0 The Secret Pickup Artist Loophole

Some of the so-called "Pickup Artists" (or PUAs) out there who're lovely with females are not always the kind of people others would want to be friends or deal with on a daily basis.

What do I mean by this? Well, some of these folks exhibit plenty of anti-social behaviors, such as plenty of ego-clashing & constantly trying to dominate or overpower one another every time to show they're the most "alpha dominant" around in hope of trying to get a girl, like it is a war.

This can lead to a dark one-sided, unhealthy obsession, & you will find your progression with females does not give you happiness.

Here you have 2 lions in the same cage, they will fight each other to the death & won't work together to help each other out.

I mean come on, just chill, it's NOT just about finding a girl. It's about enjoying the surroundings of others & meeting great people around you to enrich your life who will always support you, & the girls will naturally appear in your life.

you can be the self-absorbed, self-professed most important person in the on the face of the earth when you are out...but look in the mirror? Nobody cares!

Everybody can try to show they're the superior one in the room in fact, they might even feel repulsively threatened. So why don't you in lieu let go of your ego & make the other person feel special & let them feel their worth, & they will love you for it & you will be chilled in their eyes, unlike those who're trying to demolish that social vibe out in social gatherings where people just require to let go & have a lovely time?

You see, these aggressive behavior were once used to get things they wanted back in our ancestral time, but they're outdated in our modern, more civilized world. there's more boundaries that confine these human behaviors (for instance the law, you can push it near the edge, but you can't break it) so they must be aware & socially savvy.

plenty of people lack the social calibration awareness to recognize what they're thought about to t be dominant you can still be dominant but under the radar, without getting the other person defensive & threatened.

I will dwell more in to this in my next article, so not only will it help you everytime you are out attracting females, but will also help you become a better leader!