0 Women Empowerment

"Living thing Need NOT ACCEPT; SHE Need Refute. SHE Need NOT BE Overwhelmed BY THAT WHICH HAS BEEN BUILT UP In the region of HER; SHE Need Hero worship THAT Living thing IN HER WHICH STRUGGLES FOR Stand in front of" - MARGARET SANGERWomen restrain been perfectly treated as second rated the populace all spanning the planet in spite of the fact that they numerically construct about curtailed the world nation state today. The design is more or less the same irrespective of a adult or a unsophisticated confusion. This situation has caused immense depletion to their self-dignity as human beings and further their open-minded entities, allied with men, to the left from other matter, in context with bright and professional facility. In the very start off of the world, women enjoyed a nice position in society-at par with men. They took part in socio economic activities. But unhurriedly as women became above and above region on men for their basic chuck of life, they started gulp down their position in the society. It was in the undercurrent outer that the society started realising the import of women and the effect of women empowerment on the socio economic editorial of a confusion. In Shakespeare's works, an assortment of female characters are portrayed as being manipulated, if not classified extreme by the men in their lives as fathers, uncles, suitors, husbands. Therefore, Shakespeare's works semblance to means unclean singles concerning the standard of female empowerment. Empowerment has compound, organized and interdependent encourage economic, social, cultural and following. It can be believed in relation to resources, perceptions. relationship and power. But what does women empowerment mean? Women empowerment in total has three components : initially, women's reflect of self worth; secondly, their right to restrain the power of check their own lives, every happening and self-regulating home; and ultimately, their ability to form the method of social change to construct a just social and economic order locally, internationally and readily. The superlative of gender identicalness is enshrined in the Indian Constitute in its Opening, Focal point Rights, Focal point Duties and Association Ethics. Acquaint with has been diplomacy shifts from time to time based on the shifts in emphasis. Like the immediate or else was good and advance of women, now the immediate is on 'women's empowerment'. In fact, the court 2001 was avowed as "Women's Empowerment Engagement" to fetch fat immediate on the programmes for women. A number of qualities restrain to be acquired by women to become truly empowered. They basic be shrewd about see moving at home, in work place, in travelling and staying self-regulating home. They hardship restrain following, legal, economic and therapeutic experience. They hardship set goals for sophisticated and struggle to cuff them with superlative. As a result it is not just the occupation of the society or the status one by one, every women hardship stand strong and broil for her job if they are eventful absent from her and correspondingly use her job and power to the edge variety so that it benefits the come to nation and in turn the compute world. I would like to conjecture with the scrutiny poem,The Empowered Living thing, she moves undeviating the worldwith a reflect of confidence and refinement.Her in the manner of naive spirit now tempered by assiduousness.Quietly, yet solidly, she speaks her reliability without matter or hesitationand the life she leads is of her own enterprise.She now understands what it ability to live and let live.How distant to ask for herself and how distant to give.She has a strong, yet selfish heartand the inner beauty she emanates truly sets her to the left.Analogous the make-believe Phoenix,she has risen from the embers and soared to a new quantity of living,unfettered by the objects that in the manner of that posed such unfriendliness.

- Sonny Carol

In print BY SUSHANTH P

0 How To Turn Heads

Have you ever wanted all eyes to turn towards you as you enter a room? A lot of that seemingly effortless attention getting has to do with poise and confidence. Cultivating the right qualities and presenting yourself in the right ways will go a long way towards turning people's heads!

STEPS

WEARING THE RIGHT CLOTHES

* Go for an eye-catching color, like red. Color is incredibly important in making an immediate impression. Colors like grey or beige have a tendency to make you part of the background, so wear them sparingly, or with a more exciting color.

* The color that turns heads more than anything other is red. You can make a big color statement by wearing a red dress, or go for a little more toned-down and wear red lipstick, a red sweater, or a scarf.

* Jewel tones are also good for garnering attention. If you can, try and match one to a shade in your eyes so that it makes your eyes stand out. Purple and green are good colors to try out (although not necessarily together).

* Show off your best asset. Highlighting more than one good asset (like wearing skin-tight everything) has a tendency to make you seem like you're trying too hard to get attention. You may get attention, but it won't be the same as turning heads.

* Pick one thing to emphasize. For example: if you want to emphasize your gorgeous legs you might wear a short skirt, a pair of tall boots and a sweater on top. This way anyone's gaze is drawn to your legs.

* Soft, touchable fabrics (like cashmere or soft suede) can help to highlight your best body parts. They drape more easily and draw the eye to your silhouette rather than each individual part of you.

* Wear an interesting accessory. Not only is an interesting accessory a good way to capture people's attention, it also presents a good conversation piece. You want to try and find something that's unique and flattering to you.

* If you're a crafty person you could make something: a scarf with a really interesting and intricate pattern, gorgeous jewelry, even clothes.

* You could also look in vintage shops, and local artist bazaars. You're certain to find unique pieces and you'll be supporting your local economy!

* Make sure your clothes fit. Of course no one ever looks perfect, but you can make yourself look good by making sure your clothes fit you properly. Again, clothing that's too tight makes you look lumpy, and it screams that you want attention. Clothing that's too loose makes you look like you don't want any attention at all.

* Wearing the right bra can make a huge difference to your appearance and to your comfort level. The best thing that you can do is get measured by a professional. There are some things that you should watch out for. The right bra won't leave red marks, or uncomfortably squeeze you anywhere.

* You want to make sure that even things like jeans fit you properly. Don't just buy any old jeans that seem close enough. Hold out for ones that don't pinch around your waistband and that have the right length (or are easily hemmed to have the right length).

GETTING THE RIGHT APPEARANCE

* Make sure your hair is shiny and lustrous. There's nothing more noticeable than the state of your hair. Studies have shown that men are typically attracted to shinier, more lustrous hair, because it's a sign of health. Make sure you are regularly washing and conditioning your hair.

* People notice high volume hair in particular. Give yourself a shot of confidence with a bit of a bouffant look that will draw the eye.

* There's also some studies that say that men tend to be more attracted to longer hair. So if you've got longer hair, let it curl over your shoulders rather than tucking it out of sight in a bun or ponytail.

* Perfect your skin care routine. One of the main things people notice first about someone is their skin. Healthy, glowing skin is attractive to people and more likely to catch their notice than skin that hasn't been taken care of.

* Eat right. You'll want to eat a lot of vegetables and fruits (the dark leafy greens like kale tend to be the best, as well as berries like blueberries). Make sure that you get at least five portions of vegetables and fruits each day, emphasis on the vegetables.

* The health of your digestive tract also has an important effect on the health and clarity of your skin. Make sure that you're getting plenty of probiotics to help regulate your digestive tract. You can get this through sugar-free yogurt (good to eat with blueberries!).

* Exercise can also help improve your skin, because it can reduce stress (something that can have a negative impact on your skin) and can increase your blood flow, leading to a healthier glow.

* Make sure your teeth are cared for. Since people tend to rate others as more attractive if they have whiter teeth, you want to make sure that yours look healthy. White teeth can be seen as an indication that you effectively groom yourself and that you're healthy.

* Brush your teeth at least twice a day and floss them at least once per day. Brushing and flossing will keep your teeth in good repair and help you to avoid cavities.

* Try whitening your teeth safely by using over-the-counter treatments, if you can't afford to have a professional whiten your teeth. While it doesn't necessarily contribute to the health of your teeth it makes them seem like they're healthy and cared for.

* Keep your lips looking good. Lips are another thing that people unconsciously notice about you. This means that you want them looking good and cared for, and as plump and kissable as possible.

* Make sure that you keep them moisturized. Drink lots of water and apply lip balm when they're feeling dry. Get the kind with sunscreen to protect them from the sun.

* Avoid licking your lips because this can aid in drying them out. If they're dry or uncomfortable, keep applying lip balm.

* Put a little color in them. The perfect way to catch people's attention is to rouge up your lips. You can wear tinted lip balm or you can put on some bright red, "look at me" lipstick, over your lip balm.

* Enhance your aura with a little make-up. There's nothing like makeup to enhance your already delightful face. If you're trying to turn heads then you don't want to just stick to the typical "natural" look or even just go for smokey eye. Obviously a little red lipstick will help you out here, but there are some other ideas, as well.

* Try out flirty, sparkly eye make-up. Eye make-up that catches the light and sparkles is a sure way to make people look. It also makes you seem a bit daring, which will further intrigue those around you.

* Colorful nails can also create an exciting impression. Try out something brightly colored to catch the eye, or an interesting pattern that makes people look closer. Always try and keep your nails nicely maintained and clean, because people will register that, if only subconsciously.

CULTIVATING THE RIGHT IMPRESSION

* Exude confidence. The thing about turning people's heads is that it matters very little whether you are the most attractive person ever, or whether you have the best wardrobe. If you aren't confident about yourself, then you're unlikely to attract the attention you desire.

* Walk tall. You want to exude confidence by the way you walk and sit. Act as if you have a string that is attached to your chest and gently pulling you upright. Not only will this make you walk more confidently, but it'll show off your chest as well.

* Cultivate poise in the way that you move. You don't want to strut like a supermodel, or be in a hurry. Avoid slamming doors, running, or clomping your feet on the ground.

* Don't sabotage yourself with negative thinking. You can't wholly get rid of negative thinking, unfortunately, but you can make it so that it doesn't take over your life. Consistently thinking negatively about yourself will determine how other people think about you, too.

* Pay attention to how you think about yourself. Do you have a tendency to think things like "No one is ever going to notice me" or "I'll never be attractive enough to turn heads?"

* Once you've determined some of your negative thought patterns, it's time to replace them with the positive, or at least with the neutral. For example: if you think "No one is ever going to notice me," replace that with "My new red boots are fabulous; I'm sure other people will think so, too."

* Don't compare yourself to others. This is a truly futile move, because someone else is always going to get more attention than you, be more attractive, have more admirers, and so on. Work on being confident in yourself and not worrying how you compare to other people.

* This will take a little time and a little paying attention to achieve. You won't be able to defeat all your negative thoughts in a single day, but by giving it a little time and gradually working on your though processes, you'll find that you're thinking less negatively about yourself, and so will other people.

* Make yourself approachable. Striding straight forward without a look at anyone works for people like supermodels and actresses. If you want people to notice you, you have to act like you're interested in other people and are open to them noticing you.

* Smile at people. This flashes those pearly-whites of yours (important for drawing attention) and it shows that you're noticing other people.

* Make eye contact with people. This makes it so that you're impossible to ignore as you enter a room.

* Don't back down when you do get attention. This may seem like a strange step, but it's one that a lot of people, especially women, get hung up on. They desire the attention, but one they get it, they have a tendency to curl up into themselves or start feeling awkward.

* Turning heads is about keeping the momentum rolling. Once some people have started to notice you, if you let that propel you forward, rather than getting self-conscious and retreating, you'll find that you'll get more attention.

* Have a sense of humor. People are attracted to good humor and to laughter, which is contagious. It's also a good way to connect with other people. This doesn't mean that you need to be a laughing loon, but cultivating some humor goes a long way towards getting attention.

* Example: if you're at a party you might consider telling a funny, and true, anecdote. Perhaps you got lost trying to get to a party, perhaps your cat left cat hair all over the dress you were intending on wearing to the party. Telling something like this is funny because it is true and it helps to humanize you.

* This will also help keep you from being embarrassed if things don't quite go as planned (your heel breaks while you're confidently striding into the room, or you run into something).

TIPS

* Stand next to the punch bowl at a party, or where the drinks are being served. People will be drawn that way because of the drinks and they'll end up chatting and hanging out with you, as well.

* Be social. If you don't talk well, that isn't going to get you noticed.

WARNINGS

* Doing things because you're desperate for attention (especially if you're drunk) is not going to end well for you. You'll end up less likely to turn heads than to gain a reputation for desperation, which is very flattering or enjoyable for you.

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* How to Be a Better You (for Girls)

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0 Self Esteem Builders Do Service For The Community

Letting children express their creativity is one of the best SELF ESTEEM BUILDERS you can let your child do. One activity which has become a great tool for children to express their creativity is through painting. Painting is also considered as a therapy that helps a child improve their mental health, which includes their self esteem and confidence. Parents can encourage there child to paint at home or let him or her join activities that would help them improve their self esteem while learning some skills.

A very common organization which children, especially girls, can join is Girl Scouts. It involves activities which are mostly SELF ESTEEM BUILDERS that can also let the girls do something for their community. Like the Nolan County Girl Scouts, led by Sands and Judy Leighow, along with a local artist Westorn Pyburn, went over town to paint and did a makeover for the the town's so called "Ugly Mushroom". Read along to know more about the activity.

"Some call it the Ugly Mushroom. Others. the Rusty Umbrella."

"Weston Pyburn remembered when the structure - located at the corner of East 23rd and Locust streets - was built in the mid-1970s, when what is now First Financial Bank was put in."

"So it really hasn't been painted or touched since that time," he said."

"Pyburn is a local artist and owner of Java Jax, a coffeehouse and restaurant in town."

"I heard some people were talking about wanting to tear the thing down," he said. "I hate to see anything torn down that's structurally viable."

"Pyburn wasn't the only one who wanted to save it, however. Liz Sands saw it as the perfect vehicle for her Girl Scouts to do something for the community. She approached the bank, because it was on their property, about fixing it up. When Pyburn approached the bank about painting a color wheel on top of it, bank President Kirby Andrews put him in touch with Sands."

"Saturday was the big day. Pyburn, a handful of Scouts, Sands and Judy Leighow, the service unit manager for Nolan County Girl Scouts, gathered at the umbrella. The structure stands about 8 feet off the ground and does indeed resemble a mushroom, umbrella or oversize thumbtack."

"Leighow explained some of the reasons for the project."

"It's important for the town, for the looks of the town," she said. "Girl Scouts are 100 years old this year, so we're trying to do a hundred days of service."

"Nolan County Commissioner Tony Lara, who owns a commercial painting company, already volunteered a crew to sand and coat the umbrella with primer. Earlier in the week, the Scouts watched Pyburn mix the paints that would make up the hues of the color wheel."

"It started off a bit slow. The Scouts took to the project with as much enthusiasm as you could imagine from five 'tween-age girls. Pyburn kept up a steady lecture of color and painting techniques, trying to get the girls to warm up to the subject."

"We had to break some ice, there. But it was some dang thick ice," Pyburn said, laughing."

"But to be fair, that's only natural with girls this age and is part of the reason for the whole exercise in the first place."

"This is a great self-esteem builder," Sands said. "At this age, the preteen level, their self-esteem takes a nose-dive, and they have no belief in themselves, no drive."

"She said this is the time in a girl's life when peer pressure is at its strongest."

"Everything is about wanting to be like other kids, but they don't know how to go about it. And they usually don't go about it in a constructive way," she said."

"Leighow said the challenge is always getting the girls to be involved, but that once the first one does, the rest jump in, too. That experience, she said, can translate into other areas of their lives."

"You saw how it helped them to get up there and get to painting where they wouldn't even move in the beginning," she said. "It gives them the confidence and the courage to try lots of different things."

"Pyburn divided the top of the umbrella into 12 wedges with masking tape."

"Each girl took a turn on the ladder painting in a color while he coached from his perch atop the umbrella. Most of the girls ended up painting twice and said they enjoyed themselves."

"It was fun," Shania Boyd said. "I was nervous at the beginning because I'm afraid of heights."

"The girls will return to the umbrella Saturday to add a second coat. Pyburn said they also have a plan for what to do on the underside of the roof, suggesting they may put something like constellations or the phases of the moon."

"We're hoping to turn it into a compass out here," he said. "You can find out where you're at in the world and how far it is to different places - like an arrow that shows you the exact distance to the center of Dallas."

"Although that's still in the future, Pyburn said it was good for the community to have something that was thought of as an eyesore to become useful and even attractive again."

"We've done a lot of things today. It took them a while to warm up a little bit, but by the time they left they were smiling," he said. "I know they learned something because I saw them get better at painting."

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Having to enjoy the wonders of painting while doing something for the community is a rewarding and fulfilling experience to children. Encourage your child in joining organizations with a cause, they will grow up to loving the feeling of getting back to the community. Let them discover as many SELF ESTEEM BUILDERS they can. It will be a success to your parenting career!

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0 7 Reasons Why Dating A Friend May Work

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0 Navigating Tricky Waters International Family Law And Divorce

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0 Vote Indie Soap Best Of The Week Poll August 19 25 2012

It was an exciting week in the world of web series and now is your chance to get caught up and tell us what you liked best. RAGGED ISLE won our indie poll LAST WEEK but which show was your favorite "this "week? Support your favorite continuing drama or comedy and vote in the "We Love Soaps" Indie Soap Best of the Week poll below. You can also cast a vote for your favorite actor, actress and web series couple. Voting ends Tuesday at 9 a.m. ET.

Only the shows that aired one or more new episodes from August 19-25, 2012 are eligible. If an indie soap aired this week and is not on the list, cast your vote as "Other" and add a note in the Comments section of this post.

Watch this week's indie soaps below:

- 13 WITCHES Episode 16 "A Love-Hate Relationship"

- THE BAY Chapter 10 "Darkside of The Bay, Part 3"

- BROKEN AT LOVE Episode 1 "Dear Mr. Holden Gregory"

- BROOKLYN IS IN LOVE Season 2 Episode 4 "Mixed Feelings"

- EMPIRE Episode 4.6 "Future Lovers"

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- THE UNDEAD Episode 1 "Victim"

- WHERE THE BEARS ARE Episodes 6 THE EX-BOX, DATING RULES FROM MY FUTURE SELF, FREEFALL, HUSBANDS, THE VARIANTS, THE SOURCE

- PHOTOS: EMPIRE THE SERIES MARCHES IN NYC PRIDE PARADE

- INDIE SOAP AWARD WINNER JOSHUA HOLLAND AT OLYMPICS AS A TRAINER

- CASTING EXCLUSIVE: DINGANI BEZA JOINS ANACOSTIA

- CASTING: COLLEEN ZENK JOINS THURSTON!

0 What To Avoid When Choosing Your Online Profile Photos

By Buffy Greentree

Welcome to the world of online dating. It's an exciting concept, that just a few mouse clicks away you could find the perfect partner. Today I want to talk about one of the most important aspects of online dating, your profile pictures.

Your picture is worth 1000 words, and 100 dates.

Please tell me that you didn't think you could get through this without putting up a picture at all?

And you weren't hoping that you would be able to get away with an old photo or just snapping a selfie on your phone, were you?

Bad dater, bad!

Let me say this clearly: yes you need a photo. Why would you even bother to put together a profile if you are going to then shoot yourself in the foot by refusing to show your face? And then you need to make sure it's an asset, not a liability.

Psychologists have been studying online dating for about as long as people have been trying it, and they have found some interesting things. Basically, everyone feels that everyone else is lying largely because there is no way to check if they are telling the truth. In real life we like reading other people's non-verbal cues to judge if we think they are lying. But because online there are less of those, everyone assumes you are lying, and the few cues that remain take on even greater importance.

Your photos are one of the the best ways to support what you say and make you appear honest. However, if you aren't careful, it will also be 'telling' people things about you that you don't know.

So just to reinforce, you need photos, and you need to know what they are saying. If you put up a photo that you have clearly taken yourself, then it is going to be read as saying you have no friends. Sad, but true.

This is not the time to get scared and stick your head in the sand. By understanding the top mistakes people usually make in their photos, you can get yourself ahead of 90% of the online population. So let's get started.

1. Pictures of Something Else

There are a number of people out there who include a picture of a sunset or a dog as their primary photograph. I can't decide if this is better or worse than not having a photo at all. You might be trying to suggest you like good scenery, but overall it does not come across well. Why don't you want people to see your face? There could be a number of reasons, but none of them are good, and people naturally assume the worst. Yes, you might want to show that you are a dog-lover, but this message is much more effective if you are also in the picture. Otherwise people think the message is that your dog is your more attractive side.

2. Me with All My Mates

The most common type of photo that we take in everyday life is now us with our friends. Therefore, it might appear obvious that you would then use this on your profile. Let me warn you now - don't. Human nature being what it is, everyone is going to assume that you are the ugliest person in the photo, or that at least one of your friends is better looking and a better match. You want to be the major focus of all your photos. You are already competing with everyone else on the site, so why add competition within your own profile as well?

3. Me and My Hot Ex

I assume the logic is that you are trying to prove you can pull hot girls. This is slightly undermined by the fact that you are on an internet dating site. Further, users will judge the girl in the photo (harshly, it's human nature) and then assume that is your type. Even if the girl in the photo is an exact representation of your ideal girl, after she has gone through this filter you will find no other girl wanting to own up to being like her. Therefore, every girl viewing it will assume you are looking for someone else. The only acceptable woman ever would be your grandmother. Your mother makes you look like a mama's boy. Having a child in your photo is okay if it is yours and you want to get across clearly that you have children and are a loving parent. If you want to get across that you are great with children, but don't have any of your own, then put a niece or nephew in one of your other photos, not your primary one, and clearly state it's not yours.

4. Comic Ugly Shot

Making yourself ugly on purpose is a bad idea, even if it is a hilarious photo. Trust me when I say that everyone will assume that your worst photo is the most realistic. You don't want that image of you stuck in their minds when they talk to you, do you? So don't use it.

5. The Decapitated Shot

Okay so you have a great body, thanks for showing that. But would it really have been that hard to zoom out and show that you have a brain as well? Particularly for women, photos of bodies with no heads are disturbing. It also screams that you objectify your own and everyone else's bodies. Not a great message for most dating sites.

6. This Is Me... 10 Years Ago

All of your photos need to be reasonably up to date, with the primary photo being taken in the last few months. You look great as you are, and have matured well, so be confident. It is usually pretty obvious if someone hasn't put up a recent photo, because no 40 year old actually looks like that. But even if you don't get found out now, you are just leading to in person rejection - not because you're bad looking, but because you are not what they expected. Now you look older and like a liar, or just seriously insecure, which is not attractive either. Even though a lot of people do feel that an out-dated photo is still legitimate, if you are prepared to put some time in now, you can definitely take an even better photo. Recreate your favorite shot if that makes you feel better, but add in some extra clues to your achievements since then.

7. Professional Photo Shoots.

If you are a model, and have been paid to have your photo taken, then sure, go ahead an include one of them (this will support your self-statements). In any other circumstance, I recommend not using professional glamor shots in your profile. If you have paid someone to take photos of you, this often comes across as self-indulgent. Further, they are known to be unrealistic and touched up, so people don't trust them anyway. Even if you love the picture, I recommend trying to recreate a more realistic version yourself.

8. The Drunken Shot

So I can see why you might have drunk photos up on Facebook, but unless you are writing your profile while drunk (which I really do not recommend), then why on earth would you put it up as one of your best and defining looks? If you think the best thing about you is that you get drunk and then ugly, you really need to try a new branding tactic, because that isn't going to appeal to many people.

9. Out of Focus Shots

I'm going to include in this shots where you are not the focus and landscape photos where you are just a speck. You do want the photograph to support your other attributes, which might include being outdoorsy. However, the main purpose of the photo is always to show that the other good looking photo wasn't a fluke. People want to see you. Clearly.

If you are prepared to go out and make a day of taking some great, fresh and creative shots, you never have to fear the online profile photo. So go and have fun.

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0 Divine Partnership Studies Are Healing

By Ava Hudson To find success and joy in one's life, one can take divine partnership studies. This is the study of how one relates to a Higher Power and how one can find peace in this tumultuous world. Being fulfilled in life is so important. It helps one keep their sanity. Being happy is part of being fulfilled. Happiness is not hard to find when one looks at oneself. Going online is not hard to take some courses for self-improvement or going to somewhere in your locale to do this. Learning a lot of new things about yourself keeps you going. A good sense of self-esteem is important and can increase one's joy. Make sure you have enough money to pay for courses that can help you. It is worth the investment and important to have enough funds to pay so you do not miss out. Your well-being and joy are depending are in. This is not worth negotiating with. You will most likely become a better person with these courses so do not miss out. Relationship help is also part of this. Find your center and learn to love yourself and then you can love others. There are many people who struggle with this. They do not like themselves because they are perfectionists such as they are too fat, too thin, not smart enough, or not tall enough. Make a list of your good qualities and dwell with them. They are important to keep in the forefront of your mind so when you have a bad day, you have something to counterattack it. Feeling contentious towards anyone in your life can result if you feel down on yourself and do not show it. It can be subtle, but others can sense it and it can drive them away from you if you are not careful. If you are doubting something within yourself, this can lead to insecurity. Taking these courses can help you overcome this. Finding the good in oneself is important for having good self-esteem. If you negative, you cannot see the good in yourself and this can lead to negative self-esteem. Drinking and smoking can be done in order to cope with negative feelings. Many people do this because they do not know what else to do. Having a drinking or smoking problem can really hurt a person or his or her family. Do not be one of these people. Be willing to look at oneself because it brings freedom and bliss. There is no reason to not do this. Learning to love yourself is something you can learn in divine partnership studies. It is really worth the investment of time and effort. Show your feelings and get the help you need. If you find yourself in these bad habits, it is not too late to change, but you must have a strong, sincere desire to do so or it will never happen. About the Author: For a good explanation of divine partnership studies, see the recommended website at www.lightwavesynergy.org today. To get further info check out our homepage at http://www.lightwavesynergy.org now.

0 Issues Married Man You Need To Dump That Girl Youve Been Eyeing

Okay, that bounce will make some of our brothers move about in their sitting room if they are current. You need to den that girl you've been eying or harboring in your mind with needs and intents that you pass on aren't right.

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Oh, you don't pass on who the secret weekend away is in your life? Capably, doubtless that's to the same degree you devour become too secure with looking pole to seeing the daycare girl, the grocery girl, the whilst work girl or accepted the Church girl. Tranquil not following?

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My acquaintance told me a story the extra day about a married friend of his who had a "daycare girl", and yes it was at the Church daycare. Respectively time this married man would show up to Church, he would cheerily hold close the litter over to the daycare.

Why? Having the status of he advantageous to see his "gag" weekend away. In extra words, he looked pole to seeing a woman that worked at hand that hit all the right points in him. Whatever thing about her drew him in, in the best way. I can't bear out if it was her look, her smell, her long or subdued haze, or just her personality. It was no matter which period. That no matter which was lifelessly destroying his marriage and he couldn't accepted see it.

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I can't sit display and type, and say that I devour never struggled in this power. Prehistoric in my marriage and before I especially implied the worth, I would in some way field a beautiful woman. If I was at work, I'd get indistinct with one woman in lock. If I went out with friends to a self-service restaurant, a lock waitress muscle become infected with my eye and, you guessed it, I'd keep separation back for looks. It looked-for no communication in the middle of the two of us, the looking and wondering was a lot. These tidy occasions became a fill in political party to the decay of my marriage. At the time, "I didn't pass on or understand," was a versatile supplication. But now I pass on and NOW I hold close action to layer my marriage. Oh, and by the way, NOW you pass on TOO! Fib reading...

Who muscle not understand?

In the early hours off, the newlywed man muscle not get what I'm saying. Why? Having the status of when marriage is new and sterile, his bride is every bit his weekend away. In supreme personal belongings, every one spouses devour attempted to be at the top of their apt for each extra. And at hand is very microscopic history to make you want or think you need recent woman.

Strike my words newlywed men, do no matter which you can to layer your marriage right from the start! Hold that looking at extra women with impious eyes will only measure the view you devour for your bride. No matter what, do no matter which you can to make her the only woman steadily your dedication. AND if you find yourself being brought into the allure of recent woman, do what you can to prevalence your emotions, get out of the situation and if sought-after take in hand to these 5 tips.

The second type of man who muscle not understand is the man in withdrawal. Routinely, this will be the man who has been married for some time. The living devour doubtless in demand its rates on the marriage and at hand is loads of history to use as excuses. He muscle devour one woman in lock he likes, or he muscle devour multiples set up at on a plane areas.

Strike my words men. "Firm, look and grace with your presence men; are you in withdrawal about the customs, reasoning and activities that are pretentious your marriage? Are you simply permitting your marriage to be destroyed? Fair to the same degree the living devour rolled on, a nuclear box had occurred, or the communication has dried out up, doesn't deliver us to fix our issues by assessment organization in addition. Trail help now! Get out of your comfort zone and talk about your marriage concerns with a instantly and confident married male friend or minister. Defeat your problems will only request to burden you out of your comfort zone in a significantly pompous treasured way. Let him pass on what has been separation on in your marriage and request to find a resolution to your problems. Anything you do, do not request advice on how to fix your marriage from one of the women you slyly (or precisely) like. Foster on that region display.

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A great fork of verses for this type of scheme can be launch in Mathew 19:1-10. The Pharisees are affect their classic test questions against Jesus about the topics of marriage and divorce.

Jesus responded with some significant information for them and for us. Having a secret weekend away is plain out sexual rubbish. And this is one of the only reasons it is pull up to entertain divorce. Contemporary significant working to note is that husbands are to opening to their wife. Husbands are to become ONE with THEIR Wife, not their secret weekend away. Dig in and read the rest of this verse fork if you haven't yet. Caper praying now that, if you're in this scheme, God would uphold breakdown and cogency to your situation.

WHAT'S THE Crib LINE?

Your wife want be the only weekend away you devour in your life (extra than Jesus). She is the one you chose to say your Vows to and she is the one you swore your love to for the rest of your life. To request a weekend away elsewhere would question your very fair dealing. It would breather the very laws of what it livelihood to be a good and right husband.

And in the hide you didn't read the elder paragraphs and need to pass on why your secret weekend away may well enlarge your marriage. Close to are 3 reasons why you need to stop seeing her and 3 ways to help you in the providence.

WHY YOU Convey TO Firm SEEING HER NOW.

1) Having the status of you're are a ONE Organism man, and your wife deserves your all.

2) Having the status of a secret weekend away will enlarge you and your marriage (matter of time)

3) Having the status of Jesus has made you one flesh with your wife. To inform on your wife would be to inform on Jesus.

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1) Oversee up and be honest about your situation with a friend NOW. Speak in confidence it, explain it, request official pardon and proceed carrying out former it.

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Corpulence doesn't downright carry on any translation into the Ukrainian language. Waddle the streets of Kiev or Odessa, and the only fat woman you will see is the irregular American tourist!

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As mentioned sponsor, multitude girls from the Ukraine still wharf pattern ethics, which way it is their number one position to steadiness down, carry on mope and keep a nice home.

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It's not red to see a model quality Ukraine girl in her twenties with a man in his forties or fifties. Unlike multitude women in the West, girls in the Ukraine realize the benefits of being with an bulky man.

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New Bitch Magazine is here! Tons of articles, and one early on is really interesting, where Gabrielle Moss discusses how the sudden cultural fascination with "mean girls" is just an excuse to trot out tired old stereotypes about catfighting. In her discussion on the movie Mean Girls she talks about a scene where someone suggests to Tina Fey that the girls have self-esteem problems and she says that they all seem pretty happy with themselves.

The line made me snicker because it reminded me of all the awful popular girls in high school who were happy with themselves and in fact thought they were the queens of our little school and that their status actually meant something. In that sense, they did have self-esteem. But in the larger sense, no they didn't, of course. Cattily attacking other women, being the best of the girls (but still not up to boy level of course), defining yourself solely through your looks and fashion--these are not signs of high self-esteem.

But it occurred to me that there is confusion in our culture about exactly what "self-esteem" is, especially for women. and the larger culture and feminists have very different answers. And the interesection between the two definitions is the cause of a lot of problems. The fuzzy general consensus that self-esteem is whatever makes you feel good leads people to define self-esteem for women and girls as that which makes them feel like they are adhering as closely as possible to the impossible standards of femininity. Whereas feminists see self-esteem as drawing pride and esteem from one's total being instead of just one's ability to appeal to artificial standards for women's attractiveness and usefulness.

The rhetoric around plastic surgery demonstrates this disconnect really well. To this feminist at least, plastic surgery is a signal of low self-esteem--I mean, you're slicing up your actual body to replace it with a culturally approved one. It's like a physical reenactment of how women are expected to subjugate their entire beings to artificial standards.

But to the larger culture, plastic surgery is repackaged is a way to enhancing self-esteem because it's seen as taking measures to get closer to the standard and therefore happier. There's little doubt to my mind that people who get it do feel more satisfied with themselves. There's pleasure in being good at something, even if that something is just looking good. I know I get a shot of pride when I dress up and feel like I look good. But the difference is in degree, as hazy as that sounds. The pain of surgery and time it takes to recover puts getting it into the category of efforts you undertake only for the most important reasons. That is, with the price you're paying, is the result worth it? Surgery to save your life--yes. To give you a slightly more culturally advantageous profile--no, I don't think so.

The self-esteem one gets from winning a catfight is another example of the cost being much higher than the benefit. Sure, there's that momentary rush when you realize that you're the bestest of the girls, but the price is that you have confirmed to yourself that women are petty and vain and to everyone else that women are just inferior to men. I know I hit on this alot, but it's an important point. Fighting to be the best of a group of second class citizens is detrimental to the more important goal of destroying the hierarchy that puts your class into the second class.

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When we came back from Chicago the "what's near" conversations started. We were at the type training distance to begin the shortened marathon training for the Gazelle Daughter in April. Condescending than later the words "oh, hell no!" came out of my maw. Subsequently to use a quote from "We Bought a Zoo" one day I had a great run and with "20 seconds of insane moral fiber" I registered for the Gazelle Daughter Half Marathon. Yikes!

You shoulder to result at this point it is mid-January in the average of the definitive indifferent in 30 years. We ran at 5:00 a.m. in cool and blizzard and ice and it never seemed to get electric fire. Influence in the blizzard is a lot like paperwork in the funnel on a shore. The coldest existence were single digits without whorl. We were a family, we ran for each another as by a long way as we ran for ourselves. The spirit of that group of women is what got me out of bed at 3:00 to make it to the runs for instance the transportation were bad.

On Sunday, April 13, 2014 I ended a Half Marathon in 3:02:56!

One engagement ago, sentence Your Rule separate my life. Yes, I try to eat better, watch my constrain, and exercise additional. Silent, the real prize I got from all the well-known, loving, insight, kick-ass women of Your Rule was for my part. I put for my part first and produce out that was OK.

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0 How To Help A Mom Cope With Cancer

HOW TO Application A MOM Run Between Cancer

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If your mom is discontent from scourge, then it's significant for you to be with you that you don't bear to feel so disappointing. Existing are a lot of gear you can do to glibness the discontent and help her manage the illness untouchable greatly.

You can do the following:

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2. BE Between HER Seeing that SHE TAKES TESTS. Leaving tabled a arranged of tests and doctor negotiations can be time-consuming, laborious, and traumatic for your mom. Whim experiencing sundry examinations and waiting for the have a spat a few period or weeks in the past. But you can make it a lot easier for her by just being at hand. You can provider her emotional and physical support so she doesn't bear to feel so on edge. You can be at hand to comfort her if the have a spat are bad and group with her when they are good.

3. Chronicle HER TOO. You can act like her own doctor at home. You can watch the food she eats, backing her to exercise and take to mean her medications and vitamins, as well as avert for any signs and symptoms linked with her illness. You can shelve a journal or a log book somewhere you can write down down all your observations and farm duties.

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Take Management OF YOURSELF TOO

You cannot be at hand for your mom if you are in addition to physically and stormily slack. It helps a great discernment if you can join support groups for families of scourge patients. This way, you bear an subdivision for your wretchedness and mayhem.

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