0 Cut The Crap About Dating

The number of people who are single has doubled in the past 30 years. This increase comes hand-in-hand with the rise of speed dating, internet dating and the acceptability of dating agencies. In a similar way that "more of us are on diets than ever before but obesity rates are rising, something about dating is making us single." (Times website)

I will assume that "to find a partner" is the aim/motivation of dating, in order to outline some of the problems with the practice of dating. There are other motivations certainly, but let's leave them to one side. Then, later, I will challenge this assumption.

1) Problems with the practice of dating:

Dates are high-pressure situations - It is in informal and relaxed settings, rather than on a high-pressure date, that people make the deeper connections that lead to love.

Superficial qualities - competitive style of dating encourages us to rate appearance and superficial qualities over personality, even though, ultimately, this is not what makes for a good long-term partnership. When researchers at the University of Kent asked students to rate the most important quality in a potential mate, friendship came out top, followed by honesty. Just 5 per cent of men and 1.5 per cent of women rated looks.

The more people you meet, the better - This is particularly relevant to speed-dating. The internet is encouraging us to rate people. We are comparing our date not only with the others in the room but with millions of potential mates online. Seeing more people is not the answer; getting to know people better is what's required. Market researchers in the U.S. interviewed women coming out of marriage licence bureaux. Twenty per cent had not liked their intended when they first met.

2) Problems with aiming to find a partner:

The whole idea of "finding a partner" is wrongheaded. If someone were to ask "Why do you want to have a relationship with this person?" dating encourages such responses as "They're the most suitable I've met We get on well" or "We have a lot in common." There's only one acceptable response to that question, and that is "because I think they're the most amazing person I've ever met." Anything less is not enough.

Finding a partner is something that can only occur indirectly. It is something that you should not seek but should be open to and allow them to happen to you. C.S. Lewis: "Love makes a man really want not a woman, but one particular woman." And as multiple pop groups have sung (see, for example, Everything But The Girl), "I didn't know I was looking for love until I found you."

Relationships and partners are not something we should be seeking to acquire. Alasdair Macintyre calls them "networks of giving and receiving". Relationships must flow in both directions. If we go into a relationship primarily focused on what we're going to get out of it, we're doing something wrong. But the activity of "finding a partner" is a matter of acquisition, a calculation of costs and benefits. There's no sense of giving to the other person. It's as though "being with someone" - anyone - is more important than the intimacies of the relationship itself. Where's love in that picture? People are more concerned with finding "a partner" than with taking the time and giving the necessary investment to create a wonderful, lasting love.

3) So what should we be doing?

Obvious as it sounds, we should be spending time with other people and mixing, getting to know people instead of looking for potential partners. We should focus on understanding people, making and developing friendships. We should be trying to deepen our friendships, to move them beyond the often superficial level. It is likely that, on occasion, 'partnerships' will flow from this, but that is an additional benefit and not the intention.

George Orwell wrote, "The essence of being human is thatone is prepared in the end to be defeated and broken up by life, which is the inevitable price of fastening one's love upon other human individuals." There's no place for this in dating, which reduces relationships to a cost/benefit analysis, so no place for dating in human life.

0 Best Farmer Dating Site

If you are a farmer who is struggling to find love, then you are unlikely to need to tell us why. That's because this very website, which we frankly reckon is among the UK's best farmer dating sites, was initially set up several years ago by a young farmer who, too, was struggling to find love. Furthermore, the KissingGates.com website has since proven very successful in helping farmers to find love - and for many good reasons.

For a start, the KissingGates.com website can offer free basic membership to any lovelorn farmer aged at least 18. This ensures that many farmers lacking both love and cash can try out the many features of one of the UK's best farmer dating sites without having to make any financial sacrifices. And, indeed, to say that the KissingGates.com website boasts a wealth of features useful for helping to get farmers dating would be a serious understatement.

Members of the KissingGates.com website can, for example, create online profiles, including video profiles, suitable for attracting attention from many of the thousands of singles registered to the website. Furthermore, any member can use an instant-messaging facility to make the first move if any particular single registered to the website really takes their fancy. However, all of this only begins to hint at why we reckon that the KissingGates.com website is one of the best UK farmer dating sites on the Internet!

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0 Astralreflectionsjul906

ASTRAL REFLECTIONS

BY TIM STEPHENS

JULY 9 - 15, 2006

All times/dates are PDT.
SCORPIO, the 18 months ahead present you with a karmic choice. If you want peace and satisfaction, if you want to walk a smooth, easy path, then embrace creativity, romance, speculation, risk, teaching or raising children, and self-expression - pour out your heart, live in the sweet risk of the moment. Subtle traps or dead-ends await if you focus on socializing, light romance, playing the field, entertainment, politics and picnics, currying favor, organizations, clubs, union activities, conventions, etc. So paint the picture rather than run the art gallery. If you already work in one of the areas I've listed as difficult (e.g., "socializing" could describe an event planner or union organizer) just accept that these 18 months will be a bit less productive than usual. Look for more progress elsewhere, inject more creativity into your work, or go fall in love.
Speaking of amour, 2011-2025 brings true love. Until then, life offers electric, exciting, but unstable "love adventures." You want all or nothing, stable, "forever" love, so "adventure" or "fun" bothers, even scares you. But you need to stretch, to be vulnerable now. One of these adventures might even trigger true love before 2011 (very possible) - or you'll love, lose, learn, stretch, toughen up, and be ready for the real thing later. You know how refreshing a cold pool plunge is on a summer's day? Think of love that way now: you didn't drown in the pool, and you won't in romance.
From December 2006 to December 2007, you'll make a lot of money.
SAGITTARIUS, the 18 months ahead bless you in home, security, property, real estate, children, retirement, gardening, and all other "foundational" concerns. The same period erects subtle barriers to success if you seek prestige, ambitions outside the home, or focus strongly on your career or reputation. You might grow bored with your present position in these 18 months, but is not a good time to change careers - doing so might turn a temporary dissatisfaction into a permanent condition. (You'd be better off to quit than change, believe it or not.) Avoid confrontations with bosses, parents, authorities and VIPs. Remain quiet, and stick to the status quo. Don't demand a raise or promotion - if you push higher-ups, they'll push back. If you simply glide along, the powers that be will likely leave you alone.
From December/06 to December/07, your energy, faith, optimism, luck and courage soar sky-high! Act on your goals before September/07, for best results. In 2008, you'll make more money than you think - this would be a great year to start a business, or a new career!

Start Nothing: 3:31 a.m. to 12:25 p.m. Sun., 1:58 p.m. to 2:46 p.m. Tues., 7:23 a.m. to 3:59 p.m. Thurs., and 12:56 p.m. to 5:39 p.m. Sat.

Aries March 21-April 19
Continue to avoid new projects. Settle into home, kids, vacation, rest, and nature. Love and beauty continue to soothe your brow, though your temper is high now too. Show your ambition, skills and reliability Sunday to Tuesday noon - but don't start (nor volunteer for) anything new. You feel a bit happier, more loved by friends mid-week. Retreat, rest and contemplate Thursday afternoon onward -destiny has a "move" in store these few days - it could take you away from a casual relationship, to a deeper, more romantic or creative path.

Taurus April 20-May 20
Start nothing before July 28. Your money picture remains lucky. A sibling or casual friend might re-enter your life for awhile. Continue to guard against friction on the home front. It's likely that the major decisions in this area (to renovate, to move out, to send the kids this way or that) were made in June - you're dealing with the aftermath or associated chores now. A cultural, intellectual, travel, legal or similar involvement comes to a climax early week - a good one that intertwines with money luck. Express love!

Gemini May 21-June 20
You might "luck out" early week - it could involve an investment or financial situation, or a combination of love and intimacy. Give your hunches, your feelings, free rein! Mid-week brings wisdom, mellowness, love and understanding. You're restless and travel-prone all June/July, and you are talking or writing swiftly. One of these (travel, talk, emailing) opens a doorway to an agreement, opportunity, or relationship this week. You could grow "obsessed" with someone attractive. Your career, relations with VIPs, meet luck Friday/Saturday! But start no major projects or relationships before July 28.

Cancer June 21-July 22
Listen to your hunches (the soft, calm feeling that nudges you to do something) Sunday eve and Monday - they could be taking you to a significant opportunity, probably involving money and/or intimacy, and a secret or supportive relationship. Since you should not start new projects or relationships before July 28, this week's link should be someone already known, and involve an opportunity that's ongoing, or returned from the past. Mid-week continues the financial and/or intimate theme - investigate, ask questions. Money rises to legal levels, love to mutual understanding Friday/Saturday.

Leo July 23-Aug. 22
Start nothing significant before July 28. Be restful. Contemplate, study relationships, property and security, family issues and your retirement prospects (or lack ther!). Pay attention to your soul, your ethics and spirit, too. Physically, pamper yourself. You've been dealing with a change in your desires, likes and pleasures for some years. This week, your wisdom and destiny seem to flow together - and this spells success! Sunday brings chores, but also a sweet meeting, hints of special love, or a lucky hunch/inspiration about a relationship or opportunity. Co-operate mid week.

Virgo Aug. 23-Sept. 22
Don't start any significant venture before July 28, not even to please friends or associates at work. Your property, communication and family interests march forward now, despite the slowdowns in other areas. Romance, love of children, creativity, beauty and speculation fill Sunday to Tuesday. A hunch or inspiration about career, work, or machinery "pays off." Tackle chores Tuesday eve to Thursday morning - but stick to routine. An exciting relationship or opportunity confronts you Friday/Saturday: if it's from the past, welcome it. If it's something/someone new, take a wait-and-see stance.

Libra Sept. 23-Oct. 22
Love's inspiration floats toward you Sunday. (And mid-week.) Life makes ultimate sense to you now. This p.m. through Tuesday noon, dig into a family matter, an old photo album, a garden lounge chair, contemplate the wisdom of love. Tackle home, family, shelter, food, real estate, retirement and parent/kid matters. (But don't start new, significant projects before July 28 - old ones, or forays down memory lane, are rewarding.) Love, mating, partnerships, mutual interests work well late week, but destiny (it's instrument your tone of voice) nixes a formal, legal bond.

Scorpio Oct. 23-Nov. 21
Start nothing before July 28, especially in legal, higher learning, far travel, investment, financial, sexual and similar areas. Instead, reprise past ventures or continue ongoing ones in these areas. Do double-check facts, figures, communications, appointment times, etc, as mistakes are probable. Your intuition about investment, financial, love, intimate, family and security issues rises to an inspired peak this week, especially Sunday and Wednesday. (Though it is your career, rather than these, that destiny favors this month.) Romance, love, passion, creative surges and gambling urges fill Thursday eve to Saturday.

Sagittarius Nov. 22-Dec. 21
Don't start new, significant projects before July 28. Watch for mistakes, delays and missed appointments in ongoing ventures, especially if large finances, sexual intimacy, crucial health, surgery, lifestyle commitments or major life changes are involved. Neither give nor accept promises now. Your hunches about relationships, love, friendship, travel, truth and "the facts" are spot on Sunday. Another person is very sweet, but "destiny" (which at present operates through your personality and reactions) denies marriage/partnership. It does, however, accept and boost love and understanding (and legal, learning and international affairs).

Capricorn Dec. 22-Jan. 19
Start no new projects or relationships before July 28. Sign no contracts, make no commitments, and view promises skeptically. In continuing projects, remain alert for delays and mistakes. An old flame or ex-partner might return - this relationship might succeed again, if circumstances (rather than personality factors) separated you in the past. Your intuition soars regarding a job, purchase or money situation Sunday. Your charisma also rises this day to Tuesday. "Destiny" separates your duties into an either/or this week. A secret talk/action helps you transform a burden into a success.

Aquarius Jan.20-Feb 18
Start nothing new before July 28. Instead, stick with ongoing projects, and watch for mistakes, recount, check details, especially in work, machinery, health, and dealings with dependents (kids, service people, etc.). Do NOT buy a car, computer, etc. now. Lie low, rest and contemplate Sunday eve to Tuesday afternoon. All week, your intuition soars regarding love and money - and their connection. Destiny (overwhelming circumstances) makes you choose between love (romance) and friendship this week. The same destiny blesses a friendship-partnership or friendship-marriage combo. Your energy and charisma rise mid-week onward.

Pisces Feb. 19-March 20
Start nothing new before July 28, especially in romance, creative projects, sports, speculation, teaching and children's affairs. (E.g., not the right time to set your kid's educational course, to begin writing your novel or to join a new rugby team.) Stick with the status quo - and things that return from the past. An old flame might return. Inspiration strikes you about home, retreat, health, family affairs and real estate Sunday. This eve through Tuesday grows social, happy! Destiny favors a work/career situation: make a power play Thursday p.m. onward!

www.astralreflections.com. Email: timstephens@shaw.ca. For a reading: 604-261-1337.

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0 Defining Women

At the proceed of the third millennium senate servant doomsayer development and dereliction of duty is still a fundamental trouble for millions of women to the top degree the world. The significant job is that law in doesn't matter what(prenominal) communities does non come into authorization being dishonored. In umpteen an(prenominal) communities women be not duly open and stately no try to shield themselves : internal, physical and ruttish ire are the fundamental insinuation of danger of women. In some communities, family company is a ensue of cultivation and ethics as an native part of cultural progression (Women s Care order. 2004 p organic women are the greatest indiscreet key in which experiences violence at puzzle the creation of marriage. It was impose a sanction that violence along with uncontaminated people is second inherent to be dire cted at intimates than at strangers, with Resident women in developing and casual advanced westerly Australia being 45 times second inherent to be a dig out of variety violence (by which they mean decrepit by their pardner or spreading ) than non-Indigenous women (Keel, 2004. Along with this group of women sexual detest and physical violence are the principal forms of misery and dampness. Honorable as feminists power sought to define rueful as an act of violence, not a sexual act, it is right to revive that what is at hazard in sexual misdirect of an native woman is the tenure of priapic s power and an not fitting sexual relationship. For, at the same time as sexual color is free, it is banish the tenure of deep-structured inequalities - along with men and womenThe big main part of sexual vilification is perpetrated by non-Indigenous men It is so appointed that feminists, who power very great greatest to discriminate the problem, call for last to compel its recollection as one stop tenure of maleness and ma! le violence against women. Not all in all does this championship compel the likely fit to be seen explanations of sexual immoral, but it as well sets the schedule for any come back with, in close down in recommending long-term and activist changes in the various(prenominal) term of men and women.

On the early(a) badge, repeated personal belongings of offset and sexual hostility occurred in a variety fact, yet these are once in a blue moon acknowledged as pass through by Resident women or addressed as different by the judges (Keel, 2004. Fairly consistently, the personal belongings of physical violence are not propounded, like women horrendous of their husbands and likely prejudi cious assess for their families. To some open out, this situation and women determinedness is caused by religious studies dogmas and cultivation put to work the pinnacle role in their communities. The principal warning planning against family violence enjoy social programs organized by women s organizations, lawmaking initiatives recognised in the national level petitions, packaging, involvement of sleep Corporation s global dispute (Canada, 2006The a long way group of women underneath analysis is Filipino women. Despite the fact that Hesperian women with a brilliant growth in nation and evenfall in colonialism fought for their care order, Filipino and Resident women are still lived infra double unfair treatment, cultural and legal. According to the attach The greatest splendor of these in the Philippines are rape, incest, spouse or socialize sexual immoral, sexual bedevilment, prostitution, trafficking...If you failure to get a full essay, night club it on our website: OrderCustomPaper.com

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0 Tnk Bp Divorce Need Not Have Unhappy End Financial Times

"TNK-BP Keep apart Penury NOT Keep up Cerulean END - Fiscal Time "

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"RUSSELL Seal Convention KATY PERRY: Keep apart "DID Spirit OUT IN A WAY" - Entertainment ONLINE "

RUSSELL Seal is maintaining a zen attitude about his overhanging divorce from KATY PERRY.

In an sample with the "Lorraine "show on the UK's ITV1 like action the current rounds for "Kernel of Ages", the British funnyman informative up a entirely sanguine view as to why their 14-month circle didn't brand.

"Add, it did work out in a way in the role of you are married for some time, and that's in essence good, and plus you're not married, and that's in essence good," he aimed.

MORE: RUSSELL Seal Annals FOR Keep apart FROM KATY PERRY

The 37-year-old Seal and the 27-year-old Perry swapped vows in October 2010 in a luxurious express in India only to see their marriage take a break.

Seeing that divorce is never easy, the comedian has carefully come to provisions with the slice off.

"You just transfer to transfer lenience of possessions. She is a person that I love, but now this is a new time," he on top. "I build a divorce is urbane, isn't it, in the role of of the admin! There's a lot of dispensation."

The "Get Him to the Greek" star, who hem in month on "The Ellen DeGeneres Emanate" confessed he still loves Katy "as a human being," plus segued into a reference of his "Kernel of Ages" costar ALEC BALDWIN, whom he called "lovely."

MORE: RUSSELL Seal CONFESSES HE STLLL LOVES KATY PERRY

"He's like sort of a big somber, healthy, sexy uncle. Which in the sham state-owned may well be a colossal scene," joked Seal. "But in the state-owned that I set off myself in, it was in essence lovely. And he's in essence emotional, and he's in essence clever, and in essence fatty and gave me stately advice."

Sounds like a match made in illusion.

GALLERY: KATY PERRY & RUSSELL BRAND: ROMANCE REWIND

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"EGYPT Quad REJECTS LAW Banning AHMED SHAFIQ FROM PRESIDENTIAL RUN-OFF - Daily TELEGRAPH "

The Unequaled Boardwalk Quad ruled on Thursday that a third of the construction was uncensored surreptitiously. As a upshot, it says in its type of the determination, "the characteristics of the very great unit is muted and, accordingly, it does not legitimately stand."

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"DOES Each one Penury A PRENUP THESE DAYS? - MSNBC.COM "

NEW YORK - For centuries, men and women didn't marry for love -- they married for money. The circle of a man and woman was meticulously a commercial stubborn to inspire financial cover and mixture fortunes as well as empires.

Today's couples, at nominal in the Joint States, transfer more permit in selecting a spouse. But they as well transfer a way out of the partnership: divorce.

That is why more of them are waltzing down the catwalk with a prenuptial pledge in bestow. Sheila Riesel, a matrimonial public prosecutor at Not in use Rome LLP in New York, federation about the trends in prenups.

Q. ARE YOU SEEING Completed PRENUPS?

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A. A prenup is specific hire together with two introduce somebody to an area. We don't expose how profuse prenups are in being. Deteriorating question, nonetheless, prenups are becoming a tired expression outcome back couples with some financial tone, stable young ones, tie the set.

Q. WHY ARE YOUNGER COUPLES FLOCKING TO PRENUPS? IS IT Partnership PRESSURE?

A. The reality is that 50 percent of the time, these marriages end in divorce. Make your home somewhere need some downside guidance. They may come to a marriage with unadulterated dollars, be it whatever thing that they've earned (a la Facebook's Scheme Zuckerberg) or whatever thing they've instinctive or been unmodified by their families.

Q. DOES Each one As a consequence Dollar Penury A PRENUP?

A. The fixed care is that a prenup is an crystal-clear scene for the "monied" distant spouse if a marriage dissolves; in advance, their funds will be at odds in an all right edition or as community means, depending on which go on they live in. But prenups give the spouse who doesn't transfer money a way to peep at their partner's funds -- and utter. It's a way of getting to funds you concentration not in advance expose about.

The arrangement of a prenup is very far-flung dictated by who wants to get married more. To put it as confrontationally as expected, regularly there's a dynamic in a couple that one person is more in love, more converted to getting married. In that context, the unusual person, monied or not, has the leverage.

Q. State A Courier PRENUP.

A. The basic formula is: "Something in my name is track down, and whatever thing in your name is yours. You will conquer X dollars for every time we are married." Sometimes that's as well coupled to the number of litter bent in a marriage.

Q. WHAT'S Typically Masked IN THE AGREEMENT?

A. Hand over loads and commercial interests are the top priority. A person may transfer mystic means rights that need to be fortified, too. Or they may be an author and inspire characters. I expose of a prenup somewhere a wine bulk was an issue -- it was a very nice wine bulk.

In states like New York, the definition of funds is very great, so prenups will cover advanced degrees that are earned within the marriage. If you are still in tutor in, you transfer a valid tenderness that the commercial, law or medical degree you get is a key marital grip, and your distant earnings may well piece into a divorce sympathetic.

You'll find a confidentiality requirement in a prenup when a person is of local arouse or has unadulterated loads. Moreover parties discharge to keep the being of the pledge, provisions, as well as the information one gathers as a upshot of the marriage, hush-hush.

Q. HOW Huskily Pretty Chow IN A PRENUP?

A. I've seen situations somewhere one person has all the money, and the unusual may be younger and more beautiful. It's been a like, but I've seen prenups coupled to consignment of one of the spouses -- so long award was not a consignment gain, they'd get a fact receipt. That's inexplicably nervous.

Q. HOW FAR Since A Celebratory Must YOU Pulverize OUT THE Tape OF A PRENUP?

A. The past, the better. Six months back the marriage ceremony is seamless, but, on passable, furthermost people sign their prenups a month back the marriage ceremony. Of manage, some people put off until the hem in belated. I've seen prenups signed on the day of the marriage ceremony. That's not smart. You don't want to cover the a little something of a marriage ceremony day, or leave yourself open to claims of compulsion.

So a prenup is negotiated, award may be a very guaranteed errand in provisions of what needs to be skillful economically, but it has to be above in a way that doesn't criminal the cloth of this budding relationship.

Q. DO YOU GET A LOT OF Bawl IN YOUR OFFICE?

A. Not normally, and when I do, it speaks to an inequality in the relationship, somewhere one person is too frail. I do get a lot of anger and vexation. Make your home somewhere who do prenups best see this as whatever thing to get above as a commercial treaty.

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"GET AN EIFFEL OF JENNIFER AND JUSTIN - THE SUN "

The pair were spotty cosying up under an umbrella as they shopped in Rue St. Honor'e on Tuesday, but reappeared hem in night due and booted for a feast at the within Jules Verne dining hall, situated on the first soil of the Eiffel Set in motion.

Looking moral and inspection no signs of jet-lag formerly their long avoidance, Jen and Justin rational hands as they headed out for an nightfall of top provide for.

The couple, who transfer been together so May 2011, looked more loved-up than ever, arousing further suppose that they may be on the frame of tying the set.

In April, Jen flew back to her roots in Greece, reportedly to examine out dig marriage ceremony venues.

She is aimed to transfer implicit to restrain at the Elounda Seashore Bar about a July marriage ceremony.

It seems the former Contacts star may stable pip ex-husband Brad Pitt - who announced his clash to Hollywood good looks Angelina Jolie in April - to the matrimonial letters.

The 43-year-old perpetrator has had a succession of bad destiny when it comes to love, but fans and friends are in suspense that Jen has set off her Mr Brawn at hem in in performer Justin, 40.

"Source: www.thesun.co.uk"

"COPS Take hold of Sham IPS Novice WHO CHEATED WOMEN ON Matrimonial SITES - Time OF INDIA "

CHENNAI: The requisite sin leaf legalize on Thursday arrested a 22-year-old man who posed as an IPS trainee officer and cheated many women who he au fait guzzle a matrimonial site. The man from Villupuram, who took many names such as Chakravarthy, Tamilselvan and Vidyuth, cheated 16 women, legalize aimed. Lately he was arrested on the moan of Nithya (29) of Saidapet, one of the women who were cheated.

Claiming himself as an trainee IPS officer, he approached Nithya, who had posted her profile on the matrimonial site, with a marriage plan. Once finalising the marriage ceremony, he asked the woman to economically help him to solid his training and took 10 sovereigns of gold and Rs 10,000 from her. He plus went into beating.

Based on the moan of M Nithya (29) of Saidapet, CCB legalize registered a organize and launched a search for the man.

Core sin leaf legalize are hunting for the man who they clasp was past arrested by the Madurai sin leaf legalize in connection with a finale offence. He was plus remanded in judicial care at the Madurai requisite labor camp.

He had cheated 16 girls in a finale manner conniving with his appropriate Perumal.

Normalize aimed he had shaped many fake IDs and posted his profile on matrimonial sites. He used a number of SIM cards to talk to extraordinary women. Normalize aimed he concentration transfer as well changed the respect cards of women.

"Source: timesofindia.indiatimes.com"

0 Why Skeptics Are The Most Boring People On Earth

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The skeptic survival kit contains dark sunglasses, earplugs, a good pair of earphones that block out everything but your music, a load of music loaded onto whatever you use to listen to your music, a book, and a large size 15steel toed man's boot ( this can be interchanged with a bat if need be).

Once you have your kit at hand you will be equipped to deal with the most boring people walking on this earth- the skeptic.

I know you want to know why this group of humans owns the title of the most boring of all humans but first let's get the survival kit taken care of.

After assembling your kit you will need to follow the instructions with care as you may come upon one of these creatures at any time.

As soon as you realize you are in the grasp of a skeptic quickly rip open your kit and place your dark sunglasses on to block direct eye contact with this being. It may prevent you from having to have direct contact with them. If that fails keep the glasses on so that the skeptic is unable to detect if you are keeping eye contact with him or searching the area for an escape outlet. The glasses are an easy way to conceal your eye rolling as the skeptic will soon be on a rambling rant of repetitive drivel that will cause this eye rolling to occur uncontrollably by those forced to endure prolonged contact with the skeptic.

The earplugs are to provide needed sanity as if caught listening to a skeptic for any amount of time can result in mind numbing headaches that approach torture. One can only listen to the same old denial repeated so many times before madness sets in.

Take whatever action needed no matter how drastic to break away from the skeptic so you can quickly attach to and turn on whatever music device you have in your kit. Remember you can always loudly sing over the constant stinging whine of the skeptic before you if all else fail. You may need to whip out the book you packed in your skeptic survival kit to aid along with the music to keep your brain from numbing up as the skeptic bores you nearly to death with whine denial and talking in circles.

The last objects in your kit are for the mean down and dirty skeptic who comes at you in nasty attack mode and personal insults simply because you find his reasoning ridiculous and do not go along with his opinions.

This is when you are forced to use the last items in your kit. Upon giving up on adult conversation, debate or explaining how the universe works to a snapping mean skeptic no other choice may be left but to apply repeatedly that large size 15 man's steel toed boot or bat as needed until the skeptic is silenced.

Why you ask are these tactics needed to deal with skeptics? Well it is because a true skeptic is the most boring, close minded, limited thinkers out there and without precautions taken can bring you pain and agony if cornered by one.

I have been dealing with skeptics for a good portion of my life. I have learned to tune them out, walk away, and ignore their existence.

I am not talking about the average person who is confused by unknown things and really does not have a hard opinion on that which they do not know. I think many people simply do not think about the unknown and are suspicious of things they read and hear but do keep an open mind that many things may be possible. That is a normal intelligent attitude about subjects we do not understand or have not experienced.

I am referring to real skeptics. The ones who have decided they know all there is to know and that no matter what anyone else has experienced, seen, endured, or studied, they know better. I am talking about the people who just refuse to listen, expand their knowledge base or consider other views.

Living a life with a closed mind is a foolish dangerous approach but one many skeptics hold on to with a grip that is unshakable. The skeptic does not seem to live in silence however. Skeptics have a life mission to bore every single thinking person around them to the point of tears. The reason for this is that the skeptic is so terrified of thinking outside of the box or in a new fashion that he tries to insist he is right and the world wrong at any cost. That is where the repetition of limited information, refusal to listen when others speak and anger stems from in the skeptics world.

If you study the average hard core skeptic you soon find they all have the same features and behaviors. First they force their presence on those who are trying to expand their thinking and follow those who think differently. The skeptic does this for the sole purpose of being annoying.

This need for forcing themselves where they are not wanted is routed in many basic problems in the skeptic's makeup. The first one is obvious. The skeptic has a deep need to stop others from thinking differently than they do. They are forced by either limited ability to think past the opinions they have, fear of the unknown, or a need to have life the way they can handle it. This can result in total denial of things they are not able to cope with, understand or reason out past the tightly formed opinions they made with limited knowledge and no experience in the subjects at hand.

I will not include those who work in science and simply hide, lay low and refuse to step out of the closet due to the fact it could cost them their jobs. Science and free thinking or open investigation has long been apart. The old sods of science keep it a rather dull group at best. Until the new thinkers in science are no longer punished for wanting to think outside the confines of accepted thinking science will remain constrained.

I am discussing your every day skeptic who thinks they are smarter, better educated and somehow born with the knowledge of the universe and decide not to listen to or expand their knowledge or views past their cemented small thinking. Skeptics are not the worldliest people. I once had one tell me all about China. Of course he had no idea what he was talking about. He never had been out of the United States. I had just returned from China the week before yet no matter how hard I tried to explain to him his ideas and facts were simply not true he continued spreading his ignorance and false facts while attacking me with insult. I guess he found his information by way of fortune cookies! He was the typical skeptic acting out in a typical skeptic manner. It is a shame as he had built a huge opinion of a large world power on false data and beliefs. This is dangerous and sad in a world floating in a universe of rapid change. The same thing applies to the subjects of the unknown.

The next time you come up against a skeptic watch how he operates. He will torture everyone in sight with his limited boring whine of why everyone else is wrong and he is right. If you listen with care you will soon find out that most skeptics have similar traits. First they have a little rant of assorted facts that they use to prove they are right. If others around them disagree or even point out the skeptic is confused or flat out incorrect the skeptic simply rewinds. The skeptic will wait a few moments and then will repeat over and over the same loop of why he is sticking to his skeptical way. They never listen; they rarely research to see if the other people are correct, they just repeat over and over the same stale whine.

If the skeptic is losing ground and their safety net of denial is shaken they attack. They turn aggressive and mean. That is when the only thing left to do is use that boot or bat!

I have written this article in jest yet it is obvious that I do find skeptics to be some of the most boring people on the face of this earth. It is as if they were taught to count to ten and refuse to count past that no matter what- returning to one each time they hit ten. They are not able to grow and they seem terrified that life is not nearly what they need it to be.

I am sure there are thousands of reasons why skeptics do what they do and think as they think. I do not think it has anything at all to do with the subjects of the paranormal or science. I think that kind of denial and insistence is rooted in other areas of their lives. Keeping their thinking of unknown subjects tightly closed seems to be the only way they can deal with life. The reasons for this may differ from skeptic to skeptic but I would guess most are based in fear.

I always say that those who find the paranormal hysterical are those who have never had an experience. I also know they soon stop laughing when one dark lonely night they are the ones looking into the eyes of the unknown. And yes, that can happen to anyone, even a skeptic.

For now keep your survival kit close at hand and try to pity those who refuse to look forward as life will keep happening and the unknown will unravel like it or not.

Be careful out there, pay attention to your surroundings and always keep looking up.

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0 Ellen Langer Combating Ageism

Among other things, I've researched and written about aging for the past thirty years. My belief is that much of what we attribute to the aging process can be prevented or reversed and that a major culprit in unsuccessful aging is our condescending attitude toward older adults.

Of course we mean no harm - especially when we're dealing with beloved family members - but harm we do. They are probably the ones we hurt the most, in fact. Ageism is so deeply ingrained in our beliefs that we think we are simply responding to real, age-related incompetence. Instead, we are letting our mindless expectations create the very incompetence we perceive.

At age 89 my father's memory was fragile - he was showing his years. One day we were playing cards and I began to think that I should let him win. I soon realized that, if I saw someone else behaving that way, I'd tell her to stop being so condescending. I might even explain how negative prophecies come to be fulfilled, and I'd go on to explain that much of what we take to be memory loss has other explanations. For instance, as our values change with age, we often don't care about certain things to the degree we used to, and we therefore don't pay much attention to them anymore. The "memory problems" of the elderly are often simply due to the fact that they haven't noted something that they find rather uninteresting. And then, while I was weighing whether to treat him as a child because part of me still felt that he would enjoy winning, he put his cards down and declared that he had gin.

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Ellen Langer is a Professor of Psychology at Harvard. The first chapter of her latest book "Counter Clockwise: Mindful Health and the Power of Possibility" is available to read on her website.

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0 Strippers Dont Impress Gamers

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0 Make Or Break Your Chances

"How to get my ex boyfriend back when my heart is broken" is probably the biggest priority on a woman's mind after getting dumped. Nobody likes the feeling of a breakup, but women, who are sometimes emotionally unstable to begin with, are especially vulnerable during this time. The first thing on your mind is, "What did I do wrong?" Perhaps you know why he broke up with you, but maybe you don't.

Here are a few pointers that will help you determine the answer to your "how to get my ex boyfriend back" question. It's important to follow these steps to make sure you're getting back together for the right reasons, or you could regret your choice.

1. Make sure he's going to be into you the second time around. If he dumped you once, he'll dump you again. So really analyze the reason why he dumped you in the first place. Was it something on your end? Did you cheat on him, or did he think you cheated even if you didn't? Or is it something on his end? Maybe he's feeling that he isn't worthy of you and doesn't deserve to be with you. If he dumped you for another woman, he might not be worth chasing after. But if he broke up with you under fairly emotional circumstances, he might still love you.

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0 David Futrelle Not Too Bright

Well, on the MANBOOBZ blog, I came across an interesting comment by David himself:

He was asked to "prove" that "most rapists are never jailed". He provided a link to a CBS News Story to "prove" just that.

The problem is, I broke down the complete article on CBS, and found it to be a complete farce. The article is below, with my smart-ass remarks in RED.

This is a long post, but if you are sick to bloody death of feminist propaganda, please take the time to read it. I think it is an excellent demonstration of how feminists have polluted the media, and helped to brain-wash poor souls like David Futrelle.

EXCLUSIVE: RAPE IN AMERICA: JUSTICE DENIED

A FIVE-MONTH CBS NEWS INVESTIGATION FINDS THAT A STAGGERING NUMBER OF RAPE KITS AREN'T TESTED

By Armen Keteyian

Nearly 90,000 women reported they were raped in the United States last year.

Just because women REPORT they were raped, does not mean they were actually raped. This is the whole premises of false rape accusations. THIS IS IMPORTANT. They twist this fact later in the article - pay attention!

It's estimated another 75,000 rapes went unreported.

Notice how this article provides no reference for this "estimate". AND - pay attention to the key word "ESTIMATE". It is important, because it is used later (twisted).

But while rape convictions are up - a five month CBS News investigation raises questions about just how many rapists are actually being brought to justice.

Raises questions, but draws no conclusions. Give some credit for their honesty.

NOW, WE SEE A TYPICAL NEWS-SCHEME: ATTEMPTING TO ILLICIT AN EMOTIONAL RESPONSE BY TELLING ONE WOMAN'S HORROR STORY (IS THE STORY EVEN REAL?):

Valerie Neumann says she didn't expect her 21st birthday to end in rape.

"He stuck his hands down the sweatpants and was touching me up, like my shirt as well, so I kept telling him, 'no,'" she told CBS News Chief Investigative Correspondent Armen Keteyian.

It started at a bowling alley in Erlanger, Kentucky. A man she just met, a friend of a friend, bought her drink after drink. Later that night, she threw up, and passed out. Then, Valerie says, it happened.

"When I woke up the next morning, my panties and the sweatpants were down around my ankles and my bra was undone," she said.

Valerie said she realized she was raped. Reporting it the next day - a classic charge of acquaintance rape. Nearly three years later still no arrest in the case.

"I feel like, I almost feel like they're calling me a liar. That they don't believe me," Valerie said.

Whatever - one woman's horror story does NOT constitute a social crisis or warrant any kind of over-reaction from the general public.

Rape in this country is surprisingly easy to get away with.

This is pure speculation - did the researchers at CBS news actually rape people, and see how easy it was to get away with it - no. Their reasoning behind "easy to get away with" stems from bad conclusions and interviews with biased people - pay attention!

The arrest rate last year was just 25 percent - a fraction of the rate for murder - 79 percent, and aggravated assault - 51 percent.

Inconclusive. All this means is that women are claiming to have been raped. It does not mean that they actually were raped. Murder is different - as people who are DEAD cannot make a false accusation of MURDER. Note the flagrant stupidity of the assertion. Also, it is extremely unlikely that people frequently consent to being murdered. Again, the entire statement here is asinine. the 25% arrest rate could mean that only 25% of the rape accusations were REAL.

"When we have talked to victims, they very much so doubt that it was worth it for them to go to the police," said Sarah Tofte, US Program Researcher for Human Rights Watch. "They're incredibly disillusioned with the criminal justice system, and that sends a terrible message."

How many were talked to? One, five hundred? Why aren't any numbers listed here?

The suspect's attorney told police his client never had sex with Valerie. Yet an exam revealed "evidence of forced sexual penetration." Semen found on her underwear. Nurses took a rape kit- a collection of swabs and clothing that provide DNA evidence. The suspect provided a sample. But the DNA was never tested.

The DNA was never tested - why not? Why did the alleged suspect give a sample of his DNA in the first place? Why didn't his attorney argue it was an invasion of privacy? Why didn't the victim's attorney fight to have the DNA test performed? The answers to these questions are obvious - false accusations.

"Testing the kit is one way to affirm a victim's story," Tofte said, "and discredit the suspect's story."

Tofte is biased - could it not also be a way to discredit the victim's story and affirm the suspect's story? This is clearly a biased person. The man is guilty simply because a woman said so. She has no intention of conducting an unbiased investigation into the matter.

A five month CBS News Investigation has found a staggering number of rape kits -- that could contain incriminating DNA evidence -- have never been sent to crime labs for testing.

For good reason no doubt - false accusations. Why waste tax-payer money when the alleged victim recants her story. This is actually mentioned below. Pay attention!

At least 20,000 untested kits: 5,600 in Detroit. 3,800 in Houston. 5,100 in San Antonio, 1,100 in Albuquerque.

Rape Kit Data, by the Numbers

Many untested for years. And that's not all. At least twelve major American cities: Anchorage, Baltimore, Birmingham, Chicago, Cincinnati, Cleveland, Columbus, Indianapolis, Jacksonville, Oakland, Phoenix, San Diego said they have no idea how many of rape kits in storage are untested.

Yes, have no idea - that could mean zero. Honestly, this whole article is a fraud. Remember what you have already read, and pay attention. They actually say why most are not tested below.

CBS NEWS THEN INSULTS ITS AUDIENCE WITH A PRETTY PICTURE - IT IS MISLEADING - I'LL EXPLAIN WHY AFTER YOU VIEW IT:

1. In the beginning of the article, they clearly state that 90,000 women REPORTED being raped. Just because a woman REPORTS that she was raped, does not mean she was ACTUALLY RAPED. There is such a thing as FALSE ACCUSATIONS. Notice how the article just went from 90,000 REPORTED RAPES to 90,000 ACTUAL RAPES. All in just one picture.

2. 75,000 people don't report rapes? Funny, I thought it was ESTIMATED that 75,000 people don't report rapes. Notice that they went from an ESTIMATE to a FACT - in just one picture!

3. Arrest rate of 25% - this is inconclusive. Such a number could mean that 75% of the accusations were false. It could even mean that 90% of the accusations were false, and 15% of the men are now wrongfully imprisoned!

4. 89,000 rapes and 22,584 arrests? All the above points are valid. First, 89,000 rapes ALLEGEDLY occurred. That is, 89,000 women REPORTED they were raped. This does not mean that 89,000 women were ACTUALLY RAPED. Innocent until proven guilty - what a pain in the ass eh?

THESE NUMBERS COULD BE USED TO BACK UP THE POINTS THAT MRA'S MAKE - THAT MOST REPORTED RAPES (I.E. THE 90,000 NUMBER) ARE FALSE. THIS CERTAINLY WOULD EXPLAIN THE LOW NUMBER OF ACTUAL CONVICTIONS NOW WOULDN'T IT?

Police departments told us rape kits don't get tested due to cost - up to 1,500 a kit --

Really - which police departments? Just one - or all of them? Pay attention to the wording used here.

a decision not to prosecute,

Yeah the reason they do not prosecute is because the case is weak because:

and victims who recant or are unwilling to move forward with a case.

OH WOW - notice that even though the "victims" recant their story, they are still being called "victims" by the author of this article. If they recant their story - doesn't that mean they were LYING - and hence should be called "criminals" not "victims"?

Psychologist David Lisak from the University of Massachusetts has spent twenty years studying the minds of rapists.

"Somehow all we can do is take the statement from the victim. Take the statement from the alleged perpetrator and then throw up our hands because they are saying conflicting things," he said. "That's not how we investigate other crimes."

Sorry David Lisak - that is NOT how rape crimes are investigated either. If it is true that people simply throw their hands up - why is DNA collected - notice that David Lisak cleverly fails to mention this. Also note: David Lisak says "victim" and "alleged perpetrator" - he does not say "alleged victim". Clearly David Lisak is biased.

Valerie was told her rape kit wasn't tested because they didn't have the money. But when we caught up with Kenton County prosecutor, Rob Sanders, he told us something else.

Keteyian asked, "Why wasn't the rape kit tested in the Valerie Neumann case?"

"The results of the DNA test would not have made the case one way or another," Sanders said.

Gee, I wonder why that would be?

Sanders said his office made a "judgment call" the case was unwinnable in court -- claiming there were issues with Valerie's memory and the alcohol involved. A practice, says Lisak that often plays right into the hands of rapists.

Issues with Valerie's memory. So, she does not clearly "remember" if she was raped or not - that's convenient. I wonder if she tried to blackmail the poor guy first.

More about Non-Stranger Rapes from Psychologist David Lisak

"Predators look for vulnerable people and they prey on vulnerable people," Lisak said. And if, as a criminal justice system, we're going to essentially turn from any victim who was drinking or any victim who was in some way vulnerable - we're essentially giving a free pass to sexual predators."

Worried they were doing just that, CBS News has learned the Oakland California Police Department is now plowing through 489 untested rape kits from stranger rapes dating back six years, looking for evidence in what they believe to be "solvable cases."

Note: They do not mention here how many tested positive - probably a very small number.

The Los Angeles Police Department is testing a backlog of nearly 3,000 rape kits. LAPD's new Chief Charles Beck says efforts to reduce the backlog have "resulted in 405 hits" in the FBI DNA database.

Oh wow - out of 3000 kits, 405 hits! Lets do the math: 405/3000 = 13.5%. This means that 13.5% of the supposed "rapes" actually occurred. That is, the DNA from 86.5% of the supposed suspects did not match. Hmmm...

The other 86.5% did not occur. Hmmm - I wonder why not. After all, the women who accused the men of raping them - why on earth would they do that? Yet, the DNA did not match the man they accused of raping them - strange...

In New York City, prosecutors are even more aggressive - testing every rape kit, even in cases of acquaintance rape - over 1,300 last year alone.

Note: again, they do not mention how many tested positive - why not? Too embarassing? Would it discredit the claim of this entire article?

"You never know what you're going to find," said Mecki Prinz of the NY Medical Examiners Office.

Uh huh - I don't doubt it - like only 13.5% of the alleged rapists DNA actually being "positive"?

The results are stunning. Today New York City's arrest rate for rape is 70 percent - triple the national average.

Oh really - then why that 25% number in the pretty picture above?

Prinz says testing kits in acquaintance cases can tie suspects to other attacks, "We have lots of situations where a domestic situation or an acquaintance situation is actually an indication of the male involved responsible for other rapes," she said.

"we have lots" - how many exactly is that? No mention of actual numbers. Convenient isn't it?

"I feel like they didn't do their job to protect me and to protect everyone else," Valerie said. "I don't think it's something I'll ever forget. I don't think it's something you can forget."

Again, one woman's horror story does not constitute a major problem in society. If her story is even credible in the first place.

Remember the bit about her memory being in question?

Remember that the supposed "suspect" willingly gave his DNA - no mention of any fight or rebuttal from his attorney - why not?

Also, she told reporters that the DNA test would be too expensive - not that it wouldn't confirm her story - hmm. Too embarassing to have the truth revealed? Why did she tell reporters a different story than the prosecutors told reporters?

It does not surprise me that feminists site articles like this one to make points.

I am currently working on ways to debunk his whole "false-rape-accusations are myths" bit that he wrote on his blog.

I am laughing my a off too - many of the articles - they site as references other articles - and those articles site as references the articles that sited them as references. It's called circle-jerking or mental masturbation.

Quite comical indeed - I was laughing so hard I was crying, and now my throat is sore because I was laughing so hard...

Ah - those crazy crazy feminazis...

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0 The Mental Illness Of Choice For Ceos And Politicians

Add captionDave HodgesACTIVIST POSTAfter writing my most recent article with regard to what typically happens when a currency collapse takes down a country's economy, many people wrote to me asking me when it is going to happen. The short answer is that I have a hard time predicting the actions of psychopaths. All of us have a hard time predicting the action of others who are so different from the mainstream of America because most of us do not think like psychopaths. However, I can state with certainty that when the last mortgage has been stolen and the last pension has been confiscated, then it will be time to collapse the dollar.Our country should be dubbed, the United States of Psychopathology. Psychopaths are at the root of the world's problems. They kill hundreds of millions in wars which serves no purpose except to enrich themselves. Subsequently, psychopaths such as the Rockefellers and the Rothschilds recruit already compromised psychopaths to do their bidding in both elected office and key administrative positions.THE WHOLE COUNTRY IS GOING CRAZYThe United States of America is presently undergoing a mental health crisis. An estimated 26.2% of Americans ages 18 and older suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year. This figure translates to almost 60 million people who have a diagnosable mental illness. Even though mental disorders are widespread in the population, the main burden of illness is concentrated in a much smaller proportion, which is confined to about 6% of the population, or about 1 in 17 who suffer from a serious mental illness. Nearly half (45%) of those with any mental disorder meet criteria for two or more disorders.In the U.S., mental disorders are diagnosed based on the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, fourth edition (DSM-IV).4Most (over 65%) of the diagnosed mental health disorders are reactive in nature to a faulty environment and are common to a population being placed under dire stress. As would be expected, anxiety disorders lead the way and can manifest themselves in Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (common to veterans in combat), various social phobias, eating disorders (at record levels) and depression (rising at an alarming rate).Genetic factors are thought to generally play a role in mental illness in about 30-50% of all mental illnesses. However, the bulk of symptoms are maladaptive responses to a negative environment.PSYCHOPATH OR SOCIOPATH?The terms psychopath and sociopath were in vogue 30 years ago in the mental health field. We still see the use of these terms to describe morally deprived people who commit heinous acts of some sort against other human beings. However, on an official level, the terms have been rolled up into one clinical term, Anti Social Personal Disorder (ASPD).I contend that most of the mental illnesses that we are seeing in today's America are reactive to the depraved nature of those who seek power over others. It is becoming quite clear that when we closely examine the mental health of many in power, they exhibit the hallmark traits of people with diagnosable ASPD.ASPDAntisocial personality disorder is characterized by an individual's disregard for social rules and cultural norms, impulsive behavior, and indifference to the rights and feelings of others. Mental health researchers estimate that approximately 3% of males and 1% of females, aged 18 or over, have ASPD (Lenzenweger, M.F., Lane, M.C., Loranger, A.W., Kessler, R.C. (2007). DSM-IV personality disorders in the National Comorbidity Survey Replication. Biological Psychiatry, 62(6), 553-564).The National Institute of Mental Health diagnoses Anti-Social Personality Disorder by having four of the following seven characteristics: * Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest. * Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure. * Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead. * Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults. * Reckless disregard for safety of self or others. * Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations. * Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.ASPD IS FERTILE RECRUITING GROUND FOR TODAY'S LEADERSIf I were a power broker in the emerging New World Order and I needed politicians to carry out my agenda of controlling every person and every resource on the planet, I would seek individuals who have previously earned their stripes as mentally ill and highly ambitious individuals who will move to get ahead at all costs. I would seek out people who have the traits of an ASPD individual because I could count on them to pursue power at all costs in the pursuit of the NWO agenda. And when they are caught violating the public's trust, I would just replace them with another person who exhibits the same exact ASPD traits. And it is ideal if these "public servants" already have a litany of behaviors emanating from their ASPD symptoms that I could use to blackmail them when the need arises. In a nutshell, I have just described the American political scene.Whereas, 75% of Americans are emotionally stable and 25% are not, I think these are the exact inverse numbers of what we see in Congress and other key elected positions such as the governors of states. I believe that if we did a mental status exam on George Bush I, George Bush II, Bill Clinton and President Obama, we would see all four individuals with completely diagnosable ASPD. Millions have died, who did not have to under these criminally insane leaders. We have lived through three completely avoidable wars in which several million have perished as we whip a little democracy on them.ASPD IN CORPORATE CIRCLES AND LOCAL POLITICSWhen institutions engage in illegal business practices designed to deprive people of their homes, the leaders and their minions of these organizations are exhibiting ASPD. Richard Eskow, senior fellow for Campaign for America's Future, relates how former employees of Bank of America submitted sworn affidavits to a civil lawsuit claiming that "the financial institution purposely stalled, delayed or denied home loan modifications." They also claimed that the bank enforced foreclosure quotas and gave bonuses to those with the highest foreclosure rate. So will Bank of America pay for these alleged practices? No, because Federal judges are appointed by the criminally orientated mentally ill as well, or they would not be selected.This parallels what the Federal Reserve is doing. Since September of 2012, the Fed has been purchasing 40 billion dollars worth of mortgage backed securities each month. This is nothing but a modern-day version of feudalism in which the Lords are buying up all the land so they can exploit even more serfs who pay tribute to live on the land that has been stolen from them. Now we find that SECRET COURTS decide what the 4th Amendment to the Constitution entails. Secret courts? The term secrecy should be repugnant in a free society, but not in today's America. Secret, faceless and nameless judges have decided that you do not have a 4th Amendment right to be protected from the intrusive and unwarranted surveillance of the NSA. Secret courts? What is this, the Wizard of OZ? Timothy Geithner received 400,000 for three speeches which he gave to his fellow banksters. And he was paid with your money!Then there is the whore-monger, Eliot Spitzer, forced to resign from office five years ago for his involvement in a prostitution scandal. Spitzer has such a bad case of ASPD that he trotted his wife out on stage when he announced that he was again seeking political office and that he had learned his lesson and that he was never so happy as when he was involved in public service. I think Spitzer meant he was happiest when he was being publicly serviced.Then who could ever forget Anthony Weiner? You remember Weiner don't you? He was forced to resign from Congress for publicly displaying his last name in a text to show what a man he is. Interesting, when one urinates in public and is caught, they must register as a sex offender. Weiner's actions impacted far more people and he gets to politically recycle himself with impunity.Please reread the symptoms of ASPD. Every president in recent history, most of Congress and various "Weiners" such as Spitzer and Geithner have ASPD and you are their victims.In short, people of America, we are ruled by what used to be called psychopaths and you are their victims on an accelerated basis.We wonder why things do not change. Why are we continuing to comply with these criminally mentally ill? These psychopaths are literally and figuratively driving the country crazy as proven by our skyrocketing rates of mental illness among the general population.Isn't it time that we begin to impose standards of moral conduct such as when you are caught with a prostitute, that you are ineligible to run for public office. Shouldn't the murder of Ambassador Stevens at Benghazi be enough to keep co-conspirator Hillary Clinton from becoming the President of the United States. Yet, she is the heir apparent in 2016. When one publicly exposes themselves before God and country, shouldn't this prohibit this person from becoming a mayor?And to the sheep of America, don't your children deserve better than to be ruled over by a bunch of perverted psychopaths. These actions are not the exception, they are the norm (see Feinstein, Pelosi, Reed, etc.) In the words of the author of Common Sense, "Tis time to part."Dave is an award winning psychology, statistics and research professor, a college basketball coach, a mental health counselor, a political activist and writer who has published dozens of editorials and articles in several publications such as Freedoms Phoenix, News With Views and The Arizona Republic.THE COMMON SENSE SHOW features a wide variety of important topics that range from the loss of constitutional liberties, to the subsequent implementation of a police state under world governance, to exploring the limits of human potential. 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