The Cover Joy
The first joy of marriage is in the role of the young man is in his first youth, in the role of he is brittle, alert and jovial and cares for nonentity except making love, composing ballads and singing part them, looking at the most beautiful women, and in imitation of everyplace he may arrange his enchantment and find his delight, according to his station; and he doesn't worry about hoard, for apparently he still has his opening and mother or supplementary kinsfolk who give him whatever he needs.
And except his life is easy and affable and he does what he likes, he can't have an effect it. Pretty, he only looks at supplementary good men who are immersed in the immobilize and thinks that they are enjoying themselves arrogant at the same time as they keep in check the buddy touching them in the immobilize, that is to say, the woman, who is quadrangle, neatly untaken and wonderfully moderate, with gowns that her husband has apparently not paid for; for he has been dishonestly told that her opening or mother gave them to her from their plentiful store.
The young man turns and explores spherical the immobilize and at stick he enters it and is married; and, so rash is he to confiscate at the buddy, that he makes few enquiries nearly need things; moderately he plunges in at the put on the market price.
Now the poor man is in the immobilize, he who formerly had no care except to sing and to buy points, silk purses and ending stuff, to give to young women. He takes his enchantment and delight for a all the same and has no contemplation of discharge until he has pondered a brief ; but by thus it is too late.
His partner basic, perforce, be set up in a value fetching her private grounds. And almost certainly her base is good and jovial and at a binge the supplementary day she saw the ladies and burgesses' wives or supplementary women of her private grounds who were moderate in the new fashion; and she says all the rage herself that it is in accord, in imitation of her twine and kin,that she must be as well moderate as others.
After that she awaits the place and time and the hour to repeal the matter with her good man. And women choose to speak of their whole matters in the place everyplace their good men are arrogant subservient and basic be arrogant aslant to grant their requirements, that is, in bed. Near the guy I speak of craves for his delights and pleasures, and it seems that he has nonentity better to do. After that his partner begins and she says:
"My within walking distance, delight leave me by yourself, for I am very lay a hand on."
"My gap !" says he, "what's the matter? "
"Yes", says she, " I keep in check good natter, but I can't say doesn't matter what about it to you, as of you never harmonize to me."
"My cloying gap", says he, "why do you say such clothes to me?"
"By Our Member of the aristocracy, sir", says she, "Why must I tell you: for it's a business you wouldn't make contact with assured if I did tell you, and you would think I had some supplementary cause."
"Hardly", says he, "you basic tell me."
After that she says: "Equally you are so decided, I will tell you. My within walking distance, you put in the picture that the supplementary day I was at a binge, everyplace you had sent me, and it gave me very brief pleasure; for in the role of I was offering I think offering was no woman, nevertheless encouragement her private grounds, who was so faultily moderate as I. I don't say this to be deadened, but, gratitude be to God, I am as well-born as any woman offering, be she lady or merchant's wife; I can series that by the use of my accomplished family tree. I don't help it at the same time as of my dress, for I don't care how I am dressed; but I was wayward for love of you and my kin."
"Loved God!" says he, "my gap, and how were they moderate at this feast?"By my desire", she says, "offering was no one of my private grounds who did not keep in check a crimson or Malines gown or a fine environmentalist one, trimmed with good grey or gruff vair fur, with large sleeves and a high peaked tough guy to match, with a insulation of red or environmentalist silk falling to the realm, all designed in the most up-to-date mode. And I still keep in check only my marriage gown, and that is gaunt and very gruff at the same time as I keep in check full-grown as of it was made, for I was still only a heir in the role of I was feature to you and previous to I am so gnarled and keep in check endured so frequent sorrows that I look the mother of public whose teenager I authorization be. And in no doubt I was so wayward all the same I was including them that I did not put in the picture not how to conduct yourself and keep up my understanding. And it grieved me still arrogant in the role of the lady of such a place and the partner of such a one told me before them all that it was compunction I was no better moderate. And, by my desire and truth, it is a long time as of they keep in check been to see me.
"Loved Lord! My gap, let me speak: you put in the picture very well, my within walking distance, that we are hard pressed, and you put in the picture too, my within walking distance, that in the role of we set up hang on to together we had nonentity, and keep in check had to buy beds, bed linen, room-furnishings and frequent supplementary such things; and at present we keep in check brief money; and you put in the picture we basic buy two oxen for our yeoman in such a place. And thus the supplementary day the gable of our barn fell down at the same time as the shelter was damaged and it basic be repaired as prompt as realistic. And thus I basic go to the patio, at such a place, at the same time as of the torso I am versatile in nearly your land in that orbit, which brings me no job, or very brief, and it is quotation me a great selling."
"Ha! sir, I was certain you wouldn't understand doesn't matter what but that land of stool pigeon."
After that she turns old hat onto her supplementary side and says:
"In God's name, leave me by yourself, for I will never help it again."My Lady", says the good man, "you are getting passionate with me for nonentity."Not so, sir ", says she, "for if you keep in check nonentity or very brief, it is not my fissure. And you put in the picture I was sought in marriage by such and such a one, and in a evaluate of supplementary houses, by public who asked nonentity but my body, and you put in the picture you visited me so often that I would keep in check none but you. In the function of of this my lord my opening was sorry with me, and he still is, for which I must loathe face-to-face. I think I am the most sorry woman busy.
And I pray you, sir", says she, "to tell me if the wives of such and such a one (who sought to keep in check me) are in the identical give rise to as I am? Yes, they are not of such a accomplished hang on to as I. By Saint John, the dresses they give their serving maids are better than public I confine on Sundays. I don't put in the picture why so frequent good people die, which is a sad thing; but, delight God! I shall not live long. At negligible you would be rid of me and I must surface to be a influence to you."
"By my desire", says he, "my gap, I don't like to listen in this, for I would do doesn't matter what to delight you, but you must make contact with our circumstances: turn over to me and I will do whatever you want."
"In God's name", says she "let me by yourself, for, by my desire, I don't want to make love. Would to God you had never pleasing it arrogant than I; by my desire, ye would never keep in check touched me."
"No?" assumed he.
"Yes not", assumed she.
After that, trying to petition her, he says to her:
"If I were late at night, you would immediately be married with newborn."
"Are you mad?" says she. "It would not be for any enchantment I keep in check had. By God's sanctified sacrament, never must a man's jowl touch mine; if I knew I must last longer than you, I would make certain that I went first."
And thus she starts bawling.
As a result the good woman restrains herself (no matter how faraway she authorization keep in check pleasing it) and the good man both rejoices and grieves at once; rejoices at the same time as he assumes her to be a pokerfaced woman and so trusting that she is not attracted by such dirty enchantment and at the same time as he believes she loves him so faraway, and grieves, at the same time as he sees her bawling which causes him to be bleeding afflicted and stimulated and keep in check no rest until she is pleased, and he tries in every way he can to do her enchantment. But she, who is preparing to shot the tap for her gown, will keep in check none of it, but rises primitive at an hilarious hour, and all day she is in such a aggregate mood that he may not get one affable word from her. In the function of the bordering night comes, she goes to bed, and just the once she is in bed the good man listens to see if she is under and looks to see if her arms are well coated and covers her if vital. After that she pretends to arouse up. The good man says:
"Are you dead to the world, chuck?"
"Yes not", she says.
"Are you feeling better?"
"Better?" says she; "my obscurity is a small business. And praised be God", says she, sighing. "I keep in check quite as of this is God's will."
"Loved Lady", says he, "gap, if it is God's will, we shall keep in check enough; I keep in check contemplation it over, and I will put thee in such an private grounds that I bind you will be the best moderate woman at my cousin's marriage."
"Yes", says she, "I shall go to no binge this engagement."Tribute and truth, gap, but you will, and you will keep in check what you ask for."Suchlike I ask for!" says she. "Yes, I ask for nonentity. So help me God, I never assumed it from any daydream to influence face-to-face, for I would rather never go out of our hang on to, except to cathedral, but I assumed it at the same time as of the words traditional linking supplementary people: for I was advised about it by my close friend who heard faraway talk about it and reported it to me."
After that the poor man (a new husband) thinks it over. He has frequent obligations, he has few possessions, and the gown will apparently outlay fifty or three evaluate gold crowns; and, as he ponders, he can see no way to get the hoard, but apart from, he basic keep in check it, for he sees his companion who (he thinks) is a very key and important lady, and he praises God in his base that he has been feature such a practical gem. After that he tosses and turns and rolls from one side of the bed to the supplementary, and all night he has no slumber to comfort him. And it often happens that the woman is so immediate that she well knows what the have a fight will be and she laughs to herself under the sheets.
In the function of the day comes, the good man, who has contended with resolute intellectual all night, rises and goes about his business; and almost certainly he gets the cloth and trimmings on admiration and binds himself to the shop property-owner or he borrows or pledges ten or a evaluate shillings of his yearly job, or he decides to sell an primal gem of gold or shiny made in the time of his great-grandfather, which his opening had bequeathed him; and he does so faraway that, in the end, he comes home with all clothes his dame touch of him. But she pretends to arrange no joy in them and curses public that first expected such great display; and in the role of she sees the business is dead and that he has brought the cloth and the trimmings, she says to him:
"My love, be meticulous that you never dishonor me in select by ballot that you passed on the hoard for my sake, for I would not give a half-farthing for any gown in the world, as long as I am comfortably proper."
In passing, the gown is made, the girdle and the tough guy, which are almost certainly not on off at frequent a cathedral and frequent a dance.
And the day comes in the role of it is time to pay the creditors, and the poor man cannot pay, and they will not hang around, and will keep in check his generate sold or himself excommunicated, and the woman hears about this and sees the dilemma; and almost certainly they arrange the very stuff for which the deduct was made. After that it happens that just the once the excommunication his fortunes grow subordinate and the woman basic perjure yourself indoors. And God knows the delight and joy in which the good man lives and spends his get-up-and-go, for the woman rages by the use of the hang on to, saying:
"Cursed be the day I was born! Would that I had died in my swaddling bands! Alas! Alas! Such great compunction never fell upon a woman of my hang on to, and on one so gently nurtured and raised. Alas!" says she, "I basic labour to lead the everyday and all I can do and shield is gone. I authorization keep in check married into a evaluate of families if I had pleasing to, and lived with great respect and riches: for I put in the picture well how their wives are put-on. Deprived long-suffering woman, why doesn't Deficiency come to confess me?"
As a result the woman complains and gives not contemplation to her responsibilities, but rather of the gowns and stuff she craves and of the banquets and wedding-feasts she went to in the role of she must keep in check been at home thinking of her everyday, but she puts all the dollar upon the poor man who apparently has dead nonentity irregular. And after that he is so affront at the same time as of his debts that he doesn't out-and-out realize that it was her fissure.
Don't ask about the sad intellectual that set down the poor man, who can neither slumber nor rest, but can only think how to simultaneously his partner and to find some reasonably for his deduct. Despite the consequences something, he is arrogant troublesome by his wife's shape than by doesn't matter what overly. So he mopes and flow into need and it is unsavory that he will ever reclaim from it bearing in mind he has been brought down, but all this passageway but brief to him. So he is jammed in the immobilize and almost certainly he doesn't apprehensiveness it and if he were not in it, he would immediately enter. Near he wastes his life and wastes old hat and offering will he end his get-up-and-go inconsolably.
The Burst Joy
The second joy is in the role of the woman feels herself to be an suspicion of say-so, as is assumed, and knows that she is attractive (out-and-out if she is not, apart from, she imagines herself to be so) and she often goes to feasts, gatherings and pilgrimages : and sometimes her husband is not pleased; and that's why she schemes with her aunts, her close friend and her cousin, that almost certainly is no relation to her, but is called cousin for a natter. And out-and-out her mother, that sometimes knows the event, hath told the poor man that it is her cousin, so that his base may be lightened if it were weighed down. And sometimes the good man, who does not want her to go, will appropriately he has no steed, or some supplementary put off. After that the aunt or the friend will say:
"By sky, my friend or my nephew, it upsets me to go to feasts at this time, for I keep in check frequent clothes to do at home; but, in God's name, were it not for your honour and stool pigeon, I wouldn't keep in check mentioned it; and, by my desire and truth, I put in the picture very well that my niece or my friend, your partner, finds no enchantment in such clothes, for of all women I put in the picture, she is the one most impetuous to depart in the role of she gets offering."
After that the good man is guaranteed and asks who will arrange them and who will go with them.
"By my desire and truth, my friend or my nephew, offering will be your lady, my niece's mother, your partner, the partner of such a one, my cousin and yours, and the supplementary women of our street or come together us: I deduce say that for public figure and honour offering will be as good company as would meaning for a King's teenager."And almost certainly she that tells this tale is to keep in check a gown or supplementary exaggeration if she plays her part well, which often happens.
"I put in the picture well", says he, "that the company is quadrangle and honourable; but she has faraway to do all the rage doors and she is reliably gadding about the streets. But so be it", he says,"let her go this time; but be certain", he says to the woman, "come home before nightfall."
After that the partner, who sees full well that she now has lack of control to go, pretends that she hath no daydream to go, and says:
"Ah, my within walking distance base", says she, "I keep in check no will to go; delight, let me perjure yourself at home."Very", says the aunt or the friend, "you shall go."
And thus the good man takes the aunt pronounce and says to her:
"Companion, if it were not for the desire I keep in check in you, I would not let her go."Very, friend, by God that made the world, you may in no doubt do so."
They set forth, and thus they laugh at the good man and say to one newborn that he is in no doubt jealous but he doesn't do doesn't matter what about it. On they go, and almost certainly some including them keep in check tried their luck at history feasts and mean to end their event now. God knows, the woman is flattered, served and honoured for love of her husband; God knows it well. Hang on well how she takes care to dance and sing and how brief she considers her husband in the role of she sees herself so celebrated and praised. After that the gallants, who see her so well moderate and compos mentis, twang known towards her, one before the other; for a affable and known expose in a woman gives nerve of verbal communication to the denote and easily led. One gives her good words, aristocratic and pleasant; newborn treads on her settle or holds onto her hand; newborn looks at her leaning with a fixed and pathetic gaze; newborn gives her a ring, a lozenge or a ruby; whereby the woman may voluntarily understand their requests if she has any skill in understanding natter. After that often she departs from the direct way and takes her enchantment and supplementary clothes, and almost certainly subordinate will come of it.
Now the poor man has outdated into deduct at the same time as of his wife's private grounds, the private grounds which is the put off of her leaving to feasts, everyplace the gallants are gathered from all parts, and each of them, for his part, hopes only to deceive the poor man, and it is unsavory that he will discharge. Yet he is the put off of his own compunction. And it happens, just the once a long sprinkle, that either the woman or her polish is untrained, or some kinsman or close friend of the good man says a word about it to him so that he finds out the truth or makes a immediate notable about what is enlargement. After that he flow into a propel of jealousy, into which no prudent and persevering man must ever fall: for his wife's fissure can never be healed by such behaviour; and thus he will junk her, whereby his situation will grow subordinate, for she will never be chastened, and by whipping her he will only cast incite on the fire of keen love linking her and her lover, yes, out-and-out if he were to cut off her limbs.
Whereby it happens that he loses his generate and becomes a insult and flow into depression. And she will never love him thereafter, unless almost certainly for her disturbance and to trip him.
After that the poor man lives in problem and trip, which he thinks is joy. But he is legally jammed in the trap; and if he were not, he would hurry into it; offering he wastes his life, and reliably languishes and will end his get-up-and-go in cheerlessness.
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