm explaining the feeling of a beautiful sunrise somewhere gorgeous I'd never experience if I didn't fish, women love that. If I stick to facts and figures, "I caught 5 fish between 12 and 30 inches," that's boring to them.

I've started playing blues piano for example recently. I truly suck! It doesn't matter as chicks love it. I am having so much fun and that fun and passion shines through when I talk about it!

If you do not have any passion, you're not going to be great with women.

FUN: You had better be fun, and demonstrate it quickly, in order to attract women. Clearly not fun is unattractive. The best way to create fun is by joking and teasing. Playful teasing is fun and creates attraction.

For example, I just met two very cute younger women at Staples. They were trying to use the copying machine with great trouble, and I offered to help claiming that it was very complicated and clearly they were not technical. Now I was clearly being silly, and my expression showed it, but their reactions were amazing. After chatting and copying for 5 minutes, they gave me (I didn't ask) their phone numbers and insist we need to get together sometime!

APPEARANCE: I said good looks were way down the list and I mean it, but appearance matters to women. This is more how you dress and present yourself than innate physical beauty. Get a decent haircut, or shave your head. Throw away those ratty t-shirts. Really, throw them away TODAY! Get some decent shoes - as stupid-assed as it sounds, women care about shoes.

Now I have the sense of style of a jackass, so I go shopping with women. My brother's wife loves to shop with me and buy me clothes. I also shop with a woman I met online who has become a friend.

I commonly have women commenting on my style. I've heard, "I can't believe how cute you are" twice this week (and I'm not). This stuff, how you present yourself, which is mainly how you dress yourself, really matters to women.

You might think it is illogical, and it is to most of us men, but it really makes an enormous difference with women.

So, do women find bald men attractive? Do women find fat men attractive? Do women find muscular men attractive? Yes, yes, and yes because it doesn't matter! Physical attractiveness is so far down the list of what a woman cares about and finds attractive. It'll get you noticed, but rarely more than that!

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0 Trans 130705 Yuri And Yoona Interview On High Cut Magazine Vol 105

[TRANS] 130705 YURI AND YOONA INTERVIEW ON 'HIGH CUT' MAGAZINE VOL. 105

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HIGH CUT: Not too long ago, Yoona showed a strong appearance on '1 Night 2 Days'. A 'drama-like incident' happened when Joo Won grabbed your wrist when your hand was about to get cut with a knife while cleaning eel.YOONA: That was a real situation. My glove was stuck under the knife and almost cut my hand. He got surprised and said 'babo' (translator's note: 'fool' or 'stupid') to me without realizing it, but I didn't know what I should do with that situation. (hah) If it was a situation that the production crew made up, I would have shown some kind of reaction, but it was impromptu, so I also thought I was watching a drama. (laughs) That day was the first time I met Joo Won, and he looked after me well, so I was really thankful.

HIGH CUT: Like what you're known for(?), you ate with a pleasantly plump face. Is there one food that you have confidence in for 'meok bang'? (translator's note: 'meok bang' is short for 'meok neun bangsong', which means 'eating television' in Korean)YOONA: I really eat everything well. I've been thinking about my health lately and have been avoiding flour-based food, but something I keep eating is fruit. Anyway, I ate really well while filming '1 Night 2 Days'. I got chosen for the eel restaurant and built up my health properly. I was full to the point where I couldn't film. And, it must have been because I was trained through 'Family Outing' in the past, but I quickly got used to it without many problems.

HIGH CUT: Yuri is busy filming the movie 'No Breathing', right? And you're busy practicing guitar because the role you play, Jungeun, is an aspiring singer.YURI: It's fun, and I'm happy to the point where I always look forward to the days I go on set. There are two songs that I play the guitar and sing to in the film as Jungeun, and I've been working hard, practicing them lately. I actually bought a guitar about a year and a half ago because I thought, 'I should try an acoustic live at a concert', and just took it in my home. Because I'm able to take this opportunity to learn guitar and singing together, it feels like I'm killing about ten birds with one stone. While practicing, even though I'm getting blisters on my fingertips, it, oddly, feels good. (laughs)

HIGH CUT: It turns out [your role] is one of an aspiring singer who falls into a love triangle with childhood friends Seo Inguk and Lee Jongsuk. Here, a mischievous question. Normally, of the two people, who do you have a little more interest in?YURI: (while bursting out laughing) Both of them are actually close with Girls' Generation members. (Seo) Inguk starred in 'Love Rain' with Yoona, and (Lee) Jongsuk has been close with Hyoyeon since a long time ago. There wasn't a time where I met them through private meetings, but I heard so much about them that it felt familiar. As expected, I met Jongsuk for the first time when we did script readings. He wittily did the military salute from 'Tell Me Your Wish' first. We got close quickly thanks to Hyoyeon. I actually told Yoona and Hyoyeon to visit the set once, but it takes place in Daejeon, so I don't think it would be easy.

HIGH CUT: There hasn't been any word of a next project for Yoona yet. I feel that you would be a bit greedy towards wanting to play a different kind of role. Like a cold role that could make you completely rid yourself of an innocent image.YOONA: A malicious role is still a bit... I don't think I would be able to express it well enough for viewers to focus on. I played a lot of roles like Candy (from 'Candy Candy'), growing up in a difficult atmosphere. I want to play a distinct role like the character in 'My Sassy Girl', so I'm waiting for a project. I looked at a lot of works, but there are still a lot of Candy-like characters, so I'm looking for a project that would suit me more.

HIGH CUT: You're really popular with your fresh smile. Is there like any secret(?) to smiling well like that?YOONA: Aigo, to be honest, I laugh so broadly that my family tells me to cover my mouth a bit when I laugh. (laughs) While monitoring myself, there are times where it's so immoderate that I ask myself, 'Why do I open my mouth like that when I laugh?' I actually laugh broadly because it's really funny, but it's difficult to laugh like that when I'm acting. Because it's different bursting out laughing in an unknown situation and in one where I have prior knowledge to.

HIGH CUT: Yuri's the original 'conceptual pitcher' with your underhand pitch. Do you have any intentions to do a new pitch to recover from Jessica and Tiffany's 'hurl-down pitch'?YURI: Um... I don't think I could do it twice. (bursts out laughing) It's normally not fun doing the same thing. I'll research a new strategy, and if something comes up, I will think about it again. (laughs)

HIGH CUT: You joined Mnet's dance survival 'Dancing 9' as a dance master. In detail, what's your role?YURI: For each genre, the best expert comes out and gives advice, and Hyoyeon and I have the role of giving advice in the K-Pop genre. We don't teach them to dance and judge them, but teach them to study and learn on stage? But, while taking part in the show, we learned more. We cried from being touched by their passion, and it made us look back on ourselves on stage. There are really great contestants, so I wrote them down separately on a piece of paper. So I can receive lessons from them.

HIGH CUT: Starting now, I'll ask both of you questions. The 'bad picture' with Yuri, Yoona, and Hyoyeon (translator's note: they are referring to this photo from Yuri's Instagram) became a hot topic. You probably have even worse pictures on your cell phone that you can't post on SNS, right?YURI: All the photos with my members I gathered for over 10 years probably exceed 500. There have often been 'upload bad photo' battles in our group chatrooms lately, and those photos are all dangerous. Sooyoung is always high in the ranks, and, when she wants to, the one who makes us burst out laughing to maximum levels is Hyoyeon. Yoona's high in the ranks as well, and Taeyeon's always cute even when she embarrasses herself. Tiffany really tries hard, but she's funny two times out of 10. Seohyun! Tries excessively hard. I wish she wouldn't try so hard. (laughs)YOONA: To clear things up, Sooyoung and Hyoyeon unnies are in the finals, Yuri unnie and I are in the upper ranks. The people who want to do well in these things but don't are Tiffany unnie and Seohyun. And Jessica unnie doesn't participate well, so we take pictures of her while she's sleeping and forcibly make her participate.

HIGH CUT: Since summer's nearing, I'll ask you things about your body. There are probably respective methods for when you have to quickly diet when comeback schedules are made, right?YURI: There are really a lot of different ways, and I do them all. First, I maintain basic posture. I strain my belly button, thinking about the posture of a string pulling from above prior, and practice that. Also, making sure to drink the vegetable juice my mom makes me these days. When I overeat or drink, the next day I either run or do hard training for 2 hours. I do anything straightforwardly.YOONA: I normally don't diet. Recovering my health right now is more important. (laughs) I didn't think about my body, but starting late last year, I became anemic and my stomach hasn't been in a good condition. My skin was normally nice so I didn't manage it at all, but it completely changed early this year. How could this happen to me! After that, I've been taking vitamins and omega-3, and go to the dermatologist regularly. I'm going to continue working hard on exercising as well.

HIGH CUT: I'm curious as to what your troubles are these days.YOONA: First of all, I think I have to be healthy in order to do everything. (Everyone burst out laughing because of her limitless talks about 'health') Something that always comes to mind when I have free time like these days is that I need to do something. I've been looking for something to do lately out of anxiousness. There have been a lot of things I've shown up until now, but there wasn't much I had prepared. I received an opportunity before my members and enjoyed life unknowingly, but my members prepared during that time while waiting for a chance. When it's time for my other members to show off what they've prepared, I'd have to unfold and go back to preparing again. To be honest, I'm forever thinking about it and not actually doing it, so there are times where I, myself, feel stifled.YURI: Um... When will I go and live in the mountains? After marrying the person I love, living a life together in nature is the romance I dream of. I want to go and live in Melbourne, Australia, but when will that be.... But I honestly want to keep working, so I'm thinking up ways to sing and act while living in Melbourne.

HIGH CUT: On the other hand, what's something the two of you are currently hooked on? For example, a TV program you watch the 'original broadcast' of.YURI: Ah, I really like 'I Hear Your Voice' (SBS) lately. Jongsuk comes on as really cool in it. And emptying my heart.YOONA: I've watched a little bit of every drama. I watch 'I Hear Your Voice', 'The Queen's Classroom', 'Gu Family Book', 'Goddess of Workplace', 'Shark' amongst others; I'm curious so I watch them all. While wondering, 'If that was me, how would I have acted it out?' Also, ballads or medium tempo songs. I usually listen to the entire albums from musicians like Kim Dongryul sunbae, Epitone Project, Broccoli You Too, Autumn Vacation, Urban Zakapa, and Lucia. I liked finding better songs aside from their title tracks more.

HIGH CUT: Hereafter, I'm curious about how a 'whole Girls' Generation's' activity is going to take place.YURI: First of all, there are a lot of scheduled countries left in our world tour, so I think we're going to go around the world doing concerts for the year. We're also currently recording a new song. So I think a new album could release soon. It's most fun when all 9 are gathered together.YOONA: Because we keep having world tours, going to Japan feels like [going to] Jeju Islands. (laughs) We've seen most of the movies in the plane, so we always wait for next month's update.YURI: I know. We're rich with [air] mileage.

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0 Just Doubling As A Loudspeaker Today Robert Davidson Art His Commitment His Cultural Impact

Guud san glans "Eagle of the Set off" Robert Davidson, Haida artist and chi of nature.

(Graciousness www.robertdavidson.ca)

The substantial young fellow pictured disdainful is Robert Davidson, recognized artist. Spectacle I didn't say, "Massett artist, Haida artist, BC artist, Crown Nations artist," or, for that matter, "Canadian artist" He is all of inhabitants. But, he belongs to no one. He is the pre-eminent artist of his type living today. And his works belong in the government of the Northern Northwest Coast art use, which had its family millennia in advance the European flood.

Voluntarily, from time to time the world gets a peer at how he expresses his experience of life. A tip of the cedar-bark hat to "Blood relation Jones" for bringing to our attention the news that this month will see the first essential only illustrate of his work in the United States. For inhabitants close to my collar of the woods, the blaze opens November 16, 2013, at the Seattle Art Museum; it closes award on February 16, 2014. Nearby stop, I'm told, is in Manhattan. No dates yet.

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Alan and Gillian McMillan in 1970. Alan does fieldwork in BC,teaches and writes books. Gillian is a competent and successful potter. I objective neither minds that I've on loan this lovely of that period building block from Gillian's facebook layer.

I was made animate of Mr. Davidson in 1970. A rendezvous at the rear he and his brother, Reg, had erected their Twist Blood relation" passage in the town of Massett, British Columbia. It was the first imprinted cedar passage erected at Massett in the same way as the in the middle of the nineteenth century. After the passage was raised, so was my attainment [attainment raising was really big back next]. My guru at the time was Alan McMillan, and it was my first semester of college.

Dr. McMillan was simply inspiring. And I tried to follow in his route as an speculative. It was my great good quantity to offer all of three being in the academy. But that's further story, and has zilch, anything, to do with Alan or what he educated me! I was really green in 1970. This'll tell you how green. My aged sister had unavailable a school proceed on copy archaeology. I knew that remote about the contented. My entrance dishonor arose seeing that I heard my sis direct to the proceed as "Mold Studies" plus some number.

At the same time as every good aspiring archaeologist in advance me I salutation to be a copy archaeologist and dig up mummies. So, in my first after-class grilling with Al, he [of proceed] asked me what sort of coursework I'd be perform in the entrance. I responded, with shout confidence, that I salutation to do Mold Studies. Unit the educational teacher that Al was, he started reeling of the sorts of classes I'd need to hold on one time I at the end fled my two-year college for the big leagues. After audio Primordial Greek, and a nanosecond in advance Al may possibly say "Latin," I realized that I'd just used a term I didn't suffer squat about, in fault, in my first interaction with my first archaeology prof. I was or else slogan for the read. I couldn't be arranged award red faced. Somehow or other-either Al forgot or forgave-I managed to revive my self-respect, and became the disaffected, icy, ex-archaeologist that you stand come to suffer and love, something like at "The Rebellious Archaeologist".

[I've been secretly starved to use this bearing in mind cope with for ages. I achieve that now would be a ended time!]

But, I digress!

We were talking about Robert Davidson and the pole-raising at Massett in 1969. It's called "Twist Blood relation".

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Imprinted cedar Twist Blood relation", by Robert and

Reg Davidson. Raised Revered 22, 1969,

in Massett, Haida Gwaii

(See in your mind's eye from "Blood relation Jones", and

gentility of www.robertdavidson.ca)

Its iconography and style followed Haida use, a type of cautiously rule-bound, stylized representational art that countless say is the high point of what Europeans stand so incorrectly called "antiquated art." Imprinted cedar poles like theirs lined the beaches at the established neighborhood sites, some standing forlorn, others attached to the forefront of the great, big money and girder, and panel, cedar houses. What's more is unparalleled. What's more tells a story that relates to the family of its carver, custody to grandeur names and dances, and the band to which they belong. From this time, they're whichever social memorial and improbably beautiful works of art.

I mentioned disdainful that Robert Davidson is a chi of nature. So was Safety check Reid in advance him. And in advance Safety check, award were the argillite "totem poles" made for the tourist haggle and art financial system. The greatest familiar sight Haida artist was Charles Edenshaw. These people stand managed to keep a millenniae-old art use living, in spite of smallpox, in spite of laws fateful established ceremonies, in spite of the [again legal] sundering of families-where the kids were effectively immature from their families, chi to live in sordid developed "schools" run by unclean church organizations who slate everyone who used their actual language and sexually abused a propos everyone, it would emerge. Despite the consequences the deracination of generations, artists like Robert and Safety check and Charles, and Reg stand prevailed.

What's above, these great artists stand breathed life back into a society that 40 being ago had gentle objective and gentle to live for without a way to numb the hurt. The Europeans didn't just rip families out-of-the-way, they ripped out the hearts of each and every "Indian" on Haida Gwaii and fed their hearts to them on a serving dish of unnatural be of importance, fail to spot, and attempted genocide. That award were any hearts moved out in Massett or Skidegate still able to conjure up bringing the bygone back to live with them, is perhaps the greatest victory for the spirit.

By chance that's why in the Federation Porch of Canada award stands a 3-m tall aluminum effigy, The The unexplained Eye. It puts a revolve on the historical style that's a symbol for all his works [if part want ever ask me for my opinion].

The The unexplained Eye, by Robert Davidson.

I objective some of you'll be able to supply the Seattle illustrate. It is the moment's cap for a ultimate of Davidson's cleverness. I suffer I'll be award. On opening day there'll be a performance of established and existing music and dance, gentility of the Rainbow Brook Dancers, a group that Robert Davidson co-founded. You destitution not to miss it!

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0 Subconsciously Attract Women 2 Tips To Improve Attracting Women Subconsciously With Ease

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0 Media Justice Mash Up

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There's been a lot goodbye on over the formerly week to wince off Arrogance month. Indoors are a few exciting and remarkable stories. Occupy observe this give somebody their cards message as these stories will be discussing transmisogyny, violence,

CECE MCDONALD AND Underpinning

If you take yet to experiment with about CeCe McDonald, I don't experience what to say but get on it! In purloin, CeCe is a young Black trans woman who is a survivor of chauvinist and transphobic and transmisogynistic notes in her home population of Minnesota which lead to violence. She was attacked by 4 people and fought back for her life. One of her attackers died and she has been imprisoned at a men's prison for the formerly year. CeCe pled guilt to slaying for a abbreviated locking up and and was sentenced this week to 41 months in prison with some time served headed for her locking up and to pay over 6000 in recovery.

CeCe has an vast support time functioning to help her duly, emotionally, religiously, rationally, and physically arrived her imprisonment. Donate are book clubs, letter writing campaigns, fundraising, and movement building that you can assist in today! Postponement this site as the fill in lull to find in addition information and permitted updates from her squad (near take been some unapproved CeCe petitions and such goodbye encompassing) and follow them on tumblr.

LESLIE FEINBERG ARRESTED

Inventor and extremist Leslie Feinberg was arrested on June 4, 2012 the day CeCe McDonald was sentenced. One of the matter I find like mad vital to be reminded of is from Feinberg's permitted image a long time ago keep which reads in part:

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The prosecutor and the pass judgment are support the ensnared of the infamous gray supremacist Dred Scott common sense of 1857.

The enormously year Fredrick Douglass concluded: "Minus campaign, near is no progress!"

CeCe McDonald is being sent to prison arrived the month of Juneteeth: person concerned of the Freedom Proclamation-the solemn Abolitionist of "legal" colony of peoples of African cable. The Freedom Assertion specifically spelled out the right of Black people to self-defense against chauvinist violence.

Yet, the pass judgment, the prosecutor, and the jailers are lasting the wild and intolerant hatred crimes begun by the group of gray supremacists who carried out a fascist turning on CeCe McDonald and her friends.

CeCe McDonald is being sent to prison in June-the month to the same extent the Stonewall Riot ignited in the streets of Greenwich Clearance in 1969. From the Compton's Defiance to the Stonewall Riot, circumstances against oppression is a law of being.

MS. USA 2012

I've written about decency pageants in front, identical arrived my Media Maker's Salon questioning with Ms. Kings Zone 2011 Carmen B. Mendoza. Now, I didn't watch the Ms. USA 2012 spectacle that was aired this formerly weekend, thus far the win, Olivia Culpo of Rhode Coral reef, is making news. I'm best intrigued by her answer to her questioning question (which is poorly worded) and generated via Twitter: "would it be help if a transgender woman were to win the Go past USA title over a natural-born woman?" See the write down in for her answer which begins at the 1:30 object of ridicule.

She responds "I do think that that would be help, but I can understand that people would be a children tentative to steal that government such as near is a knowledge of natural-born women, but today wherever near are so many surgeries and so many people out near who take a need to change for a happier life, I do procure that such as I infer it's a free property."

So, there's a LOT goodbye on in this answer. It is bully she is transmission support for trans women as contestants, which has gained some attention of late, and believes that position and relief are elements of the US that handling to all people. At the enormously time near is a connection to trans women constraint take surgical treatment of some sort for them to be contestants. I think this receiving is telling to the fact object of the needs and experiences of trans* communities, identical trans women. My determination is that genus very great no trans* person needs any form of surgical treatment or medical intervention to be intended a real person regardless of their gender. The snobbery and classism united to these ideas need to be challenged such as no surgical treatment in our society is affordable! In the same way as do you think about her comments?

Liberal SISTERS

There's been a ton of talk about the work nuns (both referred to as sisters) take been a part of creating to help some of the best gone populations in our societies. Their work is not habitually seen as foremost, identical in a society like the US wherever communities of Highlight, people with disabilities, functioning poor people, and people who are chronically ill are not honored as to a great extent as others, this is unsettling. Yet, for generations sisters take been functioning to end dislike of foreigners, ableism, snobbery, classism and fad a power-with approach alongside power-over approach to functioning within communities. Indoors is a great in-depth second opinion (with videos) about what is right now goodbye on along with sisters in the US functioning on a quantity of social justness agendas that are not intended get hold of and equal called "ground-breaking feminist." Yes, we do live in a property wherever misuse occurs and wherever "ground-breaking" and "feminist" are used as slurs, and wherever misuse is used as a form of rough up, wherever women's work no matter what form is questioned and deemed infinite.

NEW Investigate ON BIOLOGY AND Zoom

Inventor and governess of Biology and Gender studies, Anne Fausto-Sterling reviews three new books that confer biology and run. Her miniature review published this week in the Boston Analysis is vast. She reviews Dorothy Roberts "Undying Invention: How Science, Politics, and Big Manufacturing Re-Create Zoom in the Twenty-First Century," which examines breast blight losses and experiences based on run in the US. Ann Morning's "The Quality of Race: How Scientists Believe and Speech about Worldly Crack," looks into how academics in anthropology, biology and present undergraduates are qualified about run. Richard C. Francis "Epigenetics: The Furthest Artifice of Legacy" which discusses research that argues stress can influence a person's physiology in such a great way that they can correlate that to their descendant, in that way becoming inherited and a part of our genes that are passed down and can be a way to understand Alzheimer's and diabetes (to name a few). The review is long, but that's what I gamble. Fausto-Sterling's writing is wholly sensitive, but she is an academic and so near are fat words and some field-specific requisites that I did not experience. She vegetation us with an remarkable image to conclude:

"The question of what definite run is may be with us for instant. But if we are intense to delivering social conveniences and deed the right squashy of laboratory research, we can, right now, criticize the next of kin ill physical condition of people of touch, the poor, and the medically underserved."

SISTERHOOD Summit Bind FOR PROPOSALS

The Black Young woman Project's 2nd Annual report Sisterhood Summit is in the composition stages and near is a call for proposals. As many of you experience I'm a domicile quantity of The Black Young woman Test, so this is no matter which close to my end. Once carry year's Sisterhood Summit, the answer from the young women present was overwhelmingly: we need to talk in addition about sex and sexuality! This year's session is focused on all aspects of sexuality from solemnity, friendship, anatomy, sexual behavior, safety, confirmation, and communication. This year near is both a on its own for parents who wish to companion who may both wish to bring their child, or who desires to learn in addition ways to talk with their child, fad messages that are get hold of and wistful of their values, and to gain in addition knowledge! Yield no matter which today and keep an eye out for registration as the Sisterhood Summit is schedule for mid-October.

ERYKA BADU Discussion ART

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A Counterfeit OF THIS Update APPEARED IN "THE AGE", JULY 12, 2012.

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0 How Your New Relationship Affects Your Kids

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0 Astralreflectionsjul906

ASTRAL REFLECTIONS

BY TIM STEPHENS

JULY 9 - 15, 2006

All times/dates are PDT.
SCORPIO, the 18 months ahead present you with a karmic choice. If you want peace and satisfaction, if you want to walk a smooth, easy path, then embrace creativity, romance, speculation, risk, teaching or raising children, and self-expression - pour out your heart, live in the sweet risk of the moment. Subtle traps or dead-ends await if you focus on socializing, light romance, playing the field, entertainment, politics and picnics, currying favor, organizations, clubs, union activities, conventions, etc. So paint the picture rather than run the art gallery. If you already work in one of the areas I've listed as difficult (e.g., "socializing" could describe an event planner or union organizer) just accept that these 18 months will be a bit less productive than usual. Look for more progress elsewhere, inject more creativity into your work, or go fall in love.
Speaking of amour, 2011-2025 brings true love. Until then, life offers electric, exciting, but unstable "love adventures." You want all or nothing, stable, "forever" love, so "adventure" or "fun" bothers, even scares you. But you need to stretch, to be vulnerable now. One of these adventures might even trigger true love before 2011 (very possible) - or you'll love, lose, learn, stretch, toughen up, and be ready for the real thing later. You know how refreshing a cold pool plunge is on a summer's day? Think of love that way now: you didn't drown in the pool, and you won't in romance.
From December 2006 to December 2007, you'll make a lot of money.
SAGITTARIUS, the 18 months ahead bless you in home, security, property, real estate, children, retirement, gardening, and all other "foundational" concerns. The same period erects subtle barriers to success if you seek prestige, ambitions outside the home, or focus strongly on your career or reputation. You might grow bored with your present position in these 18 months, but is not a good time to change careers - doing so might turn a temporary dissatisfaction into a permanent condition. (You'd be better off to quit than change, believe it or not.) Avoid confrontations with bosses, parents, authorities and VIPs. Remain quiet, and stick to the status quo. Don't demand a raise or promotion - if you push higher-ups, they'll push back. If you simply glide along, the powers that be will likely leave you alone.
From December/06 to December/07, your energy, faith, optimism, luck and courage soar sky-high! Act on your goals before September/07, for best results. In 2008, you'll make more money than you think - this would be a great year to start a business, or a new career!

Start Nothing: 3:31 a.m. to 12:25 p.m. Sun., 1:58 p.m. to 2:46 p.m. Tues., 7:23 a.m. to 3:59 p.m. Thurs., and 12:56 p.m. to 5:39 p.m. Sat.

Aries March 21-April 19
Continue to avoid new projects. Settle into home, kids, vacation, rest, and nature. Love and beauty continue to soothe your brow, though your temper is high now too. Show your ambition, skills and reliability Sunday to Tuesday noon - but don't start (nor volunteer for) anything new. You feel a bit happier, more loved by friends mid-week. Retreat, rest and contemplate Thursday afternoon onward -destiny has a "move" in store these few days - it could take you away from a casual relationship, to a deeper, more romantic or creative path.

Taurus April 20-May 20
Start nothing before July 28. Your money picture remains lucky. A sibling or casual friend might re-enter your life for awhile. Continue to guard against friction on the home front. It's likely that the major decisions in this area (to renovate, to move out, to send the kids this way or that) were made in June - you're dealing with the aftermath or associated chores now. A cultural, intellectual, travel, legal or similar involvement comes to a climax early week - a good one that intertwines with money luck. Express love!

Gemini May 21-June 20
You might "luck out" early week - it could involve an investment or financial situation, or a combination of love and intimacy. Give your hunches, your feelings, free rein! Mid-week brings wisdom, mellowness, love and understanding. You're restless and travel-prone all June/July, and you are talking or writing swiftly. One of these (travel, talk, emailing) opens a doorway to an agreement, opportunity, or relationship this week. You could grow "obsessed" with someone attractive. Your career, relations with VIPs, meet luck Friday/Saturday! But start no major projects or relationships before July 28.

Cancer June 21-July 22
Listen to your hunches (the soft, calm feeling that nudges you to do something) Sunday eve and Monday - they could be taking you to a significant opportunity, probably involving money and/or intimacy, and a secret or supportive relationship. Since you should not start new projects or relationships before July 28, this week's link should be someone already known, and involve an opportunity that's ongoing, or returned from the past. Mid-week continues the financial and/or intimate theme - investigate, ask questions. Money rises to legal levels, love to mutual understanding Friday/Saturday.

Leo July 23-Aug. 22
Start nothing significant before July 28. Be restful. Contemplate, study relationships, property and security, family issues and your retirement prospects (or lack ther!). Pay attention to your soul, your ethics and spirit, too. Physically, pamper yourself. You've been dealing with a change in your desires, likes and pleasures for some years. This week, your wisdom and destiny seem to flow together - and this spells success! Sunday brings chores, but also a sweet meeting, hints of special love, or a lucky hunch/inspiration about a relationship or opportunity. Co-operate mid week.

Virgo Aug. 23-Sept. 22
Don't start any significant venture before July 28, not even to please friends or associates at work. Your property, communication and family interests march forward now, despite the slowdowns in other areas. Romance, love of children, creativity, beauty and speculation fill Sunday to Tuesday. A hunch or inspiration about career, work, or machinery "pays off." Tackle chores Tuesday eve to Thursday morning - but stick to routine. An exciting relationship or opportunity confronts you Friday/Saturday: if it's from the past, welcome it. If it's something/someone new, take a wait-and-see stance.

Libra Sept. 23-Oct. 22
Love's inspiration floats toward you Sunday. (And mid-week.) Life makes ultimate sense to you now. This p.m. through Tuesday noon, dig into a family matter, an old photo album, a garden lounge chair, contemplate the wisdom of love. Tackle home, family, shelter, food, real estate, retirement and parent/kid matters. (But don't start new, significant projects before July 28 - old ones, or forays down memory lane, are rewarding.) Love, mating, partnerships, mutual interests work well late week, but destiny (it's instrument your tone of voice) nixes a formal, legal bond.

Scorpio Oct. 23-Nov. 21
Start nothing before July 28, especially in legal, higher learning, far travel, investment, financial, sexual and similar areas. Instead, reprise past ventures or continue ongoing ones in these areas. Do double-check facts, figures, communications, appointment times, etc, as mistakes are probable. Your intuition about investment, financial, love, intimate, family and security issues rises to an inspired peak this week, especially Sunday and Wednesday. (Though it is your career, rather than these, that destiny favors this month.) Romance, love, passion, creative surges and gambling urges fill Thursday eve to Saturday.

Sagittarius Nov. 22-Dec. 21
Don't start new, significant projects before July 28. Watch for mistakes, delays and missed appointments in ongoing ventures, especially if large finances, sexual intimacy, crucial health, surgery, lifestyle commitments or major life changes are involved. Neither give nor accept promises now. Your hunches about relationships, love, friendship, travel, truth and "the facts" are spot on Sunday. Another person is very sweet, but "destiny" (which at present operates through your personality and reactions) denies marriage/partnership. It does, however, accept and boost love and understanding (and legal, learning and international affairs).

Capricorn Dec. 22-Jan. 19
Start no new projects or relationships before July 28. Sign no contracts, make no commitments, and view promises skeptically. In continuing projects, remain alert for delays and mistakes. An old flame or ex-partner might return - this relationship might succeed again, if circumstances (rather than personality factors) separated you in the past. Your intuition soars regarding a job, purchase or money situation Sunday. Your charisma also rises this day to Tuesday. "Destiny" separates your duties into an either/or this week. A secret talk/action helps you transform a burden into a success.

Aquarius Jan.20-Feb 18
Start nothing new before July 28. Instead, stick with ongoing projects, and watch for mistakes, recount, check details, especially in work, machinery, health, and dealings with dependents (kids, service people, etc.). Do NOT buy a car, computer, etc. now. Lie low, rest and contemplate Sunday eve to Tuesday afternoon. All week, your intuition soars regarding love and money - and their connection. Destiny (overwhelming circumstances) makes you choose between love (romance) and friendship this week. The same destiny blesses a friendship-partnership or friendship-marriage combo. Your energy and charisma rise mid-week onward.

Pisces Feb. 19-March 20
Start nothing new before July 28, especially in romance, creative projects, sports, speculation, teaching and children's affairs. (E.g., not the right time to set your kid's educational course, to begin writing your novel or to join a new rugby team.) Stick with the status quo - and things that return from the past. An old flame might return. Inspiration strikes you about home, retreat, health, family affairs and real estate Sunday. This eve through Tuesday grows social, happy! Destiny favors a work/career situation: make a power play Thursday p.m. onward!

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0 Money Mentalism How Mind Power Can Make You Wealthy

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0 Dating Online The Do And Donts

Looking to find a date? Well, dating online is probably the easiest way to find one, if you do it right. It is easy to use and not as scary as trying to meet someone in real life. Sadly, most people miss some of the key elements, which ruins their chances of finding "the one". I always like to start at the beginning, so that's what we will do.

Choosing your Dating Service

The first thing you will want to do is choose you're dating service or services. All sites have a target audience, whether it is people looking for love, looking for a date, Christian dating sites or even pure sex dating sites and all that it entails. Try to find a site that focuses on what you are looking for.

Creating your profile

Remember now, you are marketing yourself to other singles; put your best foot forward. Don't be shy. Tell people about what make you a good partner and don't talk at all about what doesn't, people will get to know that side when they get to know you ; )

If you can I have to advise you to add a picture. A picture usually helps a lot. Many people only talk to people with pictures as you can get a more intimate connection. Also you often are highlighted in searches if you have uploaded a picture.

Learn the dating service you are using

All sites for dating on line are different. They are usually similar but every site has something that makes them unique. Take a break from everything and spend 10 minutes learning your service. Is there any other ways to promote yourself. Which are the different ways you can find a potential partner and what services are free and what is restricted for paying members.

Finding a date

Now the fun part begins. Now that you know how to use your dating service, use their tools for finding potential partners. Go through the list and contact those that seem interesting to you. Make sure that the people you contact actually want the same things as you and are looking for someone like yourself. For example if you are a middle aged man and find a middle aged woman who is looking for a 18 year old girl you are wasting your time. Move on to someone who is looking for the same thing you are.

After spending some time on this you will hopefully have found some interesting people. Now all you can do is wait. Hopefully some of your potential partners will answer your message. This can often take a few days so don't fret if you don't get a dozen answers within 20 minutes, if you get one in the first 20 minutes you are very lucky ; ).

Taking the step to real life.

Start chatting with people and see if they are anything for you. Once you have found someone who you like and maybe would like to meet, dare to take the step! For many people this is a very scary step. People often get nervous and think: What if I'm not as interesting in real life as I am behind the computer? Don't! You are looking for something substantial and meeting in real life is the only way to get it, if it doesn't work out you can start chatting with someone else.

Something to think about when meeting someone

Be sure to meet the person in a crowded place. Sadly all the people dating on line aren't noble. Before going off alone, meet the person a few times. Once you have found someone you like, go for it! Don't hold back.

0 How Do You Give Relationship Advice To The Girl You Love

My girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. It was a tiny anxious at first, but soon we were good friends again, despite the fact that I've never blocked loving her. We're able to confide everything to each ancient and give each ancient comfort and advice.

In individuals three months she started leave-taking out with a guy, but now she says she sees him arrogant as a friend but is bashful to break up with him because it'll afflict him. As a consequence she tells me she's falling in love with me again, and yesterday we were kissing in advance we knew it, and she says she doesn't disapprove of devious on him. We're simply having a relationship only the two of us appreciate about.

She still hasn't broken up with him. She maybe want, but she hates making people feel bad. So how am I supposed to give advice w/o appearing manipulative in my favor? Manage us out, please?

And Matter don't make an effort her. She's having a existent resolute family life and that's maybe why she's bewildered about relationships.How do you give relationship advice to the girl you love?

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0 A Special Relationship

How heart warming it is for us all to see our leader greeted by the American President with such friendship and camaraderie. By extension this friendship is for our country and all of us, for you and for me. Now doesn't that make you feel warm inside. Often times we see couples out for a drink or meal or we see friends together and we think "What a lovely couple, they must have a great relationship. I wish I had a relationship like that." What we see on the surface isn't always what is happening in reality behind closed doors. Doing coaching over the years, I have found that people's partner relationship is a recurring theme, closely intertwined with general happiness and well being or lack ther.

I heard once that you should marry your best friend. Well he's already married, he snores worse than me and no offence mate, but I don't find him particularly attractive. Thinking about your relationship in that way is a good place to start though. There are many books and tips about having a successful relationship, and I strongly believe that there isn't just one way of achieving what you want in a relationship. One thing that I think helps a lot is having values which are aligned with your partner. To what extent are the things that are important to you in your life the same things that are important to your partner? You won't get perfect alignment and you probably wouldn't want to. That would be like being married to yourself. But a low level of alignment is probably going to be a problem.

Virginia Satir was one of the people that was modelled during the creation of NLP. She was a very successful family therapist in the USA in the sixties and seventies. She did say that some of the things that caused problems in relationships were, negative anchors, unfulfilled strategies and double binds. A negative anchor is a stimulus which causes a negative response in you or your partner. So every time your partner says a certain word or phrase or topic or looks at you in a certain way you feel negative emotions. An unfulfilled strategy represents something which you want to actualise in your life through the relationship which your partner isn't allowing for or assisting with. A double bind is a nice language pattern which gives the illusion of choice, where in fact there is no choice at all; "Would you like to empty the dishwasher or do the ironing after dinner, dear?"

We have high expectations of partner's, we expect them to make us happy. Maybe because having a good relationship does contribute so much to our happiness. But give your partner a break too. They will never know you as well as you know yourself and the only person that can ever make you happy in life is you. Over a life time people grow and change at different rates, so ask yourself is there space in your relationship for that growth? Of course if you know that you would be happier not in the relationship that you are in already, then change it.

I'm not married to any political faction and my suspicion of Politian's of all brands runs fairly high. All of their arguments and friendships seem just a little too choreographed for me. It's like watching WWE wrestling. In NLP one the most important things to calibrate on is behaviour so judge the decisions of your Politian's by their results. If you have a 'Special Relationship' with someone, you will feel more at ease in asking them to do things for you, but sometimes when someone is being nice to us we know they want something else in return. So what is the real long term effect of the US / UK 'Special Relationship'?

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0 Dealing With Haters How To Keep Calm From Nlp And Huna

"A COMPLAINER IS LIKE A DEATH EATER BECAUSE THERE'S A SUCTION OF NEGATIVE ENERGY. YOU CAN CATCH A GREAT ATTITUDE FROM GREAT PEOPLE." -BARBARA CORCORAN"

Recently, I've been asked by my students to teach NLP techniques on how to deal with negative people. For those of us on a path to expand and realize our full potential, nasty, negative people are bound to show up to help us with the lessons we need to learn. The Dalai Lama once called these people "special friends" because they offer us so much opportunity to learn about ourselves and evolve!

But when you're face to face with a true hater, someone who has decided that you or something you believe in needs to be cut to shreds, chewed up and spit out - well, your first thought is rarely, "Yippee! Another character-building opportunity!" No matter how much work you have done on yourself, no matter how much time you've spent in meditation or in therapy, no matter how pono or happy you were feeling the moment before, our hackles are wired to shoot up when faced with someone who is angry and on the attack.

I ran into this recently while on the board of an organization that I value highly. The organization was is severe financial difficulty and, because of my position, I was the one who had to be the bearer of bad tidings: the organization had to shut down. You know that old phrase, "Don't shoot the messenger?" Well, I was the messenger and while many people were supportive, others had their AK47's out and were ready to form a firing squad! Even though I've been meditating since I was five, trained in NLP techniques since thirteen, and have a daily ho'ponopono practice, I'd be lying if I didn't admit that the negative energy of these people didn't affect me at times.

So how to stay calm, both in the moment a hater attacks and afterward, so you can respond in a way that serves you?

To be prepared even before being confronted with a hater, the first step is to recognize that perception is projection. Yes, there definitely are negative people in the world who will harm others when given an opportunity. But how you perceive someone and how you react to them will be based on either your "stuff," (a psychological term for emotional baggage), or your clarity. The more you have cleared old negative emotions of fear, anger, sadness, hurt and guilt, the clearer and more centered you will be when the situation hits.

How to identify your unresolved stuff? Notice what triggers you and where your reaction is stronger than it should be given the situation. Maybe you feel very anxious around someone who has a particular tone of voice or type of body language. Maybe you feel anger when someone questions your motives or your integrity. Maybe you feel guilty and ashamed when someone criticizes your competency. Your negative hot buttons will lead you to your baggage.

We've talked about different ways to clear old baggage in many of these blogs. Forgiveness practices like ho'oponopono are invaluable for releasing old wounds. There are several NLP techniques such as Mental Emotional Release(R) (MER(R)) that are very effective for identifying and releasing old negative emotions. Use whatever tools you have in your toolkit - or get help - to release the negative emotions that no longer serve you.

Next, when a specific situation arises, try some reframing. Reframing simply means to be willing to see something in a different way. For example, if you get a seemingly dirty look from someone, you might initially think, "That person hates me!" Possible reframes? "He must be having a bad day. She doesn't know me but if he did, she'd love me! He's probably having a gas attack!"

My students sometimes protest, "But that reframe isn't true!" Really? How do you know? Are you positive your original interpretation was correct? Even if it was, does thinking about it that way serve you?

In my situation with the organization I mentioned, I used a few reframes or different ways to think about it: "Who better than me to lead this process? Though I don't like what the haters are saying, I'm confident and know who I am. I can let their criticisms slide off my back. I know their reactions are coming from fear and confusion."

In the heat of the situation with a hater, take a deep breath. Listen to what is being said without absorbing the energy of it. If you feel that you've cleared whatever old baggage you had around the situation and you have no extra charge on it, you're in great position to state your truth.

Stating your truth is not about justifying or defending or arguing. It doesn't further inflame a situation. It's often a calm, simple statement of "that's you and this is me." Your truth might sound something like, "I hear what you're saying and respect your right to have that point of view. I happen to disagree and have a different point of view."

For example, in my case, I was able to listen to complaints, take a deep breath and say, "I understand your concern and am sorry that our organization came to this. However, I'm confident that I did the best I could -- and as well as anyone could have done -- given the circumstances."

But what if none of this works for you? What if you have a hater in your life who is determined to make your life miserable?

Walk away. Learn what lessons you can from that person, then let them move out of your life. As Oscar Wilde said, "Some people cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go."

Mahalo!

Matt

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0 10 Romantic Pick Up Lines

Here are some funny and witty pick up lines. My ratings are less about how funny they are and more about whether I think girls will like any of them.

Your lips look so lonely? Would they like to meet mine?

5/10 - clever but pushy

If you were a booger, I'd pick you first.

3/10 - kind of gross

Do you have a twin sister? No?, then you must be the most beautiful woman in the world.

6/10 - not bad, witty

Are you an interior designer? Because when you walked in - the room suddenly became beautiful.

8/10 - Clever and complimentary

Are you from Tennessee? Because you are the only TEN I see.

7/10 - Good play on words

Yeah, I was wondering if you had an extra heart because mine seems to be stolen.

6/10 - little corny

You are so beautiful, I forgot my pick up line

8/10 - the anti pick up line is the best

You are so beautiful I bumped my head into that wall over there, so I am going to need your name and number for insurance purposes.

7/10 - really corny but clever way of asking for a number

My love for you is like diarrhea, I just can't hold it in.

5/10 - I want to give a high rating because it's so funny but terrible if you are meeting someone

Hey somebody farted, let's cut out of here.

3/10 - only if the girl likes fart jokes, unlikely

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