0 Things To Remember When Dating Black Women

Men who are not black might be wondering what it is like to date a black woman. They might be a bit intrigued with the mystery surrounding black women dating white men. Whenever black people meet individuals who come from a different race, there is always a lot of intrigue that surrounds such an event. This is understandable because not everyone is that familiar with the way that black people live out their lives. They have different ways of moving, speaking, and even dressing up. But you should not think of this as a bad thing because your differences can help you become closer with one another. Try visiting a BLACK ADULT DATING to test your luck in searching for a black woman that you can date. But be warned though, it will not be as easy as you think because convincing these black women to go out with you will take a lot of effort on your end. Here are some tips that can help you out.

AVOID OVERCOMPENSATING

Under no circumstances should you try to act like a wannabe black man because this will make you look a complete idiot. You do not need to do any sort of rap just to show your date that you are "down" with her and her ghetto lifestyle. This will make it seem like you are trying too hard to be someone you are not, and in black women dating sites this is a big no-no. Act natural because this is what your ebony beauty expects from you. When black people meet their dates, they expect them to be true to themselves and to others, so there is really no point in you trying to act like a lame version of Vanilla Ice in the hopes of impressing her. Just be yourself and everything else will into fall place. You just need to be patient and wait for the right moment to come wherein you can finally make a bold move on your black date.

BE OPEN MINDED AND HONEST

Black women dating white guys expect their dates to have an open minded approach on things. They do not want to go out with someone who has a very narrow minded perspective of life. These kinds of guys are boring to be with and will not attract any ladies anytime soon either. And you should also have the guts to be honest enough to your date. If she asks you if you have ever been on a date with a black woman before, then do not hesitate to tell the truth. There is nothing wrong in being truthful because this is much better than lying to her and causing her pain in the long run. Do not be ashamed to tell her outright that you have never experienced going out with a black woman before. Be a man and don't resort to lying. Whenever black people meet their dates, they want them to be truthful, understanding, and honest. Remember these tips and you should do fine with your date.

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1 I Dont Hate Valentine Day

CELEBRATE YOUR FAMILY ON VALENTINES DAY Valentine's Day is coming up and, last night, my friend asked me how I feel about it. I know she was really asking me if I'm sad because I'm not in a relationship. Truth is, I don't feel an ounce of self-pity. Growing up my mum always made a fuss over Valentine's Day, which happens to coincide with her birthday. Because she knew we would be celebrating her birthday and giving her presents, she always made sure to have some fun things for us in return. That's my mum for you. She always likes to make people feel good. Especially her family. So, Valentine's Day, for me, is a day to rejoice with my family - to celebrate our matriarch's day of birth and the love we have for one another. Thanks mum! MAKE VALENTINE'S DAY WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO BE. PJ Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Steve Cowan - No Drama Online DatingLance Kurke - The Wisdom Of The Alexander The GreatTony Horton - P90x Alternate CalendarLabels: best dating online neils strauss body language tests building self confidence in teenagers new dating advice japanese body language nerdy pick up lines management and leadership skills dating advice for black women religious pick up lines iris macfarlane

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0 Business Leadership Skill

Business leadership skills are much sought-after by businesses and organisations. But what leadership skills in particular matter? What skills would it be really good to have? To get a perspective on what good leadership skills might be we'll use our uncommon leadership model to provide a framework. The 5s Uncommon Leadership model takes 5 themes which we think are crucial to good leadership, but all too often are in short supply when we look at leadership practice. for each of the 5 themes we will think of the particular business leadership skill suggested by the theme.BUSINESS LEADERSHIP SKILL - DEVELOP UNCOMMON LEADERSHIP The Uncommon Leadership model explores five uncommon insights into leadership based on 5 S's: * Seeing - leading with vision * Shaping - leading with action * Showing - leading with purpose * Serving - leading with serving * Sharing - leading with others Each ofthe 5S uncommon leadership themes requires a mix of leadership skills. For example: * To lead with vision will require skills to develop and communicate a vision * To lead with action needs abilities to create the right conditions for the vision to become a reality * To lead with purpose first and foremost suggests leaders who demonstrate by their behaviours and actions the direction they want others to follow. They use the business leadership skill of being at the front leading the way * To lead with serving means a leaders motives are rooted in service, in doing things for the benefit of others. In contrast to leading with purpose such leaders adopt the business leadership skill of leading from behind, they follow their people, supporting and encouraging. * To lead with others recognises the skills to collaborate and to build leadership capacity more widely in the organisation. Such leaders lead from within. You can find out more about the Uncommon Leadership Model in our article: Leadership characteristics of uncommon leadership. There is also a different take on the model found on our sister site Apex Leadership in our blog: What is leadership - Uncommon Practice? The post Business Leadership Skill appeared first on Defining Leadership.

0 Hypnotic Regression

HYPNOTIC REGRESSION THE PAST LIFE REGRESSIONTHE CASE OF BRIAN L. WEISSA DANGEROUS PSYCHIATRISTIS HYPNOTIC REGRESSION DANGEROUS? WHEN A PSYCHIATRIST USES HIS PATIENTS AS IF THEY WERE "GUINEA PIGS" TO EXPERIMENT AND LEARN SOMETHING THAT WAS ALREADY DISCOVERED HALF A CENTURY AGO BY RON HUBBARD. THE LEAST WE CAN SAY ABOUT HIM IS THAT HE IS IRRESPONSIBLE. HOPEFULLY ONE DAY PSYCHIATRY WILL BECOME AN OBSOLETE SCIENCE.IN ADDITION, DR. BRIAN WEISS DOESN'T KNOW ABOUT THE REACTIVE MIND AND ENGRAMS AND USING PAST-LIFE THERAPY, AS HE DOES, HE COULD ACTUALLY PROVOKE A BIGGER PROBLEM IN THE MIND OF HIS PATIENTS WITH UNPREDICTABLE CONSEQUENCES.

SESSION 27/SEPT/06MEDIUM: JORGE RAUL OLGUIN.

ENTITY THAT CAME TO DIALOGUE: MASTER RUANEL.INTERLOCUTOR: I WANT TO ASK A QUESTION ABOUT HYPNOTISM. WITH HYPNOTISM CAN WE GO THROUGH PAST LIVES?RUANEL: WITH HYPNOTISM ONE CAN REGRESS TO PAST LIVES.INTERLOCUTOR: CONCRETELY THEN, WITH HYPNOTISM ONE IS ABLE TO REGRESS TO PAST LIVES, SOMETHING THAT CANNOT BE MADE WITH DIANETICS OR SCIENTOLOGY. IS IT CORRECT?RUANEL: CORRECT. WITH HYPNOSIS AND WITH HYPNOTISM ONE CAN REGRESS TO PAST LIVES PERFECTLY VERIFIABLE. WHAT HAPPENS IS THAT, OBVIOUSLY, A SERIES OF ENGRAMS STAY WITH THE 10% INCARNATED WHO HAS LIVED THOSE EXPERIENCES. BECAUSE IT IS DIFFERENT WHEN THE PERSON REGRESS TO PAST LIVES TO WHEN THE PERSON WITNESS THE PSYCHOAUDITING OF HIS OWN THETAN.IF THE PERSON IS SEATED COMFORTABLY AND SEES HOW THE MEDIUM TELLS A STORY, HE IS SEEING IT IN AN IMPERSONAL WAY.INTERLOCUTOR: OKAY.RUANEL: BUT IF THE PERSON IS "FORCED" TO REGRESS, THE PERSON SOMEHOW REMEMBERS THOSE LIVES AND REVIVES THOSE EXPERIENCES, AND THAT CREATES ENGRAMS AND EVEN REINFORCES CONCEPTUAL ENGRAMS ALSO.INTERLOCUTOR: THEN HYPNOTISM IS NOT AN ADVISABLE SYSTEM IS IT?RUANEL: OF COURSE NOT.INTERLOCUTOR: LET'S SEE IF I UNDERSTAND. NEITHER HYPNOTIC REGRESSION NOR LIGHT HYPNOTISM IS ADVISABLE. IS IT CORRECT?RUANEL: CORRECT. INTERLOCUTOR: AND WHAT ARE THEY GOOD FOR?RUANEL: WELL, A DOCTOR IN THE UNITED STATES COULD PROOF THROUGH HYPNOTIC REGRESSION THE TRUTH OF PAST LIVES. HE HYPNOTIZED A LADY WHO SAID SHE HAD LIVED A PAST LIFE IN IRELAND, AND LATER ON, WHEN SHE TRAVELED TO THIS COUNTRY SHE COULD VERIFY CONVINCINGLY THAT HE HAD LIVED THERE IN THE XIX CENTURY.INTERLOCUTOR: MASTER, I HAVE A DOUBT BECAUSE YOU SAID IN AN OPPORTUNITY THAT THE HYPNOTISM WAS NOT THE ENEMY, THAT IS TO SAY WHEN KNOWING DIANETICS IT COULD BE USED EFFICIENTLY. DO YOU MEAN THAT HYPNOTISM IS NOT THE ENEMY WHEN THE PERSON WHO PERFORMS IT KNOWS DIANETICS?RUANEL: OBVIOUSLY.INTERLOCUTOR: COULD AN AUDITOR OF DIANETICS USE HYPNOTISM CONCRETELY TO PERFORM REGRESSIONS TO PAST LIVES AND ELIMINATE ENGRAMS AS LONG AS HE COMMANDS OR SUGGESTS THE ORDER TO THE PERSON TO NOT RECORD ANY ENGRAM?RUANEL: CORRECT. BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO BE A VERY GOOD AUDITOR. I COMMENT YOU THAT JORGE, MY VESSEL, HAS PERFORMED A KIND OF LIGHT HYPNOSIS WITH A YOUNG GIRL WHERE HE TOOK HER TO A PAST LIFE AND HE HAS GIVEN HER THAT SUGGESTION YOU MENTION, AND WHEN SHE RETURNED SHE DID IT WITH A STATE OF HAPPINESS - I CLARIFY NOT IMPLANTED, OTHERWISE IT WOULD BE AN ENGRAM OVER AN ENGRAM-. AND SHE WAS WITH SUCH EUPHORIA AS IF SHE HAD GONE TO A PICNIC OR A FESTIVITY IN A SUNNY DAY.INTERLOCUTOR: WHICH WOULD BE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIGHT HYPNOSIS AND THE DIANETIC TRANCE?RUANEL: IN LIGHT HYPNOSIS THE PERSON IS ALERT AT EVERY MOMENT, THE PERSON FEELS MORE PROTECTED. THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO, DUE TO ENGRAMIC PROBLEMS, THEY ARE AFRAID OF ALL KIND OF HYPNOSIS BECAUSE THEY FEEL AS IF THEY WERE DEFENSELESS AT THE HANDS OF THE THERAPIST. AND IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THE THERAPIST IS THE BEST AUDITOR BECAUSE THE PERSON HIMSELF WILL CREATE DEFENSELESSNESS ENGRAMS.INTERLOCUTOR: AND WHICH WOULD BE THE DIFFERENCE OF THE TRANCE OF LIGHT HYPNOSIS WITH THE TRANCE OF DIANETICS, WHERE AS YOU KNOW THE PERSON IS ALSO ALERT?RUANEL: IT IS VERY SIMILAR.INTERLOCUTOR: I DON'T UNDERSTAND WELL. WITH THE LIGHT HYPNOSIS ONE CAN GO THROUGH PAST LIVES AND NOT WITH DIANETICS? I ASK IT BECAUSE WE HAVE ALREADY CLARIFIED THAT WITH DIANETICS ONE CANNOT GO THROUGH PAST LIVES.RUANEL: BUT WITH LIGHT HYPNOSIS THIS CAN BE DONE. WHAT HAPPENS IS THAT WHEN THE PERSON IS SLEEPING, FAINTED OR UNCONSCIOUS, THE ANALYTIC MIND IS DISCONNECTED AND THE REACTIVE MIND IS ALERT. YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT.INTERLOCUTOR: CORRECT.RUANEL: WITH LIGHT HYPNOSIS THE ANALYTIC MIND IS CONNECTED.INTERLOCUTOR: WELL, BUT IN THE DIANETIC TRANCE THE ANALYTIC MIND IS ALSO CONNECTED.RUANEL: PERFECT, BUT THE DIANETIC TRANCE DOESN'T TAKE TO THE PERSON TO PAST LIVES DUE TO THE INCAPACITY OF THE AUDITOR.INTERLOCUTOR: LET'S SEE IF I UNDERSTOOD. IF THE AUDITOR KNEW ABOUT PAST LIVES AND HE WERE CAPABLE TO TAKE TO THE AUDITEE TO A PREVIOUS LIFE, WOULD HE DO IT THEN?RUANEL: YES, HE COULD DO IT.INTERLOCUTOR: CONCRETELY THEN, TO REGRESS TO PAST LIVES THE LIGHT HYPNOSIS WOULD BE THE SAME THING TO THE DIANETIC TRANCE?RUANEL: CORRECT, BUT THE LIGHT HYPNOSIS, FOR HE WHO DOESN'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DIANETICS, IT COULD GENERATE ENGRAMS TO THE AUDITEE, AND THIS EVEN THOUGH HE IS CONTAINED AND WITH THE ANALYTIC MIND ALERT.INTERLOCUTOR: MASTER, AND WHY DO YOU SAY THAT IN THE TECHNOLOGY OF DIANETICS AND SCIENTOLOGY ONE CANNOT REGRESS TO PAST LIVES?RUANEL: ON ONE HAND, ONE DOESN'T REGRESS TO PAST LIVES DUE TO INCAPACITY OF THE AUDITORS, AND ON THE OTHER HAND, WHEN I WAS EMBODIED I LEFT THAT ISSUE UNCONCLUDED IN THE TECHNOLOGY, FEARING THAT THAT INCAPACITY OF THE AUDITORS PROVOKE DAMAGES IN THE AUDITEES. INTERLOCUTOR: COULD WE SAY THAT IN THE TIME YOU WERE INCARNATED THE THINGS WERE NOT FAVORABLE FOR YOU TO DEVELOP A TECHNOLOGY CAPABLE TO REGRESS TO PAST LIVES?RUANEL: CORRECT.INTERLOCUTOR: I REMEMBER READING A BOOK OF YOURS THAT IF THE AUDITEE REGRESSES TO PAST LIVES, THE INCIDENTS HE TELLS SHOULD BE AUDITED IN THE SAME WAY THE INCIDENTS OF HIS PRESENT LIFE ARE AUDITED. RUANEL: BUT THAT IS LOGICAL! KEEP IN MIND THAT IN THAT MOMENT THE AUDITOR IS CONVERSING WITH THE ROLE OF THE AUDITEE IN A PAST LIFE OF THE ONE WHO HAD THAT EXPERIENCE. THE ISSUE NOW IS THAT THE AUDITORS ARE RIDING THE VICTORY HORSE; THEY ARE PURE ARROGANCE, SOMETHING I DIDN'T TEACH WHEN I WAS INCARNATED. I ALWAYS TAUGHT HUMBLENESS. THE CURRENT AUDITORS GIVE MORE IMPORTANCE TO OTHER TOPICS AND THEY DISTORTED THE TEACHINGS I GAVE.INTERLOCUTOR: CONCRETELY, THEN, IT IS BETTER THAT THE AUDITORS DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT AUDITING PAST LIVES TO AVOID THEY PROVOKE MORE DAMAGES THAN BENEFITS TO THE AUDITEES DUE TO THEIR LACK OF UNDERSTANDING IN THE TECHNIQUE.RUANEL: CORRECT. I HAVE APPREHENSION THAT THE AUDITORS DON'T KNOW HOW TO GUIDE TO THE AUDITEES IN THOSE PAST LIVES, AND IF THAT PERSON REVIVES THOSE EXPERIENCES, ADDED TO THE PRESENT EXPERIENCES, INSTEAD OF CLARIFYING THEM, THEY WOULD DARKEN THEM IMPLANTING MORE ENGRAMS. INTERLOCUTOR: RECENTLY I DISCUSSED WITH AN AUDITOR TELLING HIM THAT THE TECHNOLOGY OF DIANETICS AND SCIENTOLOGY DOES NOT REGRESS TO PAST LIVES, BUT HE ARGUED WITH ME.RUANEL: I REPEAT THAT BY MEANS OF THESE TECHNIQUES ONE CANNOT TAKE TO THE PEOPLE TO EXPERIENCE THE ROLES OF PAST LIVES OR AUDIT THOSE EXPERIENCES. ALTHOUGH I FOUNDED A BASE, THE KNOWLEDGE I HAD IN THAT MOMENT WHEN I WAS INCARNATED WAS INFINITELY INFERIOR TO THE KNOWLEDGE I HAVE NOW AS PURE SPIRIT. EVEN NOW, ALL THIS TIME I LEARNED VERY MUCH THROUGH THE INVESTIGATIONS OF JOHNAKAN.OF COURSE THEY HAD THE BASE TO AUDIT PREVIOUS LIVES, BUT THE SINGLE KNOWLEDGE OF HOW TO GUIDE TO A ROLE TO THOSE EXPERIENCES. NOT KNOWING ANYTHING ABOUT ROLES OF EGO AND ALL THESE THINGS. IT WOULDN'T BE GOOD TO AUDIT EFFICIENTLY WITHOUT PRODUCING ANY DAMAGE IN THE AUDITEE. WHAT I WANT TO CLARIFY IS THAT I ABSTAINED FROM DEEPENING IN THE TECHNOLOGY OF AUDITING PAST LIVES, FEARING THAT THE TECHNIQUE WERE DISTORTED AND IT PROVOKED MORE DAMAGES THAN BENEFITS. INTERLOCUTOR: HAS SOME AUDITOR OF DIANETICS OR SCIENTOLOGY, ALTHOUGH BY CHANCE, AUDITED WELL TO SOME PERSON?RUANEL: I RESPOND CATEGORICALLY NO, NOT IN THIS PLANET, NO AUDITOR OF DIANETICS OR SCIENTOLOGY HAS CLARIFIED ANYBODY AUDITING PAST LIVES, BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE THE TECHNOLOGY TO ACHIEVE IT AND THEY DON'T KNOW THE ROLES OF EGO EITHER. THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS ACHIEVED IT HAS BEEN THIS VESSEL WITH PSYCHOAUDITING.INTERLOCUTOR: COULD WE SAY THAT IF AN AUDITOR TAKES THE SIMPLE ENUNCIATION YOU GAVE IN THE TECHNOLOGY THAT ONE CAN GO THROUGH PAST LIVES, AND ARBITRARILY HE DOES APPLY IT ALTHOUGH THIS ONE BE ONLY A SKETCH, THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE DISORDERS CAUSED ARE ENTIRELY OF THAT AUDITOR? RUANEL: OF COURSE! NO AUDITOR OF DIANETICS OR SCIENTOLOGY SHOULD GUIDE TO THE AUDITEE TO INCIDENTS OF PAST LIVES.INTERLOCUTOR: AND IF THE AUDITEE GOES THROUGH THE INCIDENTS OF PAST LIVES ON HIS OWN?RUANEL: SIMPLY AUDIT THEM AS IF IT THEY WERE INCIDENTS OF THIS LIFE, BUT NOTHING ELSE.INTERLOCUTOR: SO, THE AUDITOR SHOULD NOT HAVE PART ON THIS.RUANEL: CORRECT.INTERLOCUTOR: WELL, I BELIEVE THAT THIS MATTER HAS BEEN PROPERLY CLARIFIED.
INTERLOCUTOR: NOW I WANT TO APPROACH A TOPIC I CONSIDER EXTREMELY IMPORTANT, I REFER TO HYPNOTISM. SOME TIME AGO I ASKED YOU ABOUT THIS ISSUE AND YOU TOLD ME THAT "HYPNOTISM IS NOT THE ENEMY", AND ALTHOUGH IN THAT MOMENT I DIDN'T RESEARCH ABOUT IT BECAUSE I HAD OTHER QUESTIONS TO ASK, THE ANSWER INTRIGUED ME AND I HAD IT SCHEDULED. CONCRETELY, IS THERE SOME WAY TO PRACTICE HYPNOTISM TO HEAL? RUANEL: THE SECRET IS THAT THE PERSON DOESN'T HAVE TO BE IN DEFENSELESSNESS. ONE CAN PERFORM HYPNOTISM WHEN THE PERSON IS CONSCIOUS. INTERLOCUTOR: BUT ISN'T THAT WHEN THE PERSON IS HYPNOTIZED, AT THE SAME TIME HE IS UNCONSCIOUS, THAT IS TO SAY, THE PERSON IS WITH THE ANALYTIC MIND DISCONNECTED OR AT LEAST VERY REDUCED? RUANEL: THERE IS A MIDDLE TERM WHERE THE PERSON CAN BE WITH THE ANALYTIC MIND ALERT, EVEN BEING HYPNOTIZED. INTERLOCUTOR: IS IT POSSIBLE TO COMMAND TO A HYPNOTIZED PERSON SO THAT HE BE PARTLY CONSCIOUS AND PARTLY UNCONSCIOUS? RUANEL: THE OPERATOR DOESN'T HAVE TO COMMAND, BECAUSE GIVING AN ORDER IS IMPLANTING ENGRAMS. THEREFORE, WHAT THE OPERATOR HAS TO DO IS TO SUGGEST TO THE PERSON - TO SUGGEST, NOT TO COMMAND -, WHEN THE PERSON IS BEING TAKEN TO THE ALPHA STATE SO THAT HE WILL BE WITH THE ANALYTIC MIND ALERT MIND AND WITH HIGHER DEFENSES, AND BEING ALSO ALERT HE WILL BE ABLE TO REGRESS WHAT HE LIVED IN THIS LIFE OR EVEN TO REGRESS TO PAST LIVES. WHEN THE PERSON IS IN AN ALERT STATE, HE WON'T BE IMPLANTED WITH ANY ENGRAM AND THEREFORE IT WON'T BE AN ENGRAM THAT MANIPULATES HIM. THAT'S SIMPLE. INTERLOCUTOR: BUT IT'S THE SAME THING WHAT AN AUDITOR DOES WITH DIANETIC THERAPY! I MEAN THAT THE PERSON IS TOLD HE WILL BE ALERT AND ALL THOSE THINGS. RUANEL: THIS IS A STEP MORE ADVANCED THAN DIANETICS, BECAUSE THE PERSON IS IN A STATE OF TORPOR THAT MAKES EASIER THE REGRESSION, BECAUSE HE CAN ARRIVE TO AN ALPHA STATE AND AT THE SAME TIME HE WILL BE ALERT. BUT I REPEAT THAT BEFORE HE HAS TO BE INFLUENCED NOT COMMANDED. INTERLOCUTOR: IS THIS TECHNIQUE APPLIED ON EARTH? RUANEL: NO, NOT YET. INTERLOCUTOR: COULD WE CALL TO THIS TECHNIQUE HYPNOSIS OR SOMETHING SIMILAR? RUANEL: THIS TECHNIQUE ITSELF IS LIGHT HYPNOSIS. THIS VESSEL HAS ALREADY TESTED IT IN ANGELIC SESSIONS, WHEN PEOPLE WERE PUT IN THIS STATE TO MAKE CONTACT WITH THEIR ANGEL OR WITH THEIR THETANS. INTERLOCUTOR: I CONFIRM IT, IN MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. I REMEMBER I HAVE PRACTICED THIS TECHNIQUE WITH THIS VESSEL AND I HAVE LISTENED TO A MESSAGE FROM MY THETAN. CONCRETELY, IS THE TECHNIQUE OF LIGHT HYPNOSIS SUPERIOR THAN DIANETICS? RUANEL: SURE, BECAUSE THE TECHNIQUE OF DIANETICS PUTS THE PERSON INTO A VERY LIGHT TRANCE, THE MORE ALERT THE PERSON IS, THE MORE DIFFICULT WILL BE TO THE PERSON TO GO THROUGH THE LINE OF TIME. INTERLOCUTOR: I UNDERSTAND. RUANEL: THE STATE OF LIGHT HYPNOSIS IN ALPHA STATE GIVES PLACE TO THE OTHER PART OF THE PERSON TO GO THROUGH PAST LIVES OR TO MAKE CONTACT WITH HIS ANGEL OR HIS THETANINTERLOCUTOR: DO YOU CONFIRM, THEN THAT ASIDE FROM THIS VESSEL NOBODY HAS TESTED THIS TECHNIQUE? RUANEL: YES, I CONFIRM IT TO YOU. INTERLOCUTOR: AND THE REGRESSIONS PERFORMED BY HYPNOTISTS TO PAST LIVES? RUANEL: THEY DO IT WITH TOTAL HYPNOSIS, THAT IS TO SAY, THE PERSON IS COMPLETELY HYPNOTIZED. WHEN THE PERSON IS COMPLETELY HYPNOTIZED HE IS TOTALLY REACTIVE, AND ALL THAT THE OPERATOR TELLS HIM IS IMPLANTED AS AN ENGRAM. INTERLOCUTOR: BUT THAT MEANS WHEN HE WAKES UP HE IS LIKE A GARBAGE CAN, FIGURATIVELY SPEAKING! RUANEL: WHEN THE PERSON WAKES UP, HE RETURNS TO HIS ANALYTIC STATE WITH ENGRAMS, DRIVES, AND HE CAN EVEN HAVE CONVULSIONS. IT WOULD BE SOMETHING SIMILAR TO TRANSPERSONAL PSYCHOLOGY NOT WELL PERFORMED. THERE ARE EVEN CASES OF TRANSPERSONAL PSYCHOLOGY WHERE, THROUGH HOLOTROPIC BREATHWORK, THE PERSON HAS BEEN TAKEN TO ALTERED STATES OF CONSCIOUSNESS, AND HE HAS RENDERED COMPLETELY AGGRESSIVE TO THE POINT OF HITTING AND HURTING TO THE THERAPIST SEVERELY. INTERLOCUTOR: NOW, DOES THE PERSON WITH TOTAL HYPNOSIS GO THROUGH PAST LIVES? RUANEL: YES, HE DOES, BUT HE DOESN'T SOLVE ANYTHING. INTERLOCUTOR: ACCORDING TO YOUR EXPLANATION, I SEE THAT AT THE PRESENT TIME, AND AS LONG AS THESE THINGS ARE UNKNOWN, IT IS NECESSARY TO PROMOTE THE ELIMINATION OF HYPNOTISM AND WE COULD CALL IT "ENGRAMIC HYPNOTISM" INSTEAD. RUANEL:...AND PROMOTE THE LIGHT HYPNOSIS AT THE SAME TIME AND NECESSARILY WE SHOULD LOOK FOR A NAME FOR THIS TECHNIQUE. INTERLOCUTOR: I WOULD CALL IT DIRECTLY "NON ENGRAMIC HYPNOSIS" OR "LIGHT HYPNOSIS". RUANEL: EITHER OF THEM IS VALID. INTERLOCUTOR: THE STATE OF LIGHT HYPNOSIS, IN WHICH THE PERSON IS ALERT, WOULD IT BE SOMETHING SIMILAR TO THE STATE THE MEDIUM IS INTO WHEN CHANNELING? RUANEL: CORRECT. FOR EXAMPLE, THIS VESSEL AT THIS TIME IS 100% TOTALLY ALERT AND HE DOESN'T ALLOW THE IMPLANT OF ANY ENGRAM. THIS IS IMPORTANT TO CLARIFY IT, BECAUSE THERE ARE MEDIUMS IN AFRICA OR BRAZIL WHO CHANNEL SPIRITS OF ERROR, AND THEY ARE NOT COMPLETELY ALERT, THEREFORE THEY RECEIVE ENGRAMS, AS A RESULT, THEY COLLAPSE PREY FROM CONVULSIONS ON THE GROUND AND THEY INJURE THEMSELVES. INTERLOCUTOR: WELL, I BELIEVE THAT THIS TOPIC IS CLEAR PERFECTLY.

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0 Date Rape

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0 Becoming A Competent Nlp Practitioner

In recent months, the concern has been growing about people who claim to offer 3 day certifications, or 80 NLP certifications. As a Licensed Trainer of NLP with the Society Of NLP (Richard Bandler's organization), I find it hard to believe that such trainers think they can pull off such an unethical stance.

I have been reluctant to conduct certifications for a long time simply because of the attitude propagated by such trainers, and I find the state of the field simply filled with commercially degraded versions of NLP. The main reason is that they do not focus on objective competency.

Hence, my aim for launching the NLP Practitioner competency sets is simple. They are going to be measures, empirically tested over time to reveal evidence to support NLP competencies within a specific set of applications rather than just a generic psychotherapy approach to NLP. The applications will include:

* NLP Modeling competencies (master practitioner level)
* NLP Intervention competencies (practitioner level)
* NLP Coaching competencies (practitioner level)
* NLP Leadership competencies (practitioner and master practitioner)
* NLP Personal Effectiveness competencies (practitioner competencies)

WHY GO THROUGH THE TROUBLE?

Well, simply, because I can. With the clear competencies set out, NLP practitioners and master practitioners will no longer flounder around thinking they are competent when they (really) aren't. It will also differentiate my training from practically all other trainers because the competencies will be evidence-based and tested for the purposes of locking in credibility for the practitioner.

I've interviewed people who supposedly have an NLP certification but know nuts about the background and have a hard time proving their points, or choosing their course of action. The issue is not so much that they have to do it, because NLP is not an academic field of study. However, if formalization and research is not conducted, the term 'practitioner' is useless.

Hence, my training certifications for both levels will focus a lot more on practice. The core content will be drawn from already existing books or e-learning modules. Practical sessions are where you can actually receive clear guidance and gain competence.

WHAT WOULD I DO WITH NLP CERTIFICATION?

Certification is a mark of competence. NLP certification under my new approach will ensure that you increase in your value as a coach. Because it is practice and feedback based, your ability to maintain your NLP certification will come from your practice areas. The ability to use NLP is a better mark of a good practitioner, rather than someone who has merely completed a course of study.

Practitioners and Master Practitioners can then join our upcoming communities of practice in order to legitimize the practice of NLP in the context of COACHING.

If you don't want a certification from some 'Mickey Mouse' institute, please check the reputation of the trainers first and apply some common sense. A tougher training is definitely much more rigorous and therefore valuable for your own development. I can't stop people from taking an easy way out, but I can certainly support those who have a rigorous approach to their practice process.

For information about real NLP certification training, you may leave a comment in the comments box and I will pick it up within 24-36 hours.

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1 Having Online Dating

Internet is available for many various entertainments. You can reach a lot of entertainment stuff on the internet very easily and you will find out a lot of choices of entertainment from games, music, pictures, and many more. In addition, you are also capable of getting online dating where you can meet many people and you have a date with them. There are online networks for the dating online that you can go to and you are going to find out many members that are available for online dating. Many online dating sites can be visited and you will get it easy to have a chat with the members. The chatting is not only in text, but you can make video chatting so that you will be capable of seeing the face one another. It is fun to have online dating and if you feel more than just chatting, you can bring the acquaintance to the further relationship. You can make real meeting if you like. Many people also make this medium to find their soul mate. We know that in this time many people have no time to mingle in the society because they have limited time. Online dating can be the start for you to find your soul mate and start a relationship.

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0 Review Of Nlp For Tweens

I've just read a lovely review of NLP for Tweens on Amazon that I'd like to share with you.

"Hooray! At last! I have been looking for a NLP book for this age group for a while. My daughter is 11 and often pops along to the NLP meetings with me, she then dabbles in my book collection, but they are all too wordy and complicated for her to understand."

"In this book Judy Bartkowiak shows Tweens that they have Choices. The book is set out in workbook style for children to work through. It has short quizzes which enable the reader to understand 'how they work'. It explains NLP and the choices it gives, in a language that they understand and can relate to."

"This book gives examples of everyday situations that Tweens encounter that they may find challenging, Judy then explains the NLP techniques and tools to aid them. These interventions are very easy to follow, with a sense of fun. She encourages a positive mindeset with a 'can do' attitude, covering areas such as Goal Setting, Confidence, Schoolwork, Friendships, Personal responsibility, self-belief and weight issues. Tweens learn how to Anchor a positive state, Time Line, Circle of Excellence, Swish pattern, and lots of other useful NLP techniques."

"So glad that I found this book whilst my daughter is that age. She is loving it and has already informed me that she is a 'little chunker, likes choices and works towards things'! A definate must for those little NLPers!"

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0 Dreaming Of A Dead Cat Prophetic Dream Interpretations

So you dreamed of a dead cat and now you're worried about what your cat dream could mean.

I'll tell you what it means but before I do let me first congratulate you on coming across this article. Unlike the other articles or websites you may have read in the past on this type of dream, what you will find here is nothing like that of a Dream Dictionary. I don't believe in Dream Lexicons nor do I respect or acknowledge anything that comes out of them. But why is that? Keep reading...

Now, about your dead cat dream. What in the world does it mean?

To understand the dream, you need to look at it from a unique perspective. What does a cat mean to you? Do you like cats? Do you even care about them? Do you see a cat and automatically go "awww"?

The significance of a cat to you will determine what your dream means. Let me give you an example of a cat dream I had.

THE DREAM:

I dreamed a dream overnight sometime in November of 2009. In my dream, I was at the backyard of a house. Evening time was at hand. I, along with a cat, was swimming in the lake that was behind the house. Whose house this was, I do not know. But I swam, with the cat as my swimming companion.

Obviously, being human, I can swim a lot faster than a cat can. So I swam at my regular pace but before long, there had been somewhat of a distance created between myself and this cat. I didn't notice this immediately. When I looked back to check up on the cat, the cat had sunk to the bottom of the lake.

I hurried back to the area where I last saw the cat. And when I arrived there, I saw the cat at the bottom of the lake with its eyes wide open as if in horror. It wasn't struggling or anything, it just laid there, frozen with its eyes staring back at me. I looked down at this cat and wondered if I should dive to the bottom of the lake and pull it out.

But I as pondered on this thought, another thought crossed my mind. I thought to myself, why even bother? I'm not a cat person at all. In fact, they freak me out. They're lazy, and care only about themselves, unlike dogs. I'm more of a dog person. I love them passionately. But in this dream, I was dreaming of an animal (the cat) that I clearly had indifferent feelings for.

So after a few moments of reflection, I decided to leave the cat down at the bottom of the lake. Then, I swam out. But as I did, I still couldn't stop thinking about the cat. I stood there on the side of the lake, wondering if what I did was the right decision. Should I go back for the cat and perform CPR on it? Do I even know how to perform CPR on an animal?

It was while I was contemplating my next move that I sprung awake from my dream.

INTERPRETATION:

When I woke up, I was confused but wasn't scared. I woke up with a steady heartbeat, unlike other times when I had had dreams that predicted ominous events. What in the world could this particular dream mean? I was baffled but wasn't worried.

About a few weeks later following the dream, my girlfriend and I broke up abruptly. I loved the girl quite dearly, but deep down in my heart, I knew from day one that she wasn't the type of woman a responsible man should marry. The breakup was devastating nevertheless. I was emotionally wrangled. I cried like a babe and poured out my heart to my guardian spirit. I reached out in agony for hope of a better tomorrow, but it never came.

But as time came and went, a realization dawned upon me. I knew I was better off without this girl because of her characteristics. She loved partying too much, never liked staying in the house, got bored rather easily, was always on the go, cared only about herself (classic trait of a cat), was very combative and didn't seem to understand that tiffs between couples shouldn't be allowed to last long. Before the breakup, I ignored all these glaring signs for reasons that I'm sure some of you can imagine. I was emotionally attached, to say the least.

But like in the dream, I got over her rather quickly by simply looking at her list of undesirable manners. I found myself living in peace with the fact that it was for the greater good that she was ejected out of my life. The characteristics I listed about this woman were in fact real and to me, very disturbing, which is why I restrained myself from aggressively trying to get her back after the breakup.

There's more to this story, but what you just read is the overall gist of it. In my dream, I had for a companion a pet animal that I would have never, in a million years, voluntarily adopted as my own. I'm just not a cat person and never will be. So in this dream, something specific was being told to me by the cat being made to be my companion. The message was telling me that the person I was with, whose selfish characteristics resembled that of a cat, was not the chosen one. The message was bitter to accept. But, again, it was for the greater good.

LESSON:

See, if you have a dream about a dead cat, it is in your best interest to stop thinking dream dictionaries can help you. As you can see from the above situation, a prophetic dream is always unique to the individual who had it. Always remember that. What significance does a cat hold to you? Answer that question, and you'll unlock the mystery of your dream! thank me later.

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0 Tribal Designs

A TRIBAL DESIGNS YOU'LL LOVE!

Back in those days, a certain stigma for women who wear tribal designs tattoo there. Now, tribal tattoo designs have a very ordinary one. Today, almost every woman or a person you meet has a tattoo on their body design and no one pays a big problem about it except of course when they saw a beautiful intricate design style.

In fact, there are so many tattoo designs to choose from. If you are looking for unique designs that you will never run out of options. You can check out some tattoo designs in several galleries on the internet and you will see that there are thousands of tribal designs complex designed to meet your meticulous taste many men and women who want to possess.

o In the past, tattoos were employed by ancient people to identify the members of the clan or tribe. A particular tribe has a tribal designs tattoo of their own, unique.

o very important tribes in the past for ancient tribes are usually involved in the fighting. their tattoos serve as identification if a certain person is friend or foe.

o There is also a tribal designs tattoo that shows that someone is already married. Couples get the same tattoo to let the whole world that they already belong to one another.

o Tattoos are also used in the past as the symbolism of the male or female adult.

There are many reasons why many people get tribal designs tattoos on his body as a tattoo design:

o As a medium of self-expression

o To express individuality

o As a sign that they belong to certain groups or peer

o Some of these young men and women get tattoos as a sign that they are ready to face the world and make their own decisions in life. "By Chinnaraj Subramani"

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0 Farewell Boxy Shirts And Baggy Capri Pants

I love summertime. I love the ocean and everything associated with it--surf, salt air, sailing and lobster. I love the fact that there's an abundance of limes and mint for Mojitos. So it's always sad when the air turns cooler in September, heralding the end of another summer season. There are a couple of summer fashion items, however, I'm not sorry to bid adieu to. The first is my swimsuit (see previous posting). Another is the pairing of boxy-styled shirts and baggy Capri or cropped slacks.I understand the urge to wear comfy, baggy clothing. It's so frustrating to see one's body lose its youthful shape or, worse, expand in 365 different directions. But covering up with as much fabric as possible isn't the answer. Too much fabric just makes women look bigger than they really are. And the cropped pants make most legs look shorter, stumpier. To illustrate, I've drawn myself in a shapeless, Hawaiian-style shirt over baggy Capri pants. However, it's a combo I would never, "ever" wear. And it makes me so sad to see so many other women wearing it.Besides being engulfed in too much fabric, the oversized man-styled shirt and baggy Capri slacks is masculine looking. Looking feminine is, perhaps, the Number #1 way the after 50 woman can look her best. The perky, trim twenty-something can wear the boyfriend's suit jacket-which, apparently, is a wardrobe 'must-have.' Maybe the tall, rail-thin 50+ woman can, too. (Think: rocker Chrissie Hynde of the Pretenders.) But the full-figured and pear-shaped older woman should think twice before dressing like her husband or other men. It's just not flattering for two reasons. First, our figures are less shapely and more manly-breasts and belly have begun to blend, the belly protrudes, the waistline parallels the hipline. And second, if your face is like mind-with its sags, bags and jowls-it has lost some of its feminine definition and is more masculine looking than it was 20 years ago. We don't need to compound the situation with a manly wardrobe. We need to balance the mounting man attributes by dressing in feminine clothing. I'm not suggesting that all women should burn their Capri slacks. On the right after 50 body-the one that's petite and/or blessed with slim legs-a slim-cut Capri slack combined with a fitted top can be very flattering. It even works with the pear-shaped or full-figured woman who has great legs. When a girlfriend of mine-who is full-figured with great legs-wears a fitted top over slim-cut Capri pants, she looks wonderful. I've included a drawing of her at a 4th of July barbecue. The key is limiting the amount of fabric involved. At a restaurant over Labor Day, I saw a fifty-something woman dressed in a black V-neck top and white Capri pants (seeing drawing). She was petite and looked fantastic in her nice-fitting outfit. So on this first day of autumn, I wish to bid adieu to all the boxy shirts and baggy Capri slacks in women's wardrobes. It's time for those items to go into storage. And with any luck, they'll be too stained, faded, or thread worn to return for another season.

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0 Find The Best Hypnosis Downloads

There are many websites on the internet that sell their own brand of hypnosis downloads. While choice is always good it con be confusing for a first time buyer to decide which website offers the best hypnosis downloads for them. Since hypnotherapy is very much a subjective treatment it is vital that you do you research before putting down your hard earned cash.This guide will help you to do that research so that you make the right decision.
Hypnotherapy has received a significant boost in popularity recently thanks to mainstream hypnotists such as Paul McKenna and the tremendous amount of celebrity endorsement it has received. Stars from Matt Damon to Ellen Degeneres have found great success using hypnosis to break bad habits, and all of this drums up great interest in the public. Sadly though not everyone is in the financial position to hire a professional hypnotherapist to help them achieve their goals.With the advent of the internet has come an entirely new medium, one which has completely revolutionized the field of hypnotherapy. Those curious in using hypnosis to instigate a positive change within themselves no longer have to spend hundreds, or even thousands of dollars on a in-person visit to a hypnotherapist. Thanks to the wonders of technology you can now find a hypnosis download for almost any problem you can think of in a matter of minutes for as little as ten dollars!What is a Hypnosis Download? A hypnosis download is a digital recording (mp3) produced by a hypnotherapist. Due to their nature as a resell-able product a hypnotherapist can create a hypnosis download and charge considerably less for it than then would a one to one session. For example a hypnotherapist who may charge 200 an hour for a personal session might only charge 15 for a hypnosis download which takes them an hour or two to record. Because they can expect to sell hundreds of the hypnosis downloads they are actually making more money than they would from a personal session.When you also take into consideration that you can re-listen to a hypnosis download over and over again, at your leisure it's easy to see when this has become the most popular method of hypnotherapy available.How Do I Choose From All These Hypnosis Downloads? The attractiveness of digital hypnosis recordings has helped see hundreds of hypnosis download sites spring up over the internet. It of course goes without saying that some are better than others, so how do you ensure that you find the right hypnosis download for you from a reputable hypnotherapist? With so much choice it can be tricky and that is why I have created this short list to help you.1. Check The Hypnotherapist's Background and Qualifications. Any site selling hypnosis downloads that is worth its salt will provide you will information on the hypnotherapist they use to record their sessions. You want to make sure you get at least a name, background and their qualifications as a hypnotherapist. If you can't find this anywhere on the site then there's a good chance that either the site doesn't use a professional hypnotherapist or that the site is poorly put together. Whatever the reason you should probably avoid making a purchase.2. Find a Free Sample. This is a good mark of whether a site is proud of its product or not. If you can't find a free sample of one of their hypnosis downloads, whether it be 30 seconds or 30 minutes then you really can't trust the quality they provide.Samples are important for another reason. Going into a hypnotic state of mind is a lot harder if you struggle to understand the hypnotherapist's accent. An accent is entirely subjective of course and we all have one, but while someone may enjoy hearing a British hypnotherapist someone else may not.3. Test the Customer Service. Before you buy a hypnosis download it is well worth contacting the site's customer service with any questions you might have. Then you can judge how helpful they'll be if you need to contact them for any reason after you've made your purchase.4. Look for the Refund Policy. While hypnosis downloads tend to have high success rates they don't always work. It could be that you're not that susceptible to hypnotherapy or the session just wasn't right for you. So in the unlikely event that you aren't happy with your purchase you need to know your rights when it comes to a refund. Some sites don't offer refunds because of the digital nature of the products, but most will give you a certain period of time to contact them if you wish to receive a refund.5. The More Information The Better! Basically the more information you can find about a website and their products the more likely they are to be trustworthy and high quality. One important factor is the run time of the hypnosis download. I've seen sessions varying from ten minutes to two hours, you have to decide what'll be right for you. For some people quick sessions are very effective, and they obviously don't take up a lot of time. Others prefer to spend hours in an hypnotic state.Price is also significant in your choice. In my experience you don't have to spend over twenty dollars to get a great, high quality hypnosis download. In fact you should probably be more wary of high priced hypnosis downloads as the hypnotherapist may be more concerned with making money than the treatment they offer, it can also be more difficult to get a refund on the more expensive hypnosis downloads.I hope this guide has provided you with all the knowledge you need to pick the perfect hypnosis download for your needs.Author Resource:- David Anthony is a long-time proponent and user of hypnotherapy and keeps a regularly updated blog which provides hypnosis reviews - The Hypnosis Review.http://www.thehypnosisreview.com Article From Hypnosis Articles Directory

0 Can I Blame Social Anxiety For My Failures In Life

Growing up, I always imagined that I'd eventually become successful in life. Back then, I knew nothing about social anxiety. Actually, it's only been recently that I've been able to fully understand why I am the way I am - and that it actually had a name. Granted, I knew there was something different about me because I always struggled getting along with people. I knew I was shy, but I didn't think a little "shyness" would eventually lead to the life I have now. I really had high hopes for myself. I wanted to finish university, get an exciting, high paying job and really start living life. Little did I realize that my little "shyness" problem would ensure that I experienced nothing but failure, anxiety, and persistent hopelessness. Even though my high school years were a nightmare, I suppose I did have an opportunity to turn things around once I completed university. However, by this time, my social phobia had evolved to the point where I, literally, couldn't function. This was where my real struggle started. As the years went on, I quickly realized that my life wasnt anything close to what I'd hoped it would be. I found myself giving up a good job and becoming isolated because I couldn't handle being around people. So, instead of making 50,000 a year, I was struggling to pull in 20,000. Instead of being able to buy a house, I moved back home and then into a small bachelor apartment. From the time I left high school, life was just one big disappointment after another. I had no friends, no girlfriend, no social life, and I was flat broke. Even though I'm trying to get my life back on track, in many ways that ship has sailed. As I approach my 40s, I realize that there are many things that have been taken from me by SA. Am I using social anxiety as a scapegoat? Maybe it's just that I'm lazy and have no ambition. Well, I thought of that and I don't think thats the case - I'm actually quite ambitious and I have a good work ethic - although, sometimes, I am weak-willed when it comes to fighting my social anxiety problem. I feel as though I should be tougher and that I am simply allowing this condition to ruin my life. Unfortunately, most people are very two-dimensional when it comes to things like this. They look at my lifestyle and assume that I'm lazy and an underachiever. In some cases, I can actually feel the contempt when they start asking me how my career is going. The average person has no idea how debilitating this condition can be. Somehow, we've all been taught that shyness is minor and something anyone can get over. It's dismissed as an annoying negative trait and nothing more. There is no sympathy for someone that can't get over their shyness problem - theyre simply not trying hard enough. So here's where the double whammy comes into effect. Not only does social anxiety suck all the fun out of life, but were also criticized by the rest of society for being lazy and complacent. I want to be successful more than anything, but my fear seems a lot stronger than my ambition.

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0 Girl Aloud By Emily Gale

From Amazon: Kass Kennedy is in the spotlight, thanks to her Dad. He plans on selling her soul to the Devil - or at any rate to Simon Cowell when she finds herself pushed into an X-Factor audition. Kass could just say no, but her dad's manic-depressive mood swings are a cnstant worry and he has her in an emotional half-Nelson. Just when things couldn't get worse, Kass falls for a gorgeous older boy, also named Cass. She's amazed when he appears to like her, but it turns out this boy, is her best friend's long-term crush. What's a girl to do?

On the surface, Girl, Aloud looks like a fun, fluffy book about one girl's journey to The X Factor. In reality, it's a well-written, moving story about family, friends, and what it means to stand up for yourself.

It took me a good fifty pages to get into this book, as it's written in such an unusual style. It includes dream conversations, imaginary scenarios and quite a lot of instant messaging. It wasn't at all what I was expecting, but by the end, I absolutely loved Emily Gale's style of writing. It's fresh and new, and makes her stand out from the YA crowd.

Kass's family situation took a while to unfold, and rather than being frustrating, it just made me like the characters that much more. I got to know them as they are, with no drama or medical issues, and that really allowed me to sympathise with the family as all their shortcomings are slowly revealed. Kass is a strong girl who is almost carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders, and I admired her strength and determination. She chooses her own path, along with her own friends and relationships, and proves that it's okay to make your own decisions. Kass's brother Raff was by far my favourite character. He's like a thirteen-year-old money-making businessman, and has some of the best lines in the book. His relationship with Kass develops as her story progresses, and I really enjoyed their subtle sibling rivalry.

Although Girl, Aloud looks like it's all about a reality TV show, it really isn't. The X Factor is a secondary plot thread, and t hough important to a certain degree, it doesn't define what this book is about. Don't let your preconceptions put you off -- Girl, Aloud is a witty, poignant debut novel that will leave you with a newfound appreciation for families and everything that they do.

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0 How To Start A Conversation With A Girl

The basic rules of how to start a conversation with a girl you've never met are really pretty easy. It can also be one of the most nerve racking things a guy can do until he realizes just how easy it really is.

Keep these general approach techniques in mind and you should be just fine.

1. Direct conversation starter: Often times, walking up and saying "hi" is all you need to do. With a little smile on your face, a genuine "hello" followed by a short silence can cause a woman to fill in the blanks, and your job of approaching is done. What you do after that is up to you.

2. Situational Opener/conversation starter: Pay attention to what is going on around you and see if there is an opportunity to make a funny or witty comment about it and you should have no problem getting the conversation started. Whether it's something about her, what she's wearing, what she's doing or what others are doing around you, situational conversation starters are some of the easiest to come up with quickly.

3. Opinion openers: Girls love to give their opinions on subjects and this gives you an excuse to ask her a question without her knowing for sure if you're hitting on her or genuinely interested. Girls have been known to respond very well to opinion openers about relationship, gossip or fashion issues.

4. Compliment her: Over complimenting a girl when she has done nothing to really earn it is not the best idea. It is not advisable to compliment her beauty or looks because it's something she's probably heard a lot of. Rather, compliment something she's wearing or doing and you'll have much more luck at keeping the conversation going.

Starting a conversation with a girl is just the beginning, but one of the most important parts. Luckily it's the part that's over with the quickest and then you have to entertain her with your wit, charm and other talents.

Some men understand that using talents such as music or even magic tricks can be very effective when done correctly and when you avoid the mistakes that most men make. To get more information on how to start a conversation with a girl and even use magic tricks to build attraction, visit www.PUMASkills.com

1 What Do Women Find Attractive In Men

So, what do women find attractive in men? Men often think it's things like money, power, muscles, good looks, etc. but those are very far from the top of list! Experts agree. Let's look at the five most important things.

First of all we need to mention that ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE. You do not decide you will be attracted to someone. It just happens. Just like if you suddenly encounter a large vicious snarling dog on the street, you are going to be scared. You do not decide to be scared; it just happens. Being scared, like being attracted, is entirely involuntary. Let's look at the things that make men attractive to women, regardless of what women think.

CONFIDENCE: Confidence is simply highly attractive in men. Studies have shown that women rate the most confident looking men as the most physically attractive. It doesn't matter how you met. You can certainly appear confident, but you can only get so far if internally you are not so confident. You can build confidence through successes, little or big. Start by standing up straight and not looking down when you talk to women. The material on this site will certainly help you build confidence!

INDIFFERENCE: This may seem illogical but it isn't. We all want what we can't get!

The opposite of indifference is neediness. Perhaps you had a girlfriend who became extremely needy. I'm sure you found it unattractive. Women find neediness extremely unattractive. If you say or do something, do not look at a woman for approval. If you tell a joke, do not look for approval. You are doing things for yourself - that is attractive. Hopefully they will like what you are doing too, but that must be secondary.

This can be tough if you are hung up on one girl, so do not get hung up on one girl! Not that long term monogamous relationships are bad, they're great, but she must prove herself first.

PASSION: You need to have passions in your life (other than women). Passion is attractive. If all you do is get up, go to work, come home, have dinner, beers, TV, and then crash, trying to pick up women on the weekends, you've got a boring life. Who would want to be part of that life? Not most women.

The passion is not important, but communicating it in terms of feelings and emotions is. For example, I love to flyfish and if I'm explaining the feeling of a beautiful sunrise somewhere gorgeous I'd never experience if I didn't fish, women love that. If I stick to facts and figures, "I caught 5 fish between 12 and 30 inches," that's boring to them.

I've started playing blues piano for example recently. I truly suck! It doesn't matter as chicks love it. I am having so much fun and that fun and passion shines through when I talk about it!

If you do not have any passion, you're not going to be great with women.

FUN: You had better be fun, and demonstrate it quickly, in order to attract women. Clearly not fun is unattractive. The best way to create fun is by joking and teasing. Playful teasing is fun and creates attraction.

For example, I just met two very cute younger women at Staples. They were trying to use the copying machine with great trouble, and I offered to help claiming that it was very complicated and clearly they were not technical. Now I was clearly being silly, and my expression showed it, but their reactions were amazing. After chatting and copying for 5 minutes, they gave me (I didn't ask) their phone numbers and insist we need to get together sometime!

APPEARANCE: I said good looks were way down the list and I mean it, but appearance matters to women. This is more how you dress and present yourself than innate physical beauty. Get a decent haircut, or shave your head. Throw away those ratty t-shirts. Really, throw them away TODAY! Get some decent shoes - as stupid-assed as it sounds, women care about shoes.

Now I have the sense of style of a jackass, so I go shopping with women. My brother's wife loves to shop with me and buy me clothes. I also shop with a woman I met online who has become a friend.

I commonly have women commenting on my style. I've heard, "I can't believe how cute you are" twice this week (and I'm not). This stuff, how you present yourself, which is mainly how you dress yourself, really matters to women.

You might think it is illogical, and it is to most of us men, but it really makes an enormous difference with women.

So, do women find bald men attractive? Do women find fat men attractive? Do women find muscular men attractive? Yes, yes, and yes because it doesn't matter! Physical attractiveness is so far down the list of what a woman cares about and finds attractive. It'll get you noticed, but rarely more than that!

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0 New Russian Dating Member Didie 27 Philippines Dumaguete City

didie, Female, 27 (Taurus) - Philippines Negros Oriental Dumaguete City

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I'm family oriented. I'm not hard to please, I'm such a kid at heart, it doesn't take much to make me happy. and I'm absolutely ready to meet and settle down with the right man. and when i do find him, i ill shower him with love each and every waking day of our.I am a simple woman with a good heart. In my life I always treat people with honesty and respect, and of course I want the same.I'm a down to earth person who wants to make friends.I like those with good sense of humor and can communicate well. Intelligence is an asset i admire most in a person.Friendly funny and sensible are few of the descriptions i can say about myself.I hate people who speak ill of others cause everyone has a unique character that differs her from the rest.I'm not beautiful and i`m not perfect but i`m honest, loyal, understanding and caring person and have a big heart.and i will be respect others if they can respect me.I` can be extremely quite or extremely loud.i am open minded whom can count on...i`m strong on my will.I'm always be positive thinking.

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Its not how much you have, but how much we enjoy that makes the people happy.A genuine open and honest guy. with a good sense of humor and fun loving family guy.Here to meet someone who is down to earth and easy going. I like a person to be honest. No matter what we do or how we do things the truth always comes out. With honesty you develop trust. In time you have good communication with no doubts. I hope to find my soul mate here.I want to meet a special man with a good heart, understanding, have a good sense of humor, love family life who will love me as I am and want to be loved by me. And like I told before, he must treat other people with honesty and respecting. Well, I know that there are so many gentle men out there but I believe only one of you is special for me.Further, he should have patience and good spirit towards life.

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0 Schrdingers Rapist

If you are a regular reader of the more feminist-oriented of the Freethought Blogs, Skepchick, or other feminist blogs, odds are good that you have heard of Schr"odinger's Rapist. Even if you actively avoid such blogs, you've likely encountered reactions to Schr"odinger's Rapist on other blogs. I have read the infamous Schr"odinger's Rapist post a few times, and I'd like to share my reactions. I suspect that they may be a bit different from what you've read elsewhere.BACKGROUNDTo provide a bit of context for my comments, I want to point out that the Schr"odinger's Rapist post is highly derivative (i.e., unoriginal). I read a few very similar articles back in the 1990s when I was learning about feminist and multicultural theories in graduate school. Some dealt with women and rape in virtually the same way; others dealt with the subtle forms of racism experienced by members of many ethnic minority groups. What these articles had in common was that they were tools designed to inform readers about privilege. When I note that "Schr"odinger's Rapist" is derivative, I do so not to criticize it but to place it in this broader context. Being derivative in this case is a good thing, as the post belongs to this tradition. This is why it sounded so familiar when I first read it. THE VALUE OF "SCHR"oDINGER'S RAPIST"Articles like this are not designed to bash men or to assert that all men are rapists. Rather, they are intended to provoke thought and stimulate discussion of privilege. In the U.S., male privilege and White privilege are similar to Christian privilege in that those of us who belong to these categories (i.e., White men) do not naturally go around thinking of ourselves as privileged. "Schr"odinger's Rapist" is one of many pieces of writing aimed at raising awareness of privilege, much like many of us have attempted to do with Christian privilege.The value of "Schr"odinger's Rapist" lies in the strong reactions it elicits, positive and negative, if we assume that these reactions lead to meaningful dialogue. Articles like this can be extremely effective in raising awareness and prompting discussion. Having had the opportunity to discuss (and debate) articles like this in a mixed-gender group of about 12 graduate students, I can attest to how powerful they can be. They do bring up strong feelings, but in the right environment, that is precisely what is needed.When an article like this is widely disseminated on the Internet, many who encounter it lack the context I described. Instead, it reads like a paranoid attack on men. It is dismissed, dissected, and disputed but not really discussed. That is not to say that some might not read it and broaden their perspective as a result, but I suspect that articles like this are far less effective on the Internet than as fodder for small group interaction.REACTIONS AND THEIR IMPLICATIONSPredictably, reactions to "Schr"odinger's Rapist" in the atheist community seem to be split along the usual lines. We have PZ Myers praising it as the ultimate guide for men who want to interact with women. And we have countless others dismissing it as paranoid rantings and man-bashing. These reactions highlight one of the larger divisions in our community today and should surprise no one.I find myself taking a somewhat different position. Personally, my attitude toward "Schr"odinger's Rapist" is quite favorable. I recognize what it is trying to do. I have seen how effective articles like this can be. I could even see myself using this post in a class to stimulate discussion on privilege, much as I have done before with similar articles. At the same time, I understand why we are seeing many of the strong negative reactions to the post. Without my background and knowledge of the larger context, I'd likely react the same way.Separated from this context, the protagonist of "Schr"odinger's Rapist" seems hypervigilant and even a tad paranoid. In my experience, most women (and this includes some with a history of sexual assault) do not live like this. They do not regard all men as potential threats, constantly scanning their environments for warning signs and the like. This woman sounds like she may be suffering from a fairly severe case of post-traumatic stress disorder, but of course, "that is not the point of the post".Does the post offer some decent advice for men wanting to approach unknown women? Sure. It tells men to listen and pay attention to social cues. It tells men to respect what women say. It tells men to think about the nonverbal signals they are sending. It tells men to recognize that women will differ on how they handle advances from strange men. And of course, it tells men not to threaten, grope, or assault women. My advice to a socially awkward man who was coming to me for assistance with dating would likely include these suggestions.CONCLUSIONI think that some of the negative reactions to "Schr"odinger's Rapist" are missing the point of what articles like this are trying to accomplish. The intent behind articles like this is usually constructive dialogue and not misandry. At the same time, I think that some of those praising it (and simultaneously condemning anyone who criticizes it) are mistaken as well. All this does it make it even less likely that anything productive will come from having an article like this in circulation.In the end, I think we'd all benefit - women and men - from more rational discussion and less name-calling.Subscribe to Atheist RevolutionCopyright (c) 2013 Atheist Revolution.

0 A Couple Of Words About Charisma And Political Image

By Dmitry Vasenyov

Political image is an exceedingly vital subject in the world of politics. Folks always stereotype politicians, that`s why it is essential for them to go for a correct political image to collect the majority of votes. Every politician has his firm daily schedule and commonly it is full of heated discussions, debates, business visits and unpopular decisions.

All people stereotype politicians. When we think about them we envision a serious and staunch man in a suit. Actually, it is not far away from the truth, but not every politician possesses one extremely important thing and it is charisma.

In all times charisma was something special, something that made politicians popular and powerful. Usually it is even complicated to explain what a charisma is. But when people meet someone gifted with charisma they automatically understand it. Charismatic politicians communicate with other people on a higher level: they convey people their opinion and then convince them follow it in a very easy way. And people will believe that this point of view is correct and that it will bring them happiness. This gift is extremely weighty for politicians.

Earlier it was considered that charisma is an inborn quality, but recent studies discovered that an individual can be tought to be charismatic. Actually, as soon as someone becomes politician he hires teachers to learn all peculiarities of this profession. Inter alia, they learn how to use their charisma. But we must not confuse charisma with physical attraction and sex appeal. Charisma allows its possessor to create strong emotions in people. It has nothing to do with appearance.

If a politician had a dreadful story in his past, but he has charisma it can significantly help him to improve the state of affairs. And a politician must be confident in what he does. Nonetheless, people of politics can`t rely upon charisma always. They should in no way forget about suitable and well fitting clothes because nobody canceled the adage that clothes makes the man.

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0 The Prodigal Son Part 7 Maid To Please

After his experiences of the previous day, Ray did not feel like going into work and so he phoned in sick. 'Men's troubles' was the reason given for his absence. His friends on the admin team used it all of the time.

He lay in his silken and lace bed, feeling miserable.

His sister, Heather, came to visit him. Heather was wearing a pair of slacks, an open shirt and a red pullover. She was going to play golf with some of her friends, but, as a medical student she had a interest in medical problems.

She took Ray's pulse, felt his forehead and even produced her stethoscope and used it to listen to Ray's breathing.

"There's nothing obviously wrong with you" she announced "You're depressed and agitated. A good day's sleep should help".

After Heather had left, Ray leapt out of bed. He showered, perfumed his hairless body and dressed up in a satin gold blouse, a matching red skirt and jacket set and red high heels. Underneath, he wore lace topped black stockings, a lace boy-bra and white, lace-trimmed french knickers. Ray made up his face and picked up his handbag and went out.

An hour later, he nervously entered the Duck & Ferret public house in one of the poorer districts of the city where his mate and partner in crime, Doug was waiting for him.

Ray was hoping to persuade his friend to abandon their plan to rob his mother's company. Ray had initially been up for the robbery, even though it had meant that he had had to eschew traditional masculine clothing in favour of what he now had to wear. But, weeks of having to live in feminine clothes and living a feminine life, had altered him. He was losing the masculine instincts that had made him strong, assertive and confident and was instead adopting the more feminine qualities of timidity, lack of confidence, submissiveness and even a liking for pretty, frivilous things.

He was no longer up for doing the robbery. In fact, he was scared out of his wits at the thought of being involved in crime.

He went to the bar and bought himself a glass of white wine and a pint of beer for Doug.

Doug smiled at him appreciatively "Thanks". He looked Ray up and down "Bloody hell, you look like a posh bird. If you have to dress up like a bird, wear a mini-skirt. You've got cracking legs!"

Ray went red "I didn't dress up for you! I did it for me". It was true.

Doug sneered "You actually enjoying dressing up as a woman, don't you? I can't believe it. The great Ray McBain, heir apparent of his father's criminal empire, has become Miss Moneypenny and is loving every moment of it!"

"Doug, never mind that. We have to abandon the plan to raid Al La Mode", he said in a whisper.

"What?"

"We aren't ready! We have less than two weeks before I have to away to college".

"What do you mean, we're not ready. I'm ready! As soon as you do your part. Seems to me, you're the one who isn't ready!"

Ray looked down at the tips of his high heels, unable to contradict him, for he was right.

Doug took one of his manicured hands, gently, like a lover, and then squeezed it tightly. Ray gasped in pain. Doug leant over as if to give him a kiss and whispered in his ear "Listen to me, you stupid bitch, I'm in serious trouble! I need that money like yesterday, so why don't you stop playing at house or whatever is going on inside your head, and get us the combination to the safe! The sooner you get the combination, the sooner we do the robbery and then you can become Miss World for all I care!"

The Miss World competition had been abolished seven years earlier, as a result of feminist agitation and the ascendancy of women. Doug was the one who was out of touch with the real world.

"You're hurting me! Ray protested. Doug released his hand. "Get that combination. Soon". He whispered. "Now, get out of here. I'm sick of drinking with bloody trannies!"

Shaken and in pain, Ray gulped down the rest of his wine, picked up his handbag, and stumbled out of the pub, on the verge of tears. His attempt to avert the robbery had been a complete failure. Not only that, but as a result of him having to wear skirts, Doug had lost all respect for him. He was just a "stupid bitch" to him now and he had treated him like one.

Ray couldn't face going home. If he went home, he would merely wind up in his boudoir, all sulky and miserable in silk, satin and lace.

He jumped on the tram. On the way, a drunk businesswoman in a tailored suit had tried to chat him up and she had roughly tried to paw and fondle him. Normally, Ray would have given her short shrift, but his natural feminine instincts seemed to override everything else, and he endured the woman's attentions.

He was saved by the intervention of a group of teenage boys. They were all in tight fitting, short-skirted dresses, heavily perfumed and made up and teetering on high heels. They were on a boy's night out, hoping working girls would notice them and ask them out.

They had seen Ray protesting mildly at his treatment as his suitor tried to slide one of her hands underneath his skirt and the brash, aggressive woman had found herself surrounded by a gang of handbag wielding boys.

The woman had tried to assert herself, but came under attack from a rain of blows from the boys' handbags and was forced to beat a hasty retreat down the carriage, shouting obscenities in their direction. The boys helped Ray to his feet and he thanked them sincerely.

"No need for thanks, brother" the leader of the boys said "We boys need to take care of each other". The boys resumed their seats.

Ray was impressed by the apparent solidarity of the boys towards members of their own gender.

He got out at the next stop and walked towards his next destination. Along the way, he had to walk past a building site. In the old days, before women became dominant, the workforce would have been predominantly male. However, since men had been forced to wear skirts and high heels, the workforce was now predominantly female.

The female workers had muscles, hairy arms and tattoos. When they saw Ray, the wolf whistles began, accompanied by comments like "Flash yer knickers for us, love!", "Lookat that arse!" and "Come and sit on my lap, Dollface!"

Ray was mortified and had never felt so vulnerable in his life. His head down and blushing, He had to force himself to keep moving. His high heels meant that his progress was slow, at best,but at last he was beyond the building site.

So, he thought, this is what it means to be the member of the weaker sex! To have women pawing you, wolf-whistling you and making you feel vulnerable. Still, when he had still been a member of the dominant sex, he had never considered how woman felt about some of the things he had said and done in his time, he reflected.

At last, he arrived at his destination and rang the buzzer. When he confirmed who he was, he was admitted into the building.

Debs and Charlie were waiting for him. They had been pestering him with texts and voice messages to drop around their place for some fun. He had tried to resist, until the girls had pointed out that they had helped him out after an attack by some knife wielding girls had left him semi-dressed and helpless. He had felt obliged to go around, even though he didn't want to.

He stood in front of them, clutching his handbag. The girls did not look happy. "Charlie and I are very upset with you, Ray! After all we've done for you, after all of the attention and time we've given to you, you ignore our calls and texts".

Head down, Ray mumbled an apology.

"What was that? I didn't hear much of an apology there! Did you, Charlie?"

"Nope" said the other girl.

"I'm really, really sorry" said Ray, in a louder voice.

"That's better. Now, for being a very naughty and ill-mannered boy, we've decided on your punishment". Debs produced a French Maid's outfit "Get changed into this and be quick about it!"

Ray took the shiny black uniform with its frilled apron and cap and changed into it in one of the bedroom. The uniform clung to his body and the lacy skirt fell only to his upper thigh. The slightest movement would reveal the frilly knickers he had to wear underneath his skirt.

The girls clearly intended to inflict maximum humilation on him.

He wobbled into the living room, perched on his stiletto heels.

"Very nice!" chorused the girls. Debs handed him a feather duster "Now, pretty maid, we want this flat so clean we could eat our dinner off the floor. Get to work!"

Ray spent the next two hours cleaning and dusting. It was clear that the girls didn't bother with housework at all judging from the thick layers of dust and grime and he was exhausted by the time he had finished.

The girls watched him work, amused. Occasionally, one of them would flip his skirt up as she passed him or give him a firm slap on the rump.

Ray knew that this was all part of their game to reverse the traditional gender roles to make themselves the "guys" and Ray the "girl". It was deeply humiliating all the same to have to be a cross between a housewife and a girlfriend.

But the girls hadn't finished with him yet. He was pushed onto their bed, face down and had to endure their large, penetrating dildos. Through the painful and shameful experience of being used by two girls, he was aware that this was not sex but a demonstration that, in this new woman's world, that they had the power and he had none at all.

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