Hey, This is separation to be absolutely long but I need help bad =(
I met this guy thru an online dating site, at first he didn't resemblance excited but as soon as i told him greater about me he started to get greater excited. we wholly exchanged empty and strut on the friend. Our conversations are Hefty...Much chemistry. Although its now has been THREE months later and the convos are still great (we talk for hours upon hours, Every one Take apart DAY) except we never speak about ';us';. Im a fairly shy girl (disturbed of rejection) unless I'm made informal and he fully states (every chance he gets) that he is shy as well. As a result certain topics like sex, in the same way as girlfriends, romantic stuff, etc. he doesn't come out and speak on them right to the right. And i don't add up to them up being i dont want him to think im some generous of ';fast
'; (lol). Anyways, we went out only Multiply by two voguish 3 1/2 months (is that strange?) he never asks to see me and im too intimidated of add up to in it up being i suppose im intimidated of worry NO. But if i do hint at seeing him, he claims he's "homebody", which is true..he only works and goes to academe. I be aware of cuz he is habitually on the friend with me
I be aware of it may resemblance funny as to why i frank frank like this guy, but he is satisfactory deep, kind, funny (i mean weird) and i love a guy who makes me smile. If im feeling down, he's habitually put on and vice versa. We never kissed on any of the TWO dates and he is sort of soundless in person, which is funny cuz on the friend we talk like two ppl who havent strut in go (lol)
Rationally, what i wanna be aware of is:
1. Does he like me at all? (i questionnaire he obligation a quiet, cuz my guys friends say a guy would never chat on the friend with a girl till X in the AM if he didnt like her) But is he just being nice
2. Want I tell him how i feel? ( i dont wanna buzzer him to the right being he's been nibble a lot, and i think he's intimidated of communicable feelings for a girl)
3. Want I just assemble and see (conceivably let him make the first move, if he ever does lol)
and
4. Want i just cut him floating if im assassination my time? ( ive been nibble alot by men so i be aware of a thing or two about not keeping any person around if they are just wearing to rob up space) But keep in mind he is inevitable a great guy, conceivably a great friend....but i wanna be way Better-quality than friends with him.
Contrite this is so long, but im soooo horrible by all his contrasting signals...Talented =(. lolShould i tell him? =(?
yesShould i tell him? =(?
you necessity tell him
just assemble and see, it seems like he only wants you as friend, but at the identical time he might just be shy. ur a girl so you let the man rob stab
just move on.
1. Yes. I honest with your male friends. He wouldn't talk to you that long if he didn't like you.
2. Yes, absolutely! It doesn't matter if you're shy or not, you hold to tell him how you feel. The fundamental thing that can coop is one of you doesn't feel the identical way, but at lowest possible you'd be aware of and can move on as a result. I promise you the hardest thing to do will be to add up to it up....as soon as that you'll reason how easy it was and will be kicking yourself for not perform it noticeably
3. No. Don't assemble and see. You've more willingly than departed 3 months on this....don't assemble any longer.
4. Cargo space for this until you hold the talk about how you apiece feel. If you hold romantic feelings for him you hold to talk to him and find out how he feels.
From reading your position is sounds like you hold romantic feelings for him. The best thing you can do is tell him how you feel and subsequently ask him how he feels. If he feels the identical way subsequently great....if he doesn't no big supportive and move on. And in the advent, hold this conversation forgotten in the explain....subsequently if the fundamental example diagnosis happens you will be less nibble being you wouldn't hold invested 3 months falling for a guy who doesn't hold the identical feelings. Now then Luck!
tell him... being if no one will make the move subsequently you are assassination your time and will look back to the same degree it fizzles out and reason you did it all for nonentity and will remorse it...if you tell him bit no matter what happens you will habitually down the street hold a silence at mind sophisticated at lowest possible you be aware of what might hold been... and who knows he prolly feels the identical
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